oseod:
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Woman, I understand your predicament...
Not every woman is comfortable giving mouthaction, marriage shouldn't always be about what the man wants....marriage is more about understanding


To Every woman bashing op here

If your husband told you to lick/suck his anus (some men have some weird sexual fantasies......true!!!)
Or hand fisting your anus or vaginus
Or better still whip u like a goat when having šex with u (50 shades of gray style)

Would you agree just to save your marriage!!!!
Would you!!!!!!

Liberally bias crowd ass-lickers


Note
Those fetishes I posted above might be a big deal to some of you, but is not a big deal to some other women (e.g, porn actresses)

Same thing here, mouthaction doesn't sound a big deal to some of you, but is a big deal to some other women

We all have some principles or doctrines we aren't willing to compromise,
So why attack the woman?

Shame on all of you....

Just because mouthaction have become a generally accepted sex style(or whatever) doesn't mean everbody is okay with it

BTW I see nothing wrong in mouthaction

But the woman doesn't feel comfortable with it....shey its now her fault ni?

The man can go outside to get mouthaction since his wife didnt give him
The woman can also go outside to find love since her husband is denying her nau? No be so?

Woman

Best thing is to talk to your husband to know the limits of your sexuality
(The ones you or him can accept and the ones you can't,

And also to know the principles you are willing to compromise....then work on this, and you can still have a great sexual relationship together, even better than those who give mouthaction)

Many marriages that collapsed, the wives were good at sucking cucumber

XuteSleeks:


I think she is telling the truth. Here's another truth...the only way he's gon be saved from it is by deliverance. There is a spirit behind porn.
Secondly, whether you give in to his mouth action plea or not he will still cheat on you not cos he doesn't love you; in fact he might be deeply in love with you but like I said it is a spirit and the actual sin is not just in watching it but what it drives one to do.
Summary: Intensify your prayers that he will one day seek deliverance and be a loving wife despite all. It might encourage his conscience to judge him.

ConfessionsNgr:



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daimsy:
congrats.

jadelyn007:
shut the fucccck up if you are too dumb to comprehend or give your advise and move the hell on. Do I look like I am the Op? Why are you quoting me to talk trash?

xmaticguy:
what's the big deal in mouth action?

Sunseeker:
Some woman are Foolish !!
He paid dowry and now your fighting because of duty ! d ting is sweet but your forming like ingrate.
Oya, when dey bring a new wife from da village u will cry.

Chibuhealth:
See this one ooo! Dey there make pant dey wear you. Hence he is ur hysband, give him everything both front and back, ontop and angle 90 even angle 360. Nawaooo... Wen u reach church you do church own. Don't spoil ur marriage. Lekwanu m anya biko nu? Who your speaking in tongue don help?

ConfessionsNgr:



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GodblessNig247:


Silence is the best answer for a dumb ass like u. Tell that to Ur husband and teach Ur kids how to say shut the Bleep up. premature baby

MadCow1:


Tell the woman say if she no such her husband prick, there are a stack of babes around that would such it for him for free.

If he is into porn, then she had better be there when he watches it and practice what they see together. She should make him comfortable with her to be able to indulge in his vices in her presence. If she fights it, he would just learn how to hide and watch it better.

The best way to fight this is not going to pastor or antagonising him. She sounds like a bonce saying she would not sick her husbands prick. Sex is one of the pillars of marriage and bad or poor sexual life is one of the biggest causes of break ups in marriages. I know married couples who indulge in some really freaky sexual escapades. If your husband or wife can't be sexually expressive in front of their partners, who would they then be free sexually with?

The woman sounds like who would be horrible in bed and only bleeps missionary style. Bible says nothing about sexual limitations in marriage. If your husband likes to put his prick inside your ear, you better take those earrings and earphones off and position that ear, same way if your wife likes to have her coochie munched, better buy some whipped cream and strawberries and get down to business if not na your house boy or neighbour go dey chop her kpomo inside your house.

This is why I solicit sex during courtship as sexual compatibility is just as important as emotional compatibility. I can almost bet that if that guy ducked that woman during courtship, they wouldn't be married today.

VenusBetty: Eh babes, you can even watch it together at home and alone. But i don't buy the idea of him having it on his phone and laptop. You're married girl.

jadelyn007: God bless you dearie. I pity girls who think blowjobs and all sorts will keep a man from cheating and I wonder how high they are willing to jump to keep a mans roving eye and wandering dickkkkkk.

Just pray you don't find a man who's really into crazy fantasy bullshit(S&M), all these keep a man talk will fly out of the window.

