Anybody in d house pls I need ur opinion. I blieve in the next 2years I shuld b talking marriage i.e staying and living wit this person 4 the rest of my life no matter her kind of characters

Ok I will tell you why marriage crumblessssss Go sleep with your partner's best friend and let your partner know. you will then know why marriage crumblesssss

kokoletz:

Anybody in d house please I need your opinion. I blieve in the next 2years I shuld b talking marriage i.e staying and living wit this person for the rest of my life no matter her kind of characters

Better let her 'kind of character' matter. oh!!!

@ topic - its about give and take, and if one party is doing all the giving, while the other is doing all the taking, then CCCCCCRRRRRRAAAAASSSSSHHHH!!!, there goes the marriage.

i tell u, it's a very complicated issue, cos there's more to it. Although i'm not married yet i have friends that are married and read loads about marriage.

My Godfather would always say try as much as possible to marry ur bestfriend, cos along the line, strong friendship is the the only force that can bind u together.

Marriage is a risk, SO LOOK b4 U LOOK

if you're tasting the forbidden fruit, the marriage will end in failure

Not all marriages are having any foundation out of bed as mattrases get weaker the love get reduced. remeber how you build your love matter most.

Hmmmmmm. Thinking.

Eeeeeehe! Marriage

Eeeeeehe! Marriage

Marriage crumbles when the woman is PROVIDING for the family and the man is just being BOSSY!! ("I AM A MAN")

Men I wnt you to knw dt women generally do say dt what a man can do a woman can do better let them all they up this task of taking care of d family

sweetie, not in that form ooo. you want make we quench. anyway guys shd learn to provide for the family so that we can use our own money to take care of our needs (and just support them). if they do that, we shall always be by their side and RESPECT them. honestly i dont see how a woman can respect a man that cant provide PURE WATER for her. and i learnt men hate DISRESPECT, thats where marriage starts to crumble I.E DISRESPECT.

Marriage can go wrong from many different angles, men and women alike, i personally think that the core reason will be what the western world has done to human race. God created an order and it was understood, a man is a man, and a woman is a woman, but all these have been altered and today, in many marriages, the woman is the man, like she's the man!
Women now have balls as well, i've seen some in mags and tv. So whats this thread about

we are not talking about that issue. Gay marriages and their stuff and i dont think its the core reason for STRAIGHT marriages, but for them.

We are talking about reasons why opposite sex marriages fail. This is our main concern.

marriages crumble because ,

Marriage crumble because
1) the foundation is weak and the building components are substandard like Lagos buildings.
2)they lack maintenance like Nigerian roads.

Mariage crumbles as a result of many factors which include mutual understanding, family backgrounds, character,and pride.

marriage fails because
1. the foundation is one either the man or the woman or both and not on God.
2. Both parties work by the same rule i.e. GIVE ME, GIVE ME,
3. Each party sees the world through a mirror rather than through a window. (He(She) sees him(her)self alone instead of the other person)
4. Instead of "talking", they keep "touching"_{y'all know what I mean}

marriage crumbles because it is delicate like hurriedly baked cookies!!

marriages crumble because they are like stacked cards placed in a gutsy wind!

Marraige crumbles because either one partner stopped listening and understanding what the other is/has been saying? Or both stop listening to each other, finito

Because there is an ant that eats the marriage up