PunkyVeer:


Meaning? So, you wanna be asked out by a female?

smudge2079:


pls do it to me too Merlissa... everything is in ur name

Merlissa:
As for me, it's not wrong..


I'd totally ask him out

You are wooing somebody abi?

Theres nothing bad if the lady does it nicely though..

booqee:
haaaaaa my sister na so ee easy reach.. I don't think i have the nerve.. i'm always worried about what the guy might think...or even worse, rejection. ahhhhh

An2elect2:
Watch the most confused men on earth aka Nigerian men come to tell you is right here and treat like a fucking piece of rag in real life.

Oh Lord, why am i here in this world with Nigerian men?

PunkyVeer:
I don't have it in me to blatantly ask a guy out. I'm too old skool. I'd just show him with my actions that I am. You know, smile at him, talk up a storm, be subtly flirtatious, etc. But to say it to him straight away? Hells to da noh!

ehjiwummy:

Asking a guy out is totally wrong,it limit your pride as a woman.our mothers didn't ask our fathers out during their time.let stop following white people steps.wait upon the lord and the right one will fall for u.

justi4jesu:



Every guy on Nairaland is saying its cool whereas in real life they know its sucks

raayah:
Not in Nigeria,, girls that express their desire for men are called oloshos.

They are not husband material.

Slimzjoe:


Bearing the Fact that Most Guys Are too shy To Let there Feelings known, they would gladly welcome it.

Tallesty1:
I personally would never listen to any lady that approaches me for a relationship. That's the shortest route to heartbreak. Run bro.





Na so we dey hear. Listen bro, you will fall in love with time and she will leave you when you have fallen.

Let's assume she came to you because you have six packs, then she will definitely leave you when she sees a guy that has six packs and nice beard.

Same thing will happen to the other guy when she sees another one that has six packs, nice beard and good sense of humor.

She'll continue like that until she loses them all then she'll go back to beg God for a guy that has just a dick.

I have seen all bro.

Any girl that has the guts to ask a guy out is a cheat. Simple

And it kills to hear her used the same scope she use on you to woo another guy.

omojeesu:
Not wrong, BUT:

1. Culturally not appropriate
2. Biblically it is 'he who finds a wife' not 'she who finds a husband'
3. It is a risk! The man may reject her proposal or actually exploit her and dump her. When married and there is a quarrel, he may make reference to the fact, 'afterall you begged me to marry you'

Ladies, relax!
If you seriously love a guy, and you believe in God, tell Him (God) about it. Ask Him (God) to direct the guy to you, to make him love you and propose, AS LONG AS HE IS GOD'S WILL for YOU!

Merlissa:
As for me, it's not wrong..


I'd totally ask him out

frodobee:


And he could be "too old skool" like me or not man enough to pick up the signs. And you both will live the rest of your lives regretting an action you never took.

In you old age, you only regret actions you never took, not the ones you made mistake doing.

kennyman2000:
I so much like ladies with such confidence, and not those that'll die in pretense..

Best thing is that the guy such lady is approaching should be a matured guy that'll handle the situation in such a way that wont affect the lady self esteem even if he's nt interested.

Turned down one yesterday in such a very matured way. Dont know how or where she got my no, but i just got his call and she told me, how she's been nursing her feelings for me for a very long time. Appreciated her courage and gave her that rejection message in a very matured and sensible way.

At the end of the day, bought her #500 credit to load on her phone. Just as a gift for speaking out and i wish her all the very best in life.

Merlissa:
As for me, it's not wrong..


I'd totally ask him out