Ive known this guy for a couple of years now. But Ive always been to scared to take him seriously. Now he is back on the scene and this time he is serious. My only problem with him now, is his past. I dont believe in making people in what you want them to be. And the thing is the only person you can control or change in a relationship is you. Im scared to go into a relationship with him given his reputation as a "bad boy". People see him as bad because he parties a lot, is very social and has had his fair share of women.
Now my question is, even if I do give him a chance, is it possible for him to change. And believe me change is something that comes from the inside. If I go into this relationship then it is most probably heading for the real thing, My greatest fear is having my husband cheat on me and at the moment Im not too sure I can trust him, no matter how sincere he sounds at the moment.

Should I give him a chance to get to know him better or tell him im not interested before I get in too deep?

If you're not sure of someone and you cant trust him, why start anything with him?

this should b in the romance section

i dnt really think u should venture into a relationship with som1 u dont trust, and ain't sure about cox it will always comeback to hunt u. u don't trust him, u ain't sure that he will change, then don't do it. or why not just watch him and see if he dares to  change?/ though he might change so to get u and then go back to his oldish. so if it was me i wouldn't do it.

trust is one of the core aspects of a relationship and when it is lacking in a relationship, the relationship is already a failure. and since u dont trust him now, that doubtfulness will also linger in that relationship if u go ahead with it cox then everything he does may seem as untrue to u, which maybe escalate into an argument blah, blah then the failure of it.

Change because of you?
You must be kidding

just bone his side....u dnt trust him so wats d point?? u stil wil keep havin dis feelin dat he is cheatin on u...so it wld b best u forget bout datin him....

Anoda wan don come o!
You wan chop yam, but you nor sabi road to market'. . . . . . Not to mention FARM!

Who goes into a relationship with FEAR and .WHAT IFs biko kwa nu?

You never ready.

Shior!

7 hours to go on this long flight! Time for some movies.

Food don come again! Chai!!!

Kanwulia: Anoda wan don come o!
You wan chop yam, but you nor sabi road to market'. . . . . . Not to mention FARM!

Who goes into a relationship with FEAR and .WHAT IFs biko kwa nu?

You never ready.

Shior!

7 hours to go on this long flight! Time for some movies.

Food don come again! Chai!!!

The only thing you need to change about you is your perception concerning religion particularly the Christian faith. Aside that you are one intelligent woman whom i enjoy her perception of life and robust maturity trait exhibited in posts and delivered comically to the benefit of the discerning minds.

SeaGold:

The only thing you need to change about you is your perception concerning religion particularly the Christian faith. Aside that you are one intelligent woman whom i enjoy her perception of life and robust maturity trait exhibited in posts and delivered comically to the benefit of the discerning minds.

Awwwwwww
My head is swelling ooooooh!

*we shall leave the Christian faith and my perception out of this extremely palatable post. please welcome me to the uk once again. loverrrrly weather than that blazzzzzing texas sun!*

More often than not, women who end up in bad relationships had seen the red light earlier but chose to ignore it.
You can risk it but don't say you never got the signal.

Kanwulia:

Awwwwwww
My head is w
Swelling ooooooh!

*we shall leave the Christian faith and my perception out of this extremely palatable post. please welcome me to the uk once again. loverrrrly weather than that blazzzzzing texas sun!*

Welcome to queen's land. Enjoy your stay but remember the tax everything including the air u breath there.

purplesummer: More often than not, women who end up in bad relationships had seen the red light earlier but chose to ignore it.
You can risk it but don't say you never got the signal.

follow back before I open my eye

SeaGold:

Welcome to queen's land. Enjoy your stay but remember the tax everything including the air u breath there.

Thank you jare!
Off to Manchester today! Leaving Blackheath.

BabeX:
Ive known this guy for a couple of years now. But Ive always been to scared to take him seriously. Now he is back on the scene and this time he is serious. My only problem with him now, is his past. I dont believe in making people in what you want them to be. And the thing is the only person you can control or change in a relationship is you. Im scared to go into a relationship with him given his reputation as a "bad boy". People see him as bad because he parties a lot, is very social and has had his fair share of women.
Now my question is, even if I do give him a chance, is it possible for him to change. And believe me change is something that comes from the inside. If I go into this relationship then it is most probably heading for the real thing, My greatest fear is having my husband cheat on me and at the moment Im not too sure I can trust him, no matter how sincere he sounds at the moment.

Should I give him a chance to get to know him better or tell him im not interested before I get in too deep?

yes,he can change if your pusy is "tight" enough to TRAP his cockkk...
Mumu...you think say na only you sabi better thing?