chomytex:
I understand your plight.,cnt u tell him you are already engaged!

He will find the guy he is engaged to and maim him

firstEVA:
When did people start getting scared of cultists like this? Area cultist for that matt hian!!!

Baddoo, area cultists ooh, fools wey no get stand o.





I trust u ve dated an executioner b4. U get mind die


Btw, most kush men, aint bad one bit, they are only in the movement for the fun of it and their beliefs.

misspicy:


There is this cultist guy in my area that has been disturbing me for a relationship for a long time,i have clearly,politely and boldly told him I am not interested but this guy is still on my neck. I am not even free to stroll in my area again for fear of been kidnapped.
Is there anyone that has any experience? How did you go about it?
Please how else can I make my stand known?

Tell him your boyfriend is in the millitary or police, then get one uniformed guy to visit U form time 2 time

misspicy:

Thanks...i have always and will continue to say NO.but that has not stopped him from stalking me,i dnt go out at night too.
I just want to know if there is sumtyn I could do or say to make him stop entirely

Please don't report him to any police nor threaten him.
U can't bear the consequences of that.

If he approaches u again, ask him what he wants from u. If he says that he loves u(that's what he will say) . Then beg him that if he truly love u, that he should let u be.explain to him ur fears, why u cannot date him, if he persists, keep turning him down politely and in a friendly manner,never be harsh on him. He will chicken out sooner dan u expect

misspicy:

I have done this and will continue to pray and say No but is there anything else I can do or say.

This problem is causing alot of discomfort for me


Thanks

Long thing, jst ask if he can follow u to ur village nd eat frm igba sango nd carry d calabash around 3 street for 7days. U gud to go. U will thank me later.

U should leave home for a while. Maybe a month or so.






I've been in that situation too,he'll get tired. But please,don't go out alone at night.

Lame?I don't tink so,no reasonable guy will force himself on a girl who is engaged.
Its so unfortunate that the op is dealing wit a mentally deformed fellow.
I don't pray to encounter such!

dharay99:

lame excuse...mtcheeeeew.

Police is your friend





Use them: QED

Babe, all you have to do is report him to the police authority, your family members, neighbors and secure a restraining order against him. Get him to be invited to the police and the community heads and ensure he gets the warning that even as little as headache complain from you he will be held responsible. Ensure his family; father, uncles are all in the know.

That way he automatically becomes your security guard. Wish you all the best.

misspicy:


There is this cultist guy in my area that has been disturbing me for a relationship for a long time,i have clearly,politely and boldly told him I am not interested but this guy is still on my neck. I am not even free to stroll in my area again for fear of been kidnapped.
Is there anyone that has any experience? How did you go about it?
Please how else can I make my stand known?

honnie if u trully love nd want me, drink dis cup of acid

the only solution i can render is dat y dnt u disguise urself either wearing full face hijab or d normal one

misspicy:


There is this cultist guy in my area that has been disturbing me for a relationship for a long time,i have clearly,politely and boldly told him I am not interested but this guy is still on my neck. I am not even free to stroll in my area again for fear of been kidnapped.
Is there anyone that has any experience? How did you go about it?
Please how else can I make my stand known?

playing hard to get?
if u like the guy jus tell am yes .
after all he will be protecting from bad guys

chigoizie7:




Baddoo, area cultists ooh, fools wey no get stand o.





I trust u ve dated an executioner b4. U get mind die


Btw, most kush men, aint bad one bit, they are only in the movement for the fun of it and their beliefs.

hahahahahahahaha

Yes, most of them.

firstEVA:
hahahahahahahaha
Yes, most of them.

Correct babe, reminds me of those days while still in skul.



















I hope, u were never used as an amourer.

kestolove95:
report the low life scum to the nearest police station

bad move. The rubbish people you think are police are one of their major partners




She should just not fight the guy. She should find a way to turn him down without making him feel bad

@OP I wonder wht else u want cos u seem 2 counter all the suggestions given 2 u on this thread. U sounded like u think u are a hot cake(I may be wrong) the way u are hyping this issue, mind u that u are nt the most beautifl girl in ur area he doesn't evn love u he jst want 2 sleep wit u. Anoda thing is I wondr wht got a cultist attracted 2 u? Some suggestions(like leavin ur area) are only makin the cultist guy look important, the best thing is tel him 2 stop stalking u then if he refuses report him 2 the police(stalking is a crime) he would be made 2 sign undertaking so that 2moro u woun't come here & say someone raped u. Bt I blv u knw wht 2 do bt u just want 2 feel like one angel that is being sought after, if it were 2 be someone like obama stalking u now ppl would rate u high bt a cultist na fucck up 4 u so don't come here 2 form miss beauty.

Thank you all for your words of advice and encouragement.
I willl just keep ignoring him and hope that this will pass soon.

hehehe...i thought they said women like bad boys...why is the op running na??