I know some couples 2day where it was d lady dat actually made d first move and dey are happily married 2day, but d man will neva tell u. Its very possible but d lady must know d maturity level of d guy first b4 engaging him (very important).

[color=#000099][/color] not good sha

RickRichards:
Nope. I think it's a good thing, so women can learn what rejection feels like. If more women made the first move, we'd have a well-rounded society.
*I'll just be like: "excuse me!"...and catwalk away.*

omg I laughed way too much at that

Yes through body language i.e ( green light)

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Yeah, I can see myself saying that at least. No harm in asking a fellow human out to eat. But the buck stops right there! If he's too daft to read into that, then that's it.[/quote

You get mouth nd you sabi d koko

Merlissa nice wrote up. I'd be sending you a message on WhatsApp
Ladies woo me a lot. I simply simply No in humble way most times . However some don't wanna take Not for an answer. In the way to still be nice and to them while I still say No they most times end up in my bed if they don't stay away from me .
In summary a lady should not woo a man because if a man doesn't want you de doesn't. Hé May like the benefits of the relationship but he would still not want you.

COMFIRM BAE....add me up

Merlissa:
As for me, it's not wrong..


I'd totally ask him out

It is better for her not to approach him as later he may take her for granted!

booqee:
huh NO i can't! I'm okay with showing the green light stuff..but if u refuse to see the green light..then i bounce off.. ahh tell a guy i like him?? lailai..

Girl's who do that are very vulnerable to heartbreak and hurtful actions from those guys..

Babe... U don't need to be direct. Lemme give u a typical example..

Jane sees John at a Basketball court. Shez just done playing.. hez on a seat watching (he also played).. She heads to sit beside him, greets, introduces herself (he tells her his name) and they discuss the ongoing game... crack a few jokes, diss some people's moves.. then before U know it, hez asking for your number.

If he dosnt ask for it today, he will ask tomorrow cos ur good company. Its starts from being friends. U don't go direct cos U rily don't know him or his deal. If hez available, he will ask U out on a date.. But U initiated it all by "sitting next to him and saying "HI".

Merlissa:
As for me, it's not wrong..


I'd totally ask him out

How come you ve never asked me out

Their nothing bad at all

raayah:
Not in Nigeria,, girls that express their desire for men are called oloshos.

They are not husband material.

This kind of archaic mentality belongs in the village.

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I would say it not bad! Buh the picture it paints aint good.
1. The guy might look. @ d gal as a chit whereas she mit also look to be
2. The guy might take it as good opp of havng a intimacy gadget girlfwend.

foxxynik:

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Any girl that summon courage to ask a man out doesn't mean it.... She either might have heard somebody whispered to her that you're a banger! That u're very good on bed and or u spend a lot on women or that u're very rich with hundreds of asset lookin for whom to marry!

Wat if i tell u i dnt belong to any of
d category u highlighted, we shd stop putting our ladies in unfair situation. Let them have the ability to express themselves sincerely and we have to take their feelings seriosly and respect it

The same courage she used in askin you out is the same courage she will use to ask another man out... And she'll be using that very courage to trample on men's heart!

Just the same way you guys have always been moving from one gal to another breaking their hearts. Just for the fact that u'v had a bitter experience with a bad gal doesn't mean every gal who woo a guy are always wayward? Wat i clearly know is that it takes a gal time before she can develop the confidence to face a guy. As such most times(not d way ward ones) they are committed
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Women are unpredictable... Even when u toast a woman and she accepts you.....she still dump u for another man! How much more if she was the one dat psyche u up?

They'l always b unpredictable, thats how they are created irrespective of who do the asking out.

BeeBeeOoh:
Peace be unto ye comment reader..

and to the poster of comments

I dont see anything wrong in that.

I WONT MIND ONE ASKING ME OUT OO. AM COOL AND VERY DOWN TO EARTH HOLA 08132387959.

I advise all ladies to go for which ever man that appeal to them, if the guy didn't make move, you make the move, which ever way! na here for naija our ladies go dey form, dey wait for a guy to make the move!

Acekidc4:
Absolutely and Fucckingly Damn Right Men!!

What a Man can do a Woman can fuccking do Better!!

Ladies, forget your ego's, Pls go out there and Toast or Woo your Mr Right before the Man Move to the Left oh!!

So that the man can use it as an excuse to taunt her when things get rough in the relationship abi?

she can approached him if she's interested in him its not a sin,pls let stop the mentality of if a lady approach a guy she's cheap no she's not

Creamish:


Babe... U don't need to be direct. Lemme give u a typical example..

Jane sees John at a Basketball court. Shez just done playing.. hez on a seat watching (he also played).. She heads to sit beside him, greets, introduces herself (he tells her his name) and they discuss the ongoing game... crack a few jokes, diss some people's moves.. then before U know it, hez asking for your number.

If he dosnt ask for it today, he will ask tomorrow cos ur good company. Its starts from being friends. U don't go direct cos U rily don't know him or his deal. If hez available, he will ask U out on a date.. But U initiated it all by "sitting next to him and saying "HI".

A very good example ladies can implore, nobody is hurt here and no feel one is oloosho

It's amazing... still waiting for dat woman dat'd walk up to me nd say she interested in me.. even if she doesn't say it out loud.. buh her actions speaks for itself.. #Amazing I must say.

naa so

PunkyVeer:
I don't have it in me to blatantly ask a guy out. I'm too old skool. I'd just show him with my actions that I am. You know, smile at him, talk up a storm, be subtly flirtatious, etc. But to say it to him straight away? Hells to da noh!

Then he will make you his best friend.

Creamish:


Babe... U don't need to be direct. Lemme give u a typical example..

Jane sees John at a Basketball court. Shez just done playing.. hez on a seat watching (he also played).. She heads to sit beside him, greets, introduces herself (he tells her his name) and they discuss the ongoing game... crack a few jokes, diss some people's moves.. then before U know it, hez asking for your number.

If he dosnt ask for it today, he will ask tomorrow cos ur good company. Its starts from being friends. U don't go direct cos U rily don't know him or his deal. If hez available, he will ask U out on a date.. But U initiated it all by "sitting next to him and saying "HI".

Yeah I already mentioned i could be flashing the green light..but the direct thing is not my way o

hmmm...well it depends !!! because i can't tlk much. my mouth is tied

favoured234:

Then he will make you his best friend.

Friend-zoned? Hahaha. No problem. It'd be nice, for once, to meet a (straight) guy that's interested in friendship only. No ulterior motives. With male friends, you sometimes get a sense that they want more. They're nursing a secret crush & waiting to pounce on ya.

Andy790:
Its mostly ugly girls that do this...

you are right to some extent, but i've had some cool pretty babes doing that as well.

olaolulazio:
Not wrong.

Quote me to ask y and I will tell u.

Why?

booqee:
haaaaaa my sister na so ee easy reach.. I don't think i have the nerve.. i'm always worried about what the guy might think...or even worse, rejection. ahhhhh

You now know how guys feel bah

To me it's not wrong, but i'll prefer subtle but intentional signals than direct approach.