I just sat down somewhere around the planet today, and began to think about the rate at which single girls in nigeria are having children out of wedlock; to say that it is worrisome is an understatement, it is very disgusting and a sign that the nigerian society has gone to the woods.

could this malaise be as a result of the fact that girls are trying to trap men with unwanted pregnancies and the affected men decide that they wont be trapped into marriage through that strategy?

or is it that nigerian women are becoming so promiscuous and stupid, that they have forgotten how to insist on protection?


or is it that the nigerian women are getting into menopause without husbands, and they think becoming baby mamas is the best option?

please, am confused and worried here, i need matured opinions.

ishilove and rocktation, this is a very important topic, pls move to the front page.

cc: dborn2fuck (renowned baby papa on nairaland)

And they will keep increasing... then u will know that girls are d real magas... dey never learn

Another post to bash women again!!

Do these women conceive immaculately?

Result of Gender equality

Court Wedding contribute to it.

Ladies been forming Miss Independent.

Peer influence, major factor, they refuse to learn from our fore fathers, All in the name of Civilization.

raayah:
Another post to bash women again!!

Do these women conceive immaculately?

You're a sissy trapped in a man's body.
Chai!

raayah:
Another post to bash women again!!
Do these women conceive immaculately?

As in eh... d thing tire me sef. Ah don start to dey pity 9ja women sef.

Rapunzel001:


As in eh... d thing tire me sef. Ah don start to dey pity 9ja women sef.

my friend. this is what is happening in today's nigerian society, and we need to talk about it, before it gets out of hand; maybe one day, if we are not careful, young men like you wont find any single lady without a child to marry,.. it is a serious issue

jcflex:
Result of Gender equality

Court Wedding contribute to it.

Ladies been forming Miss Independent.

Peer influence, major factor, they refuse to learn from our fore fathers, All in the name of Civilization.

I tire for una oh.

Ladies are independent, working for their money .. we call them bad, they are not wife-material.

Ladies decide to stay at home while husband brings money ... we say they are gold diggers.

You people cannot be satisfied.

mobuch:


my friend. this is what is happening in today's nigerian society, and we need to talk about it, before it gets out of hand; maybe one day, if we are not careful, young men like you wont find any single lady without a child to marry,.. it is a serious issue

No you are exagerrating the issue. There is no increase in the amount of unmarried ladies with kids.

If you want to prove me wrong, bring out statistical evidence.

Women bashers! If women are so bad , marry a man.

raayah:


No you are exagerrating the issue. There is no increase in the amount of unmarried ladies with kids.

If you want to prove me wrong, bring out statistical evidence.

Women bashers! If women are so bad , marry a man.

the statistics is easy to provide, and i will give u an assignment; how many single ladies do u have within 500 to 1000metres on your street; how many have kids out of wedlock?

mobuch:



the statistics is easy to provide, and i will give u an assignment; how many single ladies do u have within 500 to 1000metres on your street; how many have kids out of wedlock?

I only personally know one single lady with kid. She gave birth to that kid im the early 2000's.
All my friends are happily married with kids.

Besides, we banned postinor, we stigmatize abortion and birth control pills. The person who is in charge of safe sex in Nigeria is the man. He is the one with access to contraception.

Women dont really have much to do in order to protect themselves in this country.

Nigerian men have failed us.

and dem say men are the magas.so who are the real magas?

raayah:


I only personally know one single lady with kid. She gave birth to that kid im the early 2000's.
All my friends are happily married with kids.

Besides, we banned postinor, we stigmatize abortion and birth control pills. The person who is in charge of safe sex in Nigeria is the man. He is the one with access to contraception.

Women dont really have much to do in order to protect themselves in this country.

Nigerian men have failed us.

cry me a river

jcflex:
Result of Gender equality

Court Wedding contribute to it.

Ladies been forming Miss Independent.

Peer influence, major factor, they refuse to learn from our fore fathers, All in the name of Civilization.

Bravo monsieur! You said it all.

raayah:


I only personally know one single lady with kid. She gave birth to that kid im the early 2000's.
All my friends are happily married with kids.

Besides, we banned postinor, we stigmatize abortion and birth control pills. The person who is in charge of safe sex in Nigeria is the man. He is the one with access to contraception.

Women dont really have much to do in order to protect themselves in this country.

Nigerian men have failed us.

out of 100 single girls in my area at ajah, over 41 have between one and three kids out of wedlock.....

mobuch:



out of 100 single girls in my area at ajah, over 41 have between one and three kids out of wedlock.....

Then marry the other 59 without kids and stop wincing. If you don't have a solution to the problem, keep your mouth shut.

Nairaland men like bashing women for no reason.

