Whats about d marriage tinz dis days on nairaland

4 and 6 yea

no 2 is the point. no 2 is the point.

many things join

Agree...I'm totally guilty of all.

XavierBlue:
Ladies love to marry early, but men will go for the opposite. Women wonder why they have to wait till they are older before possessing such thoughts. Ladies may marry as early as 20 but men is a rarity.


1. The commitment thingy.

The whole commitment thingy is scary. Don't tell them they'll have to commit their whole life to one lady when there are millions and other varieties out there The thing is, it easy for a lady to make a commitment but not for a man.


2. Scared of their decision.

Men always get scared of marrying the wrong person. He still posses doubt even when he's sure of the one he vouched.

3. An end to his bachelorhood.

Once you're married, your free life and fun get cuts off. Guys are scared to leave that in a hurry as being a bachelor can be fun. They want to enjoy lives so that once they're married, they won't cheat. So they believe


4. Hustling or making money first.
Men want to be more than comfortable before looking towards marriages. They want to make money, have more cars, houses and wealth before going to the alter.

5. Polygamous in nature.

Men are naturally women lovers. And commiting to one for the rest of their lives is not a decision that will be hurriedly taken. They want to sow their royal oats before before settling to one , perhaps a virgin

6. Their friends.

Ladies Marry early because their friends married early or want to marry early. Men don't want to hear of such words, money and fun maybe the thing on their mind. To them marriage na future sontin


7. Who to trust when they have the money.

This is another reason. After making money and acquiring wealth, they don't know who to trust as every female that comes their way might be regarded a gold digger who only comes for his hard hustled money and not his love. They don't know who to trust or stick to. in their quest to find a trustable partner, they end up marrying late.

Feel free to add yours


XavierBlue

Am guilty of all. Nice one OP.

This the first list laden thread on nairaland am agreeing totaally with. Spot on.


Its fun being a guy

That point no 7 is valid, couldn't be more true.

dat no. 4 suppose b no. 1

They friendzoned us.. They said we are broke..dey told us to go hustle... They dated sugar daddies.. We went to hustle...Nw we hammered... We shunned dem.. Who is to blame?

My reasons stands to be number 4.......well,in other news......










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XavierBlue:
which are you guilty of




XavierBlue

Wats d idea of putting your name after a comment when your name shows above it?

No.3's very true.

oo.. . Why the rush?

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adeaks:
Number 4 is the ish. Why marry when you don't have enough pepper in ur pocket? I wont marry till I am a billionaire.


Number 5 is not applicable at all. In Nigeria, Marriage whether traditional or english doesn't stop you from getting another wife.

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I relate with all of the above except no. 5; God help me.

fear of commitment and family responsibility.
fear of kids. Some guys hate having kids around not to mention twins.

Fortunately, all my goons are married bt here hayam...still single without a babe. It has always been friends with benefit. Maybe by next yr, I'll look out for d baby mama to be.

XavierBlue:
i tell you. Dem plenty dis days.



XavierBlue

copy cat. U dey copy cherlene

No.4, Making money man. Ladies love money and so much of it!!!!!!.

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Velocitron:
No such thing as marrying "late"

true....as long as you marry within the time frame you set for yourself.

[quote author=XavierBlue post=35483905]Ladies love to marry early, but men will go for the opposite. Women wonder why they have to wait till they are older before possessing such thoughts. Ladies may marry as early as 20 but men is a rarity.


1. The commitment thingy.

The whole commitment thingy is scary. Don't tell them they'll have to commit their whole life to one lady when there are millions and other varieties out there The thing is, it easy for a lady to make a commitment but not for a man.


2. Scared of their decision.

Men always get scared of marrying the wrong person. He still posses doubt even when he's sure of the one he vouched.

3. An end to his bachelorhood.

Once you're married, your free life and fun get cuts off. Guys are scared to leave that in a hurry as being a bachelor can be fun. They want to enjoy lives so that once they're married, they won't cheat. So they believe how old are you? Why not marry yours?

If a guy becomes rich he can get any girl of his choice without going through rigorous task of ladies who are playing hard to get.It's unfortunate that while we are hustling to make the paper,majority of our future wives have their honeypot been sample by several sugardaddies because of money.What will they leave behind for us if we eventually made the cheddar and are ready to settle down?May God help us.

because why buy DSTV explora if you can only watch one channel? Too many cheap bouquets offering various options even free-to-air!

oooh God please do wonder in my case this year,.provide me that lady that will stay and bost my heart up terms encouragement,.Lord anwer me IJN

Even though I'm a lady, I'm scared shitless of commitments, I'm even considering seeing a therapist (if they exist in 9ja) to help with this fear.

It's supposed to be a guy thing, don't know why I have to go through it

adeaks:
Number 4 is the ish. Why marry when you don't have enough pepper in ur pocket? I wont marry till I am a billionaire.


Number 5 is not applicable at all. In Nigeria, Marriage whether traditional or english doesn't stop you from getting another wife.

Mr you know the word, that billion thing is too much what happened to Proverbs 18:22 now that you wanna make billions first, permit me to ask, would you shag or not till you get the billions and marry?