Oh chimuo ooh!! Nothing person no go hear

Op, your hubby is an addict. The two of you should talk about it, what and where things got wrong. Then talk about what you both want in bed! You two can start exploring, instead of him using his hand, you can use yours!

Ask him what are his fantasies and try and help him out with them. Thats what he thinks of when he self-services

Have you tried discussing it with him that you dont like it?.....well if you do and he still continues......RAPE HIM!!.

shiizzy:
If you are married... Y the moniker "misshipsy"... .. If you are... Your husband was probably a yabaleft escapee coz i don't see y a good thinking man will rather masturbate then Bleep a pussy.... Even if you are the ugliest in the world... He should still Bleep it.... Its nt too late... You can still take him back to yabaleft

That's rubbish...you can have an extremely sexy girl but the sex is terrible. And only a guy who hasn't been with enough women will talk like u

That's becos u are no longer sexually attractive to him again. Maybe u we're forced on him to marry or u forced urself on him.

MRBrownJ:


let me be the bearer of bad news (please dont shoot the messenger):
i am sorry to tell you that there is very little you can do about the fact that you dont turn your husband ON any longer.
but here is how you need to look at this issue:
A) did you always satisfy your hubby's sexual needs in the past? did you have a healthy sex life in the past? do you even know what turns him on?!
B) pls go get nekkid in front of the mirror and look carefully, while asking yourself if you remotely resemble your old sexy self.
C) then ask yourself if you have always been the freak that your partner was seeking for in the bedroom... or better yet, what have you done all these years to spice your bedroom activities? if you think that you can revive something that you overlooked and dismissed for year, then the joke is on you. when its dead, its dead!
D) most importantly, your husband must be masturbating to something that turns him on.... so the question you should ask yourself IS:" do you remotely look as sexy as the women he masturbates to OR do you do the type of stuff that he enjoys watching while playing with himself?"

the fact that you would want him to stop doing it, without thinking or asking the important question, which is "WHY/HOW has it come this?", is the reason why you can never succeed in solving the issue....your answers are right in front of you.

Husband: Let's try this
Wife: No o I don't like it

Husband: ok let me out this here
Wife: why? what's the meaning of that?

Husband: oya out Your mouth here please I really like that
Wife: Mouth I use in praying to ...
Husband: But they didn't write it anywhere that if you do like that it will affect your prayers now
Wife: I don't care that's the way I want to do my thing Sebi it's my mouth?

*Husband starts to self service starts to enjoy it bones wife completely*

*Wife buys data comes on NL and creates posts like these*

Me: Gerarahia mehn. shii mehn. You should have listened from the start.

Pierocash:

just contact me I can help u out cos my girl is complaining that 6rounds that I take on is much, maybe I can switch allegiance

6 rounds?? And u think u are normal?? Hell no..Rush to synagogue for deliverance bro..

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The koko be say, u have never been sexually attracted to ur husband. He might ve seen different quality in u for marrying u. Masturbation only occurs with sexual thought about an opposite sex or fantasy. Sexual attraction is different from love. Just pray and try to work on ur seductive qualities.

kingthreat:
Ask him what are his fantasies and try and help him out with them. Thats what he thinks of when he self-services

You don't think the guy must have been trying before but she no gree hear?

let him see a friend of yours that is more experience in sexmatology

if he is masturbating, he is not thinking about you.... seems he is no longer attracted to you... do your best to make yourself more sexually attractive to him.

misshipsy88:
For sometime I have noticed that my husband would rather masturbate instead of having sex with me,even when I try as much as possible to spice up our sex life.please what do I do to stop it?

Come lemme help you
By the time I am done with you ..Infact them say 'Ikoko ti o ba ma je ata, idi e a gbona'

Walahi your yansh go be like Iron wey them dey use iron starched cloth when I finish with you

bigerboy200:

6 rounds?? And u think u are normal?? Hell no..Rush to synagogue for deliverance bro..

E get anything wey mouth no fit talk? you sef!

As much as u are trying to solve the problem, find out if he enjoys spending time with his male friends. You know what I mean!

Try to be more sexy all the time..........I mean the Beyonce sexy type and I am sure he will screw the hell out of your head.........Also make sure he is eating well,most of his food should contain iron and vitamins and if you can do all these your husband will need more than just masturbation to quench his desire................

pocohantas:
Make a video. Ask KimK

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On a serious note

#ItsonlyInNigeria that a man turns into a wankLord and they blame the woman
*there is something you are not doing right.
*be sexy for him
*your poosey must have the circumference of an ocean due to childbirth. Was she supposed to sneeze out the child?

Rubbish...but y'all have tummies like geepee tank.

keep up with the blame game and don't find solution.

refreshrate:


Husband: Let's try this
Wife: No o I don't like it

Husband: ok let me out this here
Wife: why? what's the meaning of that?

Husband: oya out Your mouth here please I really like that
Wife: Mouth I use in praying to ...
Husband: But they didn't write it anywhere that if you do like that it will affect your prayers now
Wife: I don't care that's the way I want to do my thing Sebi it's my mouth?

*Husband starts to self service starts to enjoy it bones wife completely*

*Wife buys data comes on NL and creates posts like these*

Me: Gerarahia mehn. shii mehn. You should have listened from the start.

All these holy holy people
Them think say body na tree

Gerarahia mehn. shii mehn

misshipsy88:
For sometime I have noticed that my husband would rather masturbate instead of having sex with me,even when I try as much as possible to spice up our sex life.please what do I do to stop it?

It is an indication that you need to spice up yourself more

r0cky:
keep up with the blame game and don't find solution.

Delusion of grandeur...

SAMBARRY:
what does porn have to do with his arousal

Porn kills sexual arousal over time. He would rather engage in masturbation having images of sexy women and several skills in his head.
I read a story of a woman whose husband would sit on the couch, watch porn, masturbate and as soon as he's about to release, he would rush inside the room and spill on her face. He then will fall asleep.

pocohantas:


Delusion of grandeur...

when u see your maid on your matrimonial bed. Just Melo Melo

Because you are no longer sweet

If u are the type that denies your busband sex when ever he needs it that's what u shud expect.
Another point is if u complain a lot during sex mayb for pains or odour u make him see u as unattractive.
Discover good sex skills, look sexy at home prepare his best and initiate the sex. Hw often do u tell him u love him or kiss him romantically. When last did u guys bath together. Always ask him if he admire ur look. Above all talk to God about it.

misshipsy88:
For sometime I have noticed that my husband would rather masturbate instead of having sex with me,even when I try as much as possible to spice up our sex life.please what do I do to stop it?

Stop him from watching photography.

Vanquay:
You better find toyboys or f***buddy ...........Speaking of Toyboys . In all seriousnes Porn has damaged your Husband's REASoning. He cant tell Reality from Fantasy again. Just try to see if you can act some of his fantasies. #LOVEGURU Meanwhile I am dropping my Novella 1:30pm GMT-5 because of mh Reddit fans and Time Difference. Catch it like it's hot on Reddit or Nairaland

you are a gallant fool ma friend...if u dnt av anytin to say...just shut d Bleep up

r0cky:
when u

see your maid on your matrimonial bed. Just Melo Melo

When the maid gives you 'scratchiti' bobo just shoki

Bad girl!!

Houseofglam7:
Take him to a strip club and pay to let him have a lap dance!

I swear na car him go nail you!


If that doesn't work, sell him on OLX

misshipsy88:
For sometime I have noticed that my husband would rather masturbate instead of having sex with me,even when I try as much as possible to spice up our sex life.please what do I do to stop it?

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