Scenario;
Your dad and his childhood friend are EXTREMELY & INSANELY RICH, time comes for you to marry, your dad and his friend tries to hook you and his friends child up for marriage, you DONT love him/her and she/he does NOT love you! Mom and dad says you have to do that to make them forever happy with you ---PLUS both parents are giving both of you a LOT of things; companies, houses, cars,money whatever, after marriage,

WHAT WOULD YOU DO?!?!

You can tell your parents that one way that they can connect the families together forever is f your mom has a child for your dads friend. You guys don't have to tell anybody and they do not have to ruin your life because of their selfish needs. They can just ruin theirs instead.

dae:

Scenario;
Your dad and his childhood friend are EXTREMELY & INSANELY RICH, time comes for you to marry, your dad and his friend tries to hook you and his friends child up for marriage, you DONT love him/her and she/he does NOT love you! Mom and dad says you have to do that to make them forever happy with you ---PLUS both parents are giving both of you a LOT of things; companies, houses, cars,money whatever, after marriage,

WHAT WOULD YOU DO?!?!

Take the offer!!!
Extreme wealth comes with LOVE.
With time, i would love her as long as she is decent looking.

Re: Parents Hooking You Up With Rich Family Friends Child To Marry,what Would You Do

I'll run away.

bro take the offer, love will come later.

simple, Ill just marry the lady for a phocking partner and get all the properties but I still can sleep with other ladies behind her back.

stillwater:

I'll run away.

Coward.

~Sauron~:

Coward.

Why are you bothered?
Somebody doesn't like me. Why should I push myself to him? Considering the way most men think from their butt. Before you know it he would say things like "Is it not your parents that pushed me to you?" I never loved you in the first place."
Abeg I'll take my parents money and run away.

stillwater:

Why are you bothered?
Somebody doesn't like me. Why should I push myself to him? Considering the way most men think from their butt. Before you know it ne would say things like "Is it not your parents that pushed me to you?" I never loved you in the first place."
Abeg I'll take my parents money and run away.

He doesn't love you initially does not mean he won't do later.
Love is patient. He has got money and both parents agree you guys should get married and reh reh reh.
Abeg, take the offer and hope for the best.
What guarantee have you got that the next guy has 100% love for you??

He doesn't love you initially does not mean he won't do later.

There's no guarantee for this either. I don't build castles in the air.

Hmmm. I will marry her and collect all the compaines, houses and cars. If in few years the marriage still doesn't work, then I would file for divorce. At least I would be financially comfortable by then.

stillwater:

I'll run away.

RUN AWAY?!?! you SCURRED?!?!?! when suffer turns you bald and u as thin as toothpick, u will RUN back home

PEOPLE talking about DIVORCE, as if you are talking about buying moin-moin for your akamu----*hisssss* come oooo!! has Nigeria turned into yankee where u can file for divorce any time you are in the mood for it

Not a bad idea if u ask me!

I second that

~smurf:

Not a bad idea if u ask me!

LOL -- what if the girl /dude WOWO??

Got ahead with the marriage,if i dont have any1 at tht time.And get divorce later.

v

For me I personally do not agree with it considering that Im not all that in love with the whatever property and money. How low can you be? I have always known myself to earn my own money and to work hard for every single thing so i will not drop that low infront of my parents and his parents especially my FATHER. NO WAY! I will never loose to him and I will never bow to his money or his property. He can kiss my aunt fanny for all I care!

Well, I will tell them off that I dont agree with this and its not their life but mine. They have options to settle this problem.

1) Let me be and dont bug me and let me run my life like the way I wanted it to be. If I end up in deep shit, I will never ask for their help. . . Since when I ever ask for their helpanywayz? Never!

2) They can not admit me as their daughter anymore for all I care. Its their choice but for me, blood is thicker than water so no matter what. Their still my parents. And like I said, I dont need them to survive. I can live by my ownself without depending on them or anybody else.

Yeah, thats what I will do

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But fortunately for me, my parents let me do whatever I want to do with my life cause their the HIP parents of today's society


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Anthony!!! Do you want me to kill you right now? Am getting annoyed with your comments!

gabrywyl:

For me I personally do not agree with it considering that Im not all that in love with the whatever property and money. How low can you be? I have always known myself to earn my own money and to work hard for every single thing so i will not drop that low infront of my parents and his parents especially my FATHER. NO WAY! I will never loose to him and I will never bow to his money or his property. He can kiss my aunt fanny for all I care!

Well, I will tell them off that I dont agree with this and its not their life but mine. They have options to settle this problem.

1) Let me be and dont bug me and let me run my life like the way I wanted it to be. If I end up in deep shit, I will never ask for their help. . . Since when I ever ask for their helpanywayz? Never!

2) They can not admit me as their daughter anymore for all I care. Its their choice but for me, blood is thicker than water so no matter what. Their still my parents. And like I said, I dont need them to survive. I can live by my ownself without depending on them or anybody else.

Yeah, thats what I will do

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But fortunately for me, my parents let me do whatever I want to do with my life cause their the HIP parents of today's society


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Anthony!!! Do you want me to kill you right now? Am getting annoyed with your comments!

Very well put , BUT lets face it, they're parents, and the "kissing aunt fanny for all u care" aint that easy to do, as if u dont know some naija parents!!! some of them chop some nasty devilish liver, they can disown children cos of that o!! Thank God for those of us who have "cool" parent sha.

yes I agree but also I mention that they can choose to disown me. It doesnt matter because it goes like this:-

I cannot say I do not appreciate their deeds towards me but than on their side, it is up to them to have children in the first place and if they do, they have to bare all consequences. i did not choose to live on earth. They are the ones whom brought me to earth.

For my part, I have a brain of my own to think and a life of my own to think. Imagine if I follow their needs and wants and when they die, I would live the rest of my life regretting for not fighting for my own happiness. We only have 1 life and its best we make the best use of it.

And also I mention that if they disown me, it doesnt matter because I have been living independantly all this while and I dont need them to help me at all cost.


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Remember guys, Money and Property is temporary and it will never bring you happiness. The day you find happiness is the day when you are contented with what you have and you appreciate your inner self.

Engage in a relationship with him/her first.Along the line,u guys might find out u have alot of things in common and love might just grow from there.
Dont reject it outrightly,dont jump in to marriage too.Give it a trial.

ifyalways:

Engage in a relationship with him/her first.Along the line,u guys might find out u have alot of things in common and love might just grow from there.
Dont reject it outrightly,dont jump in to marriage too.Give it a trial.

What if there is no attraction?

If you can see yourself loving the kid of the rich man for the right reasons, then, marry now.