Ferdybaba:


There should be no lifting of hands whatsoever on any woman....If she 'triggers' violence, the best a man should do is to leave the house or the vicinity instead of giving in to the temptation of beating her up....

Iffa hear say any man beat my sister, me and that man go enter one trouser.

Mannylex:



Wait! Really? So if you hit a man, he should walk away like a foool and not touch you? Trust me, if that man walks away, there are two things involved, your respect for him either increases or you completely lose every single respect you had for him. But from the way you just spoke, I would pick the latter.

Ehimzy:
No woman would ever hit a man unless he does something that truly disgusts her or wrenches her heart like shearing scissors ..... A guy who gets slapped by a girl..most times......really deserves it.... No matter what a woman does to you...you shouldn't raise a damn hand against her....for the love of God you went down on your knees to ask her to spend her life with you....she's supposed to be your better half

Beamborla:

Happy for you!

Creamish:


No one is perfect and there is no relationship without issues. D'u mean that the wife must be beaten for every issue? Does every issue mean "disrespect"? How d'u resolve your difference? There is no justification for wife-beating.

Stop justifying it in your head or it would affect your relationship. When U start believing something wrong is right, it overrules what your conscience says on it. Respect is not beaten out of someone. It is earned.

ivyy:
First , for the records, I'd like to state here that your post is mumuish

While I can agree that not everything is black nor white, you have failed woefully by giving invalid points.
A man who beats his wife on the basis of indiscipline loves her

Some women deliberately try to trigger violence by initiating it themselves. Only on that ground can I not castigate a man who lifts his finger on a woman.


Op just make more sense next time

runzlord:


MrsChima see your sister here^^ you guys are so angry at the 'topic title' you can no longer read with understanding, since when did disrespect become disagreement? true relationship has issues and disagreement, then a truly mature couple is meant to turn that disagreement to agreement and that can be gone through without disrespect, so no, you dont beat your wife on every issue, you hit her when she pushes you to the wall which is totally different from not disagreement, however its starts from disagreement but then it will Never get to that extent if stubbornness and disrespect is not involved, if you don't agree on something and your hubby says that the way he wants it, after pleading and making optional suggestions, you have no choice than to do it that way, that is disagreement with respect, you might not agree that moment but at the same time don't go the opposite. but when you claim equal rights and do your own thing your own way without your husband approval, that when it all begins till you hear the husbands beats his wife.

yes respect is earned, but also some people are naturally disrespectful to even those that are supposed to earn respect and are respected by majority, most times due to external factor and majorly friends....


and talking of wrong or right? what you think is wrong sometimes is actually right and what is wrong to you might be right to someone else, everybody are not the same as there are even women leaving on earth that thinks exactly the opposite way of the way you think, therefore nothing is actually wrong or right until you've tried it and it failed or worked, and you can't just assume on that because we are not the same!
the failure of most big companies in the past today(including nokia) is because they had a choice to do what's right but they thought it was wrong.

Creamish:


I can only agree with you if the lady is violent towards you or any other family member. I disagree on all other counts. I hope you know that in your bid to justifiably descend on your wife, U can actually cause her some kind of disability or worse.. kill her? I hope her disability or death is still justifiable when it happens? I also hope that U can advise you sister's hubby to descend on her when there is a disagreement stemming from disrespect.

Look.. U need to get it right. Don't marry someone who isn't respectful or someone who is ever ready to trigger a BP rise. Don't close your eyes to things U know U cannot tolerate while dating her. Dont acquire a punching bag as a wife. U will be sending the wrong messages to your kids when U justifiably deal with her.

runzlord:

Why are you now saying it somehow

Creamish:


now saying wat somehow?

basille:
This brainless dude again? I started loling when i got to the religious part. This writeup is thrash and is the perfect waste of time. If you want people to get your point try and present something Logical. Total BS.

runzlord:


like you know me before and you just hate me

runzlord:


your moniker is brainless
your topics are brainless
your dp is brainless

in short, if i'm brainless, you are beheaded nonsense.
define logical, what have you ever posted on nairaland that is logical? because i'm gaining more attention than you, you are hating, you wife would kill you in your house!!!

you have only 2 topics that had hit fp, you're talking, what are you using your brain to do? who the fvck are you, your brain did not wake up to evolution when nairaland just began, u just joined nairaland and started talking trash....

how much do you have oga with brain, who knows you, see fo0l f0oling himself that he is not a f0ol
see what seun has caused by not providing an option of captcha to avoid robots like this from creating accounts

basille:
O brainless one! You just proved yourself worthy of the name. I'm glad my post got into your nerve and I hope you die from the high blood pressure that comes with your rage.
Silly Child.

Vyolet:
The Op is such a kid. Those reasons are the silliest one could ever think of,beat up a woman cos she disobeyed your order?
Just when I thought I had read it all.

runzlord:

You're so St.upid I can't even explain, you think your are smart? I laugh, you will die mysteriously