Madam Op if you r not comfortable with it, don't do it, do not let anybody coerce you with that hackneyed "before he goes looking for it outside" line. If your husband will cheat he will cheat, there is nothing you can do about it.

Do not delude ourself into thinking you can do anything to stop a man who wants to cheat especially one who is neckdeep in pornography.

He wants blow*jobs today, tomorrow he gets bored n wants to take it a step further forgetting that you are not a pörnstar.

Infact prepare for it, cos he will soon cheat wether you eventually give him the Mouth Gig or not.
The main problem is not the blow*job request even, the major problem is in the pornography addiction.

jadelyn007:
God bless you dearie. I pity girls who think blowjobs and all sorts will keep a man from cheating and I wonder how high they are willing to jump to keep a mans roving eye and wandering dickkkkkk.

Just pray you don't find a man who's really into crazy fantasy bullshit(S&M), all these keep a man talk will fly out of the window.

Madam Op if you r not comfortable with it, don't do it, do not let anybody coerce you with that hackneyed "before he goes looking for it outside" line. If your husband will cheat he will cheat, there is nothing you can do about it.

Do not delude ourself into thinking you can do anything to stop a man who wants to cheat especially one who is neckdeep in pornography.

He wants blow*jobs today, tomorrow he gets bored n wants to take it a step further forgetting that you are not a IndecentStar.

Infact prepare for it, cos he will soon cheat wether you eventually give him the Mouth Gig or not.
The main problem is not the blow*job request even, the major problem is in the pornography addiction.

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Gaidenk:

Oga u all should stop speaking without discernment. How is someone filled with The Spirit also possessed,cos that's what u saying if he need deliverance. Indeed there is a Spirit behind porn,if he trully is Spirit filled all he need to do is renew his mind not go for deliverance. You all should stop glorifying demons. For a true born again filled with the spirit,he can only be influenced and not possessed. Hope u gettit.

XuteSleeks:

K. Thanks sir. Cheers.

Ayomivic:

I am so very happy for this comment. These are some of the comments that encourage me to live for Christ. May God bless you and the few that know that fellowers of Christ are different.

if you are reading this post, i want to tell you, what you and your husband are facing right now is temptation which is neccessary, and compusory for all christians as long as we still remain in this sinful world. If you are not text, what proof do you have to call yourself Christian. What you need to do now is to make sure you don't fall into the temptation . Jesus was tempted but he overcame the temptation.

My first advice to you is that,You should'nt have seaked advice from social forum like this.Which advice or answer do you expect to get here?
On this forum, there are different kind of people ,different kind of faiths,atheists ,pagans etc are here.As a Christian, You have two things to guide you. first, the Scripure,second ,the Holy Spirit and they have done their job, that was why you know it is ungodly to do what your husband demands for. Now, the ball is in your court. Believe me, that spirit spoke to your husband too, he just wave it aside to satisfy flesh
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Secondly- be firmed in your faith, in any cercumstance, in any deceisson let God be first.Always aske yourslf this quetions, " what does God want in this kind of situation" ? Does God permit this? and the holy spirit would guide you. If you are sure be firmed in your faith even to the point of death .Don't be scared your husband would sent you parking, or another woman would take your place.Let God determine your place. When we try to gather we scatter and when we try to scatter we gather. Let me ask you. If after you gave mouth action to your husband, he demand for sodomy,then three some, what if he demands to have taste of your sister,mother, would you still do it to save your marriage? That mean what you fear would surely happen if you give it to him. Remember Jesus said those who lost their life for him would find it and those who try to find their life would lost. Try to stay on the side of God then you would find out that what you are afraid of is just illusion. If you stay on the side of God you will later find out that Instead of shame,you get glory, instead of demotion ,promotion, instead of cry and sorrow, you get laugh and joy, intead of loosing you husband to devil ,you found him back in Christ . After Jesus overcame templation ,Angel came and minister unto him.

Pls, sister. Don't be arrogant in the way you explaine thing to your husband,don't raise your voice at him ,don't behalve as if you are holy than him,don't see him as Devil.He is till your lovely husband who is just facing temptation, help him to find himself back. Pray for him and show more love to him. If you need to beg him ,beg him. If you need to pet him pet him, if he got angry dont join him in angry to provoke him. Humble yourself and be perfect. Pull him out of fire and let your joy returns back to you

PasNina:
Get_in biatch

anumide:
Excuse me, is everything ok?

PasNina:
Nope .... everything is not ok ma'am.

anumide:
ok, so how can I help you?