Okada plz drop me here....diz a place 2 be

raayah:


Then marry the other 59 without kids and stop wincing. If you don't have a solution to the problem, keep your mouth shut.

Nairaland men like bashing women for no reason.

i wish i can marry the other 59, but unfortunately, my religion preaches only one wife, which i already have. am only opening this thread for the sake of single young boys like u.

Hmmm.
Nigeria girls are ingrained with the "follow follow" attitude. They tend to follow an on going trend so as not to be left behind - keeping up with the jonesses.
Presumably it seems like a title to them 'cause I really don't know the joy they derive from giving birth to children outside wedlock.
So sad & unfortunate that our girls only copy negative things that will in no way influence their life positively.

donholy28:
And they will keep increasing... then u will know that girls are d real magas... dey never learn

I like this comment.




Y'know, I was talking with this bird the other day and she was going on and on about how she chop guys and all. In her little mind she's a good player




I was like dam it girl. Do you think guys care about what they spend on you when they want to nail you?

It's all about choice. If i decide not to marry and become a single mother, How does that change your destiny? And If those men decide not to marry these women and become single fathers, How is it your concern? Go make money and live your life however you want it. Ce' La vier

Shortyy:
It's all about choice. If i decide not to marry and become a single mother, How does that change your destiny? And If those men decide not to marry these women and become single fathers, How is it your concern? Go make money and live your life however you want it. Ce' La vier

am already a made and advanced man, by all standards. Am just trying to state facts as they are in the nigerian society,... an australian lady i was just discussing with in her office some minutes ago also talked about it, and i wonder how she got to know what goes on in nigeria.

mobuch:
I just sat down somewhere around the planet today, and began to think about the rate at which single girls in nigeria are having children out of wedlock; to say that it is worrisome is an understatement, it is very disgusting and a sign that the nigerian society has gone to the woods.

could this malaise be as a result of the fact that girls are trying to trap men with unwanted pregnancies and the affected men decide that they wont be trapped into marriage through that strategy?

or is it that nigerian women are becoming so promiscuous and stupid, that they have forgotten how to insist on protection?


or is it that the nigerian women are getting into menopause without husbands, and they think becoming baby mamas is the best option?

please, am confused and worried here, i need matured opinions.

ishilove and rocktation, this is a very important topic, pls move to the front page.

cc: dborn2fuck (renowned baby papa on nairaland)

Whatever the answer is, it'll always be the woman's fault, so long as you're concerned. Remember, it takes two to tango.

yer baby mommaz
(especialli d ones wu purpozely choose dat lifestyle)
r nothin but shamelezz,
valuelezz, girlz wit no
home trainin'

shaybebaby iz one
of dem
she actualli publicly displayz
ha son dat she birthed 4 a whiteman
wu haznt married ha till date
even tho d child iz now ova d age of 3

3yearz + d additional yearz dey
spent juss fvckin'
nd d guy still doesnt see ha fit
4 marriage

deeez hoooez r gettin'
dumber by d day!

jcflex:
Result of Gender equality

Court Wedding contribute to it.

Ladies been forming Miss Independent.

Peer influence, major factor, they refuse to learn from our fore fathers, All in the name of Civilization.

What does having a child out of wedlock have to with gender equality?

raayah:
Another post to bash women again!!

Do these women conceive immaculately?

Oya ass kisser to the rescue
You wont let the ladies answer
you have concluded its a thread to bash women
I hope this time they answer your pathetic PMs

raayah:
Another post to bash women again!!

Do these women conceive immaculately?

raayah:

I tire for una oh.
Ladies are independent, working for their money .. we call them bad, they are not wife-material.
Ladies decide to stay at home while husband brings money ... we say they are gold diggers.
You people cannot be satisfied.

raayah:

No you are exagerrating the issue. There is no increase in the amount of unmarried ladies with kids.
If you want to prove me wrong, bring out statistical evidence.
Women bashers! If women are so bad , marry a man.

raayah:

I only personally know one single lady with kid. She gave birth to that kid im the early 2000's.
All my friends are happily married with kids.
Besides, we banned postinor, we stigmatize abortion and birth control pills. The person who is in charge of safe sex in Nigeria is the man. He is the one with access to contraception.
Women dont really have much to do in order to protect themselves in this country.
Nigerian men have failed us.

yuh shud remove the "m" next
2 yuh moniker
paained woman lyk yuh

and the nairaland ladies, wont come here to defend themselves; its like majority of single ladies on nairaland are baby mamas. hmmn

True yan, just saw one of my neighbour last weekend with a potruded tommy! Funny enough she's single. Me and my bro concluded boys are now genous donor, and if we didn't caution this now............Nigeria will be ......