Authors of Teen Manners – Cindy Post Senning and Peggy Post – explain that “etiquette” is derived from a French word that means “little sign” or “ticket.” Translated literally, etiquette simply means a collection of little reminders to help people understand how to behave in various situations.

Etiquette ensures that people know the generally acceptable rule in the society; and provides standard rules for appropriate behaviour. of etiquette A solid foundation in good manners and proper etiquette is fundamental when it comes to developing strong social skills. It is important that teenagers understand the importance of appropriate behaviour as it can directly contribute to their success in young adulthood and in the near future.

It is common for teenagers to feel uncomfortable and out of place in social situations. With this discomfort, that teen might experience embarrassment or timidity that puts him/her at a disadvantage. As a result, he/she may attempt to compensate for his discomfort by acting out in inappropriate or offensive ways.

Even though different situations and places have different rules of etiquette, the common denominator is respect. For example, the rules of etiquette of a professional football game vary from the rules of etiquette when dining out. However, understanding that basic etiquette involves the principle of treating others respectfully should enable you to proceed successfully in either venue.

At the football game, you would realise that it's rude to stand up in your seat because the people behind you might not be able to see the game. While dining out, you would know that it's rude to chew noisily, stretch over someone’s food or talk with food in your mouth because it might make irritate other diners. The etiquette for both venues is embedded in treating others how you want them to treat you.

With a solid foundation in etiquette and manners, you would feel confident as a teenager, even in new or unfamiliar situations. This can be particularly important for teens who often feel self-conscious and anxious, having trouble acclimatising to new situations.

When a teenager has strong social skills and understands how to treat others respectfully and politely, he/she can navigate virtually any kind of conversation with a teacher, parents or peers.

Enlist your teen for our etiquette summer classes from August 5-7, 2015. Visit our website: www.connaissancenow.com or call 08138113093, 08023102244 for more information.

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