PunkyVeer:


Dude, it's definitely not how I roll or would ever roll for that matter. As for feelings. .well, I don't know about you, but I don't get overwhelming feelings at the initial stages of meeting someone. Mine is a slow burn. So I probably wouldn't regret not knowing what I never knew, if it makes sense.

I still prefer a MANLY man. A beast I'd run circles around a meek man, make him mah lady. Kikiki.

Lol.

Merlissa:
As for me, it's not wrong..


I'd totally ask him out

uh, to me i d0n't see anything wr0ng with it. It just deals with the pers0n, i mean the girl. If a girl views it as n0thing bad it doesn't mean her opini0n is right neither is a girl who sees it as a bad thing means its bad. Opini0n differs. What works for me may neccessary n0t work for you. Thats why our heads aren't of the same size. Got it babe?

An2elect2:
Watch the most confused men on earth aka Nigerian men come to tell you is right here and treat like a fucking piece of rag in real life.

Oh Lord, why am i here in this world with Nigerian men?

my guess, ur pops isn't a nigerian, right? If he is am guessing ur irritated living with s0me0ne like ur pops, brothers, uncles, male relatives etc.

ehjiwummy:

Asking a guy out is totally wrong,it limit your pride as a woman.our mothers didn't ask our fathers out during their time.let stop following white people steps.wait upon the lord and the right one will fall for u.

talking of pride, whats the pride of a w0man? You saying its wr0ng doesn't make it wr0ng babe and u talking abt the african ways, i need remind u then that w0men that u are talking abt pride were married off/sold off to men by men and fr0m men at that era in time. Its n0t abt following the whites, its abt following ur heart, ur mind and what u think its right. U saying we should follow the african way must be sure to lead by example by leading an african life. Am sure u are one of those who wear brazillian hairstyles. My point is, what u think is what matterz to u and n0t to others c0ncerning a state of the mind. Thanks.

booqee:
haaaaaa my sister na so ee easy reach.. I don't think i have the nerve.. i'm always worried about what the guy might think...or even worse, rejection. ahhhhh

so gals kn0w what rejecti0n's all ab0ut?

Aint nothing wrong with that.it's jst maturity on the ladies side.

lol, women never wanted to taste their own medicine

Its quite easy and normal for a woman to reject guys, but an abormination if we do. They will cry heaven and even go depressed about him. Personally I think it would be nice, if women can be the initiator.

I cant imaginer how many kpomo guys go brush, wide or tight, e no matter abeg

Acekidc4:
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masa your siggy is sick

Mennnnn absolutely wrong inorder words woman can propose too.....abeg next page

It's alright, though it seems not to be African.

There's nothing wrong with that, it has happened to me b4, Though the first time, it was an ugly bitch I would never woo even when I'm dead drunk, the second time, it was a divorcee, though 'HOT'. maybe I've bn unlucky to get one of the desired ones.

omar22:


I believe Ruth in the Bible went for her man

Not exactly so! That's why i said its not wrong. Ruth's case was exception not the rule.

Merlissa:
As for me, it's not wrong..


I'd totally ask him out

I'm sure u're crushing on someone, u better meet him and clear ur mind.... It's not bad jare, girls can form jooo

PunkyVeer:
I don't have it in me to blatantly ask a guy out. I'm too old skool. I'd just show him with my actions that I am. You know, smile at him, talk up a storm, be subtly flirtatious, etc. But to say it to him straight away? Hells to da noh![/qfuote] [quote author=PunkyVeer post=36107650]I don't have it in me to blatantly ask a guy out. I'm too old skool. I'd just show him with my actions that I am. You know, smile at him, talk up a storm, be subtly flirtatious, etc. But to say it to him straight away? Hells to da noh!

I pity you. Some guys will never notice those signs even if you hit them with bricks full of signs. I know someone like that, my close friend sharon was sick with love for him she tried all those signs but he never noticed,we had to tell him and found her has always wanted her but never built enough courage to ask her out- he was shy- I had to chaperon their first date. He was so innocent and naive most good guys are like that.

omar22:

I believe Ruth in the Bible went for her man

She did to 'compel' him to fulfil the kinsman law in Israel.

Minemrys:

talking of pride, whats the pride of a w0man? You saying its wr0ng doesn't make it wr0ng babe and u talking abt the african ways, i need remind u then that w0men that u are talking abt pride were married off/sold off to men by men and fr0m men at that era in time. Its n0t abt following the whites, its abt following ur heart, ur mind and what u think its right. U saying we should follow the african way must be sure to lead by example by leading an african life. Am sure u are one of those who wear brazillian hairstyles. My point is, what u think is what matterz to u and n0t to others c0ncerning a state of the mind. Thanks.

Wetin bring brazilian hairstyles to dis now?moreso if I wear it na ur money?

raayah:
Not in Nigeria,, girls that express their desire for men are called oloshos.

They are not husband material.

point of correction my dear......u need to upgrade ur old version nigerian mentality.......expressing ur desire for a man u like to gain his attention towards u its bad at all,it all depends on ur approach and ur motive of meeting him.......anyone can be called olosho by anybody.........u can easily catch his fancy by just him telling that's a nice shirt or nice perfume little things to build up his ego..

ehjiwummy:

Wetin bring brazilian hairstyles to dis now?moreso if I wear it na ur money?

babe read btw the lines. "what matterz to u is to u al0ne and doesn't c0ncern others" its n0ne of my c0ncern if u wear brazillian hair or is it?