Could somebody give me some emotional detachment techniques please?

Stephanie75:
Could somebody give me some emotional detachment techniques please?

Why do you wana detach urself emotionally to someone you claimed you love. What is the problem?

I've noticed some changes in him and I think d relationship is gonna collapse. I've tried 2 talk 2 him abt it but it seems he doesn't even wanna talk abt it.

1. Avoid sex
2. Don't ever share your deepest thoughts and feelings with him
3. Be strong when he tries to guilt trip you
4. Be nice and polite to him

Dorrobucci:
Why do you wana detach urself emotionally to someone you claimed you love. What is the problem?

.....frm som1 u claim u love...

Dorrobucci:
Why do you wana detach urself emotionally to someone you claimed you love. What is the problem?

.....frm som1 u claimed u love...

this might help....
* withdraw ur feelings.....nt all at once, buh gradually.
* dnt call him lyk u used to do bfr...stop wasting ur airtym.
* try to occupy ur mind with somtin else...maybe somtin more important dan him or try to kip urslf busy.
* give ur attention to som1 else.....hmmmmmm>>>>lemme rest me fingers.
i hope it does hlp u......

Kanmyos:
this might help....
* withdraw ur feelings.....nt all at once, buh gradually.
* dnt call him lyk u used to do bfr...stop wasting ur airtym.
* try to occupy ur mind with somtin else...maybe somtin more important dan him or try to kip urslf busy.
* give ur attention to som1 else.....hmmmmmm>>>>lemme rest me fingers.
i hope it does hlp u......

Thanks.

Stephanie75:
Thanks.

uwc

Stephanie75:
Thanks.

it works?

Youngpo413:
it works?

I guess so

Stephanie75:

I guess so

I can see you quoted the response that is why I also quote you to disregard the last statement which he said you should give your emotion to another person, please never do that for now.

Stephanie75:
I guess so

I pray so

Aromas:

I can see you quoted the response that is why I also quote you to disregard the last statement which he said you should give your emotion to another person, please never do that for now.

My bf and I had an issue b4 but it has been sorted.

Stephanie75:

My bf and I had an issue b4 but it has been sorted.

It's a good thing you guys are good again.

I tend to be an expert when it comes to killing my feelings. Overtime it is now affecting me that I seldom fall in love, and even when I feel a thing or two for someone, I can kill it at will.

This has made me avoid relationships. I have come to observe myself very well and it's not like I don't have feelings. The thing is, I do and I fall easily even. But then, as par an observant fellow that I am, if I notice even a bit of regression by the other person, then the feeling, love or whatnot is instantly dead. It takes minutes and a couple of hours to kill whatever feeling I must have had for the person.

So,I wouldn't advice that anyone take this path unless the person is ready for consequences such as mine.

dmcdad:

It's a good thing you guys are good again.

I tend to be an expert when it comes to killing my feelings. Overtime it is now affecting me that I seldom fall in love, and even when I feel a thing or two for someone, I can kill it at will.

This has made me avoid relationships. I have come to observe myself very well and it's not like I don't have feelings. The thing is, I do and I fall easily even. But then, as par an observant fellow that I am, if I notice even a bit of regression by the other person, then the feeling, love or whatnot is instantly dead. It takes minutes and a couple of hours to kill whatever feeling I must have had for the person.

So,I wouldn't advice that anyone take this path unless the person is ready for consequences such as mine.

Thank you very much.

I think you trusted too much in the past and your trust was betrayed, hence, your reason for being a (permit me to use the word) "killer of emotion"

A wise man once told me that it is better to love than to trust because if you love someone and that person hurts you, you could forgive the person but if someone betrays your trust, you might never forgive that person and even if you do, you wouldn't trust him/her anymore.


Love everyone but trust no one.

You are right. And trust is proving more and more difficult and rare nowadays.

Stephanie75:

Thank you very much.

I think you trusted too much in the past and your trust was betrayed, hence, your reason for being a (permit me to use the word) "killer of emotion"

A wise man once told me that it is better to love than to trust because if you love someone and that person hurts you, you could forgive the person but if someone betrays your trust, you might never forgive that person and even if you do, you wouldn't trust him/her anymore.


Love everyone but trust no one.