She's not outstanding in looks but she has 3 Master's Degrees and is in the final quarter of her Phd, currently contracts with the World Bank and is working for the United nations, all at the age of 26yrs!

Guys: If she approached you for a relationship,  would u stay? Please be real

Girls: Would u approach to date this guy if u know he only has a Bachelor's degree, not good-looking and not rich.

Yes I will accept her. Want you to knw dt a person is entirely different from his/her degree

thanks but this is not about me though, just wondering if i'll do it if i was in that position, because a friend of mine is in that position right now.

Yeah! Tell him to go for her man

So she is ugly but let me manage her, Like for the rest of my life, let me swear b4 God to love her till death, God will not know am lieing, but its only a small lie, and after all she is ugly, she should be happy for a hubby like me.

hard to tell but i think i will

ain't nothing bad in it

@Whitelexi, Sure you say it is not about you, when i think that it is. Why do you need others opions on if you should or should not date someone? Why is a girl status as for as her having all these degrees and making xx amount of money important. We never ask the questions that mean something. Does she have a heart? Money and social status are just what makes the world like you. But grace and humbleness go along way.

Hi LetterGirl,  2 things
obviously u don't know me, because my cardinal principle is to avoid telling lies.
secondly, i don't need anyone to help me make up my mind about dating or marrying,  and just for your info, my wifey isn't too far off, she's on this site as well so forget all this.

Thank heavens the girl in the story isn't Nigerian, I only wonder how it would've been if she was

@Whitelexi, I am so sorry if i offended you. I was merely kidding,it nice to hear that you are a person that wants to maintain honesty. There is not many individuals as yourself. I was simply stating what i felt mattered in life, being that this is a message board i feel that should be okay to do. I would hope individuals would think or at least consider some of things that i wrote. By the way no i am not a nigerian woman i'm african american/ But i feel there is no difference we are all human beings and god did create us. T'care.

I will definitely accept with arms open wide, that is what they call Opportunity in English language.
I'm glad you said "for a relationship" and not "for marriage"

LetterGirl:

@Whitelexi, I am so sorry if i offended you. I was merely kidding,it nice to hear that you are a person that wants to maintain honesty. There is not many individuals as yourself. I was simply stating what i felt mattered in life, being that this is a message board i feel that should be okay to do. I would hope individuals would think or at least consider some of things that i wrote. By the way no i am not a nigerian woman i'm african american/ But i feel there is no difference we are all human beings and god did create us. T'care.

Thanks letterGirl, I'm sorry if i sounded hostile a bit

It's cool Lexi You's my people!

is she the junior sister of Condi?

@topic. I think the 1st tn da attracts is the looks. If she no fine, e go hard o. For God sake my kids got to be gud lookin. What about companionship,, understanding?

kennyuche:

@topic. I think the 1st tn da attracts is the looks. If she no fine, e go hard o. For God sake my kids got to be good lookin. What about companionship,, understanding?

Haba man, you yasef fine Abeg post ya pix make we see

On the companionship and understanding angle, I give you good points there sha

windywendy expected to see your pics too

Yeah mo, keep expecting. You might get lucky someday

Yeah, why dont peeps like to post their pics on the site sef? them no want make we see their looks?

kennyuche:

@topic. I think the 1st tn da attracts is the looks. If she no fine, e go hard o. For God sake my kids got to be good lookin. What about companionship,, understanding?

Forget about your kids' looks, they will either be hot brained like their mum or, just like u Lol

why should he be bothered about her educational qualifications,i think what really matters in a relationship is love,if he is in love with her and he is sure she is in love with him.then why dont he give it a try?who knows he might just be lucky.infact her educational qualifications should spur him up to work harder and gain more qualifications than hers.in my own opinion any man that is afraid to approach a woman cause she is more successful than him is a loser,cause he should see her as someone who would really help him in being successful which is more better than a woman who dosent contribute to the success of her man.and also i believe a woman in love can be tamed to respect her man.

ThoniaSlim:

why should he be bothered about her educational qualifications,i think what really matters in a relationship is love,if he is in love with her and he is sure she is in love with him.then why don't he give it a try?who knows he might just be lucky.infact her educational qualifications should spur him up to work harder and gain more qualifications than hers.in my own opinion any man that is afraid to approach a woman cause she is more successful than him is a loser,cause he should see her as someone who would really help him in being successful which is more better than a woman who dosent contribute to the success of her man.and also i believe a woman in love can be tamed to respect her man.

As much as i want to agree that its a wise thing to do, i also think the woman in question really matters. In this case, she's not nigerian but imagine how it would be like if she was indeed nigerian, it would be more like a contest and she'd take advantage of her qualifications cos u and i know how qualifications are praised in nigeria and how everything revolves around what u have. For a man, it may not be too bad, but place a woman there with a PHd and 3 masters the man is in trouble if he cant meet up

Lol, thats a clear example of a woman marrying a man!

ThoniaSlim:

and also i believe a woman in love can be tamed to respect her man.

Tamed? what Are we talking humans here or (tamable) animals

.@windwendy, evn if i no fine @least make ma wife fine so that we go help d kids too

yes but she has to understand that God gives it and he can take it back anytime he wants therefore don't love the money but love me period,

I would if she's good looking and and takes care of me

If d success doesnt go into her brain no stress.

who wouldnt Guyz wanna date rich women or gurls from rich homes, most of the time they dont even love her

Lol money answereth all things

acidrop:

who wouldnt Guys want to date rich women or girls from rich homes, most of the time they don't even love her

Lol@kokoletz,  Meanwhile, on a serious note, @acridop just made a huge point,  men sometimes marry though they don't love, is it because they want to identify with the woman's success or academical background? I still think they do so if they allow the success of a woman to intimidate them,  so invariably, would u say they are losers?

YESSS, i will