There was this heated argument in my room yesternight and i need to understand more. Going into a relationship, what should be the major consideration? Is it if love exists or if culture permits d relationshp.
For instance, i knw a guy who loves a lady and dy av bin datn for 9months, the guy decided that marriage should take place with the lady since there is love, he however faced a huge challenge when his mum informed him that the lady he will marry should be a virgin, he must have been the one that deflowerd d girl if at all she isnt a virgin on marriage. The lady isnt a virgin, should virginity b a reasn to stop d weddn? All bkos of wat culture says, isnt love the most important consideration in a relationshp?
Should cultural valued be a reasn for brokn hearts

As for me I take love, cultural value to me isn't .......

Love is key as bit will sustain the marriage.
Culture is important too as a Person must identify with some cultural values not to loose identity.