1. Lack of attention and intimacy:
How long can you go without receiving love and
attention before you look somewhere else? Some
can go for only days or weeks, and others can go
for years. However, in general, women need and
desire intimacy, physical touch, and mental and
emotional attention. If you are not receiving this
from your husband or boyfriend, it will only be a
matter of time and you may seek it from another
i.e. a caring guy friend, the attentive guy who
feeds your emotional needs at your workplace, or
the hot trainer at the gym. Women deprived of
attention, compliments, and compassion; usually
have emotional affairs. That doesn't mean it
won't lead to sex, but initially they crave the
attention and compassion that has been absent
from their relationship.
2. Revenge:
Being cheated on is a very difficult act to
forgive. For those of you who have been cheated
on, you know how awful it feels. You feel
deceived, hurt, angry, sad, numb and even
violated. It also affects your self-esteem. At the
moment you find out your man cheated, your
whole body begins to shake, you begin to sweat,
your stomach drops, and you feel nauseated.
Clearly, it negatively affects your relationship,
your mood, behavior, and your ability to trust the
cheater ever again. When you have been cheated
on, some of you may want to get revenge by
making them feel the way you felt. This can lead
you, to do the cheating next. The biggest truth is
that cheating never solves a relationship
problem. Communication, assertiveness and
increasing passion and romance in your
relationship are a much better solution.
3. Bad sex:
Women need to feel desired and experience
REAL orgasms during sex. If women are getting
bad sex , not enough sex, non-emotional sex, or
"wham-bam-thank-you-mam" sex, you may
eventually lose interest in the relationship and
look elsewhere for GOOD sex! This creates a
temptation to seek sexual or emotional
satisfaction elsewhere. In my opinion, it's best to
communicate your needs to your man with the
hopes that he will step it up a notch. You can do
this on your own or with the help of a sex
therapist.
4. Weight loss/plastic surgery:
Male attention increases quickly after a boob job,
a butt implant or weight loss, and so does your
self-confidence. With all this male attention, your
temptation to cheat rises, and it takes more self-
control to resist some of those male offers.
Once you realize other guys want you, your
desire to act on it may have you feeling
euphoric. However, be careful, act wisely and
make your pros and cons list.
5. Financial independence:
When you feel financially dependent on your
husband or boyfriend, it's more difficult to speak
up in arguments or leave the relationship. The
fear of being alone and financially unstable
keeps you in a one-down position. Now that
women make their own money, enjoy working,
and are good at it, the need to stay in an
unhappy relationship is not necessary. That
feeling of power and independence can be like
seeing the red carpet laid out for you; all the
way to those other fish in the sea.
6. Low self-esteem:
When you feel insecure about yourself, you have
a need to seek validation from others. This can
be in the form of sexual, emotional, or
intellectual attention. When you don't love or
value yourself, you may project that onto the
person you are in a relationship with, and believe
they don't love or value you. Even if your
husband or boyfriend loves you greatly, you still
may cheat because you find it hard to accept
their unconditional love. I suggest reading one of
the many self-help books out there on building
your self-esteem, or get some counseling to help
improve self-confidence.
7. Feeling under-appreciated:
When you are in a relationship, you like to please
your man. Cooking a romantic dinner, buying sexy
lingerie, and listening with your heart, are just a
few ways you may show your love and
appreciation. So what happens when you don't
hear "thank you, please or I love you.” Holidays
and birthdays come and you don't receive
anything meaningful, nothing at all, not even a
verbal acknowledgment. We all have thresholds,
and once yours is reached, you may decide to
act on a "thank you, please, or I love you"
coming from another direction. Let your man
know he may lose you if he continues to take
you for granted.
8. Bored:
He doesn't spray on that good smelling cologne
anymore, his clothing is wrinkled, stained or way
out-of- date. When he comes home from work
(assuming he has a job), it's the same old thing;
"what's for dinner"? When the weekend comes,
he says he's tired and just wants to relax at
home, or go out to the same sports bar you go
every weekend. The routine is the same over and
over again. You are no longer on the same page.
You barely have anything in common. You are
feeling emotionally distant from him. You find
yourself looking at other prospects and fantasize
about being with someone else. You begin to
feel excited (something you haven't felt in
"forever" just thinking about it. There are many
ways to spice up an old, tired relationship.
Boredom is something that can be resolved with
a little, or sometimes a moderate amount of
effort. It requires both of you introducing new
ideas and behaviors, and some spontaneity. Be
sure of what you want.

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Women Need No Reason To cheat. If cheating is in any body's DNA they will cheat.

The poster below me.

INTROVERT how the mighty has fallen, from 1st always to 3rd, you remind me of PDP.

Because d oda guy is a step ahead of her boyfrnd or husband

INTROVERT:

seems like u overslept today. lol.

Which one con be "wham-bam-thank-you-mam" sex Illd love to see it ohh

Ikennakenn:
Which one con be "wham-bam-thank-you-mam" sex
Illd love to see it ohh

Lol.

HungerBAD:
Women Need No Reason To cheat. If cheating is in any body's DNA they will cheat.

The poster below me.

INTROVERT how the mighty has fallen, from 1st always to 3rd, you remind me of PDP.

You called me a robot before, yeah?

If it is in the blood. Then, cheating is inevitable

11. it's in their DNA

I don't play with number 3, i make sure i give her well to the point of diminishing marginal utility.

o.k

my sister nawa o all this excuse just to cheat?

They cheat because they want to cheat

K

9.. .......Bitchinggggg around

gamaliel121:
9.. .......Bitchinggggg around

Lol.

How come you didn't put money That should be the number one reason.

Why do you think those girls who have young boyfriends keep running after Old Alhajis. Definitely not for the sex but mainly for the money.

adeaks:
How come you didn't put money That should be the number one reason.

Why do you think those girls who have young boyfriends keep running after Old Alhajis. Definitely not for the sex but mainly for the money.

Nice one.

Bitches aint loyal