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| Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by misspicy(f): 12:09pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
There is this cultist guy in my area that has been disturbing me for a relationship for a long time,i have clearly,politely and boldly told him I am not interested but this guy is still on my neck. I am not even free to stroll in my area again for fear of been kidnapped. Is there anyone that has any experience? How did you go about it? Please how else can I make my stand known?  |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Nobody: 12:11pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Just tell him politely in a friendly manner that you are HIV positive. Thank me later  |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by boboLIL(m): 12:15pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
So as a lady you are, u d0Nt knw how to stop advances? U bi half-lady.... |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by kestolove95(m): 12:21pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
report the low life scum to the nearest police station |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by ArchEnemy(m): 12:23pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
You guys think it is that easy? Op keep turning him down politely and firmly and pray or relocate. That is a dangerous guy after a lady |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by dharay99: 12:24pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
kestolove95: keep wastinq ur tym on daht, & besides, she mention anifin like skul f0r yhu...  1 Like |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by misspicy(f): 12:27pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Demigods:Am not positive,how will I say something like that about myself  |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by misspicy(f): 12:29pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
boboLIL:Please understand that he is a cultist,a very notorious one at that,i have told him NO countless time but he kept pestering me,sometimes sending his boys to me with gifts which I always reject. Please what else can I do |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by misspicy(f): 12:31pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
kestolove95:Thanks but its not in school,its my area asin family house,i have told my aunt I stay with and she just warned me to avoid him which I have been doing,just that he seems to be monitoring my movements,i always meet him on the street. Please what else can I do |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by jamex93(m): 12:32pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Just leave the area for good Advice |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by misspicy(f): 12:33pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
ArchEnemy:Thanks I have been praying about it but I cant relocate,thats where I live with my family. I have always told him no from day one but the guy is adamant. What else can i do |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by boboLIL(m): 12:33pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
misspicy:cultist or no cultist doesn't giv t any meaning.....stp d fear factor.....feel free....kip sayin NO.....and avoid late nights |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Bevy12(f): 12:34pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Pray to God to help make him leave you alone if he asks you again then politely reject him. |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by misspicy(f): 12:34pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
jamex93:I cant leave,thats where I live with my family. |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by chomytex(f): 12:35pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
I understand your plight.,cnt u tell him you are already engaged! |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by ArchEnemy(m): 12:37pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
misspicy:well, guess you ll ve to keep resisting him then. At least it is good you are living with your family and not alone. Just make sure you are cautious |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by misspicy(f): 12:38pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
boboLIL:Thanks...i have always and will continue to say NO.but that has not stopped him from stalking me,i dnt go out at night too. I just want to know if there is sumtyn I could do or say to make him stop entirely |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by jamex93(m): 12:41pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
misspicy: U just have to reason with ur family Tell dem u have to leave d area |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by misspicy(f): 12:41pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Bevy12:I have done this and will continue to pray and say No but is there anything else I can do or say. This problem is causing alot of discomfort for me Thanks |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Nobody: 12:42pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
misspicy: Have any other way to get him off your neck then? You asked for help. I offered. Don't like my idea then think of something else. |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by misspicy(f): 12:43pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
chomytex:Thanks...he has always made it known that he doesnt care if am in a relationship with anoda person,he just want to have his way with me. am afraid I dnt get kidnapped or something |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by misspicy(f): 12:46pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Demigods:Ok,thanks |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by boboLIL(m): 12:49pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
misspicy:don't be harsh on him.....kip av0idin him frm sight....daht known lane he knws u always trade....av0id t.... Mk ursef unavailable at d sight of his.... |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Nobody: 12:49pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
When did people start getting scared of cultists like this? Area cultist for that matt  hian!!! |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Nobody: 12:51pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Hmmm serious ish, tell your mum or aunty to warn him, sometimes most of them are scared of older people...maybe they should threghten him with reporting him to the police The only P there is, you won't walk freely @night |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by henryblaze25(m): 12:52pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Tell him to stop pestering u or else u involve d police that he is a threat to u and he is going to sign undertaking that whatever happens to u, he would be held responsible. |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Nobody: 12:54pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
just keep bullsh*tting d guy, he'll give up soon. There's nothing he can do. It's not like he'll harm u 4 refusing him. If he tries to, the police is ur friend |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by chomytex(f): 1:13pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Let me get something straight here The familiy house is it in your villa? Is the guy from your villa? misspicy: |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Hawlahscho(m): 2:05pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Tell him that I am your boyfriend, he'll leave you alone.  |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Nobody: 2:14pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Join a bible believeing church, and become a prayer worrior there If issues persist, be rest assured, the guy is a walking juju |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by dharay99: 2:17pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
| Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by chigoizie7(m): 2:34pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
kestolove95: Please, how is he a low life scum? He ha never forced her into doing anything. As for him taking NO for an answer? We all know women like playing hard to get, so he might still be pushing his luck. |
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