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Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Nobody: 2:36pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Stop dressing half unclad, you won't listen. Have u ever seen a cultist that disturbs a well dressed girl? Of course he won't dare disturb her because she would seem too local for his liking. Dont even consider reporting him to police, you will just complicate things , they are everywhere. Your best solution is prayer and start dressing responsibly . |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by chigoizie7(m): 2:37pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
chomytex: He will find the guy he is engaged to and maim him |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by chigoizie7(m): 2:41pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
firstEVA: Baddoo, area cultists ooh, fools wey no get stand o. I trust u ve dated an executioner b4. U get mind die Btw, most kush men, aint bad one bit, they are only in the movement for the fun of it and their beliefs. |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Nobody: 2:43pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
misspicy: Tell him your boyfriend is in the millitary or police, then get one uniformed guy to visit U form time 2 time |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by chigoizie7(m): 2:50pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
misspicy: Please don't report him to any police nor threaten him. U can't bear the consequences of that. If he approaches u again, ask him what he wants from u. If he says that he loves u(that's what he will say) . Then beg him that if he truly love u, that he should let u be.explain to him ur fears, why u cannot date him, if he persists, keep turning him down politely and in a friendly manner,never be harsh on him. He will chicken out sooner dan u expect |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Folanky(m): 3:17pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
misspicy:Long thing, jst ask if he can follow u to ur village nd eat frm igba sango nd carry d calabash around 3 street for 7days. U gud to go. U will thank me later. |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Nobody: 3:30pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
U should leave home for a while. Maybe a month or so. I've been in that situation too,he'll get tired. But please,don't go out alone at night. |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by chomytex(f): 3:34pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Lame?I don't tink so,no reasonable guy will force himself on a girl who is engaged. Its so unfortunate that the op is dealing wit a mentally deformed fellow. I don't pray to encounter such! dharay99: |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by exlink10(m): 3:41pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Police is your friend Use them: QED
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Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by moore1: 3:42pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Babe, all you have to do is report him to the police authority, your family members, neighbors and secure a restraining order against him. Get him to be invited to the police and the community heads and ensure he gets the warning that even as little as headache complain from you he will be held responsible. Ensure his family; father, uncles are all in the know. That way he automatically becomes your security guard. Wish you all the best. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by adedayourt(m): 3:58pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
misspicy: honnie if u trully love nd want me, drink dis cup of acid |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
the only solution i can render is dat y dnt u disguise urself either wearing full face hijab or d normal one |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Nobody: 4:21pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
misspicy:playing hard to get? if u like the guy jus tell am yes . after all he will be protecting from bad guys |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Nobody: 4:30pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
chigoizie7:hahahahahahahaha Yes, most of them. |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by chigoizie7(m): 5:03pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
firstEVA:Correct babe, reminds me of those days while still in skul. I hope, u were never used as an amourer. |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by xtervaganza(m): 6:02pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
kestolove95:bad move. The rubbish people you think are police are one of their major partners She should just not fight the guy. She should find a way to turn him down without making him feel bad |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Nobody: 6:11pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
@OP I wonder wht else u want cos u seem 2 counter all the suggestions given 2 u on this thread. U sounded like u think u are a hot cake(I may be wrong) the way u are hyping this issue, mind u that u are nt the most beautifl girl in ur area he doesn't evn love u he jst want 2 sleep wit u. Anoda thing is I wondr wht got a cultist attracted 2 u? Some suggestions(like leavin ur area) are only makin the cultist guy look important, the best thing is tel him 2 stop stalking u then if he refuses report him 2 the police(stalking is a crime) he would be made 2 sign undertaking so that 2moro u woun't come here & say someone raped u. Bt I blv u knw wht 2 do bt u just want 2 feel like one angel that is being sought after, if it were 2 be someone like obama stalking u now ppl would rate u high bt a cultist na fucck up 4 u so don't come here 2 form miss beauty. |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by misspicy(f): 9:36am On Jul 25, 2015 |
Thank you all for your words of advice and encouragement. I willl just keep ignoring him and hope that this will pass soon. |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by wordbank(m): 9:45am On Jul 25, 2015 |
Befriend another cultist that is more notorious than him, in fact u fit carry belle for d badoo |
Re: Help!!!! How Else Do I Say No To A Cultist Advances by Mikocake(m): 11:40am On Jul 25, 2015 |
hehehe...i thought they said women like bad boys...why is the op running na?? |
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