You would have done it before coming on here to write properly on your depression lol

Tanke would not be your portion

just have faith.. we all know how frustrating splash is and worse off in Unilorin

just weather d storm and smile at end... if you can't stand this..trust me you can't stand life ... yonder doesn't look as nice as we always think

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i really dont know how you feel, but i know how failure feels, but ask yourself, ur parents that carried you on their shoulders when you were younger and ALIVE, you want them to use those same shoulders to carry your corpse? + its carry over, not the end, the moment you let it get to you, thats the instant you start failing, there are people in this forum who has seen worse, and you're just 23, some folks are still seeking admission, get ur shit together bro, GOD HELP YOU

I will give you the same answer I gave the last person that contemplated suicide.

fellowbeing:
I will kill myself on Wednesday if am not able to sort this out. I'm tired of this life even though people around believe all is well with me.

I am a 23 year old undergraduate of University of Ilorin. I am a spill over student due for graduation last year. I had 2 courses for first semester and 5 courses for second semester, including project. I really tried my best this year, so that I can graduate. The trauma, depression, studying with my juniors, O God, after stressing myself reading day and night, preparing hard and settling project issues, just to discover that I failed 2 courses in second semester. I will now splash, not again.

I am pressing some buttons IF the courses can be waved. I discovered that I failed the two on friday after checking my results at the level adviser's office.

How will I inform my parents? I don't have a choice than to just end this if nothing can be done before Wednesday evening.

The pressure is just too much. I am the first born of my parent. They are expecting the good news not the splash news again, not after supporting me for a year.

If you wrote this yourself, believe me that you have a bright future.

Taking your life is the coward's way of running away from challenges. Don't do it no matter how hopeless you think your situation appears. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Just weather the storm.

Am also a unilorite I understand hw u feel but what department are u?

Interesting, it not worth it. Yes carryover can bring one down, but it a path to know yourself more. Would tell you a short story, I finished my bsc in a private school during my master in a federal university I was good but at the end I had six carryover. Believe me I was shock. But felt bad but never killed my spirit. Did all again and came out. Now I have two master from the same university of different courses. Carryover bring out the best in you if you think positive. I feel the pain, examination was met to see how best you perform not a sign that you are dull but a yardstick. Be strong. If I can do it, you can. And am just 28 now. If I, did not get those carryover would not have known myself. A mere private university with bsc in computer science, now has an Msc in computer science and engineering management. So be strong, God works in a way that look foolish to men. Most vital life is not your to take.

Bro I really feel your pain, one of the greatest paon in life is seeing your mates progressing and it seems you are just stagnant, bro you are not alone, trust me , lemme give you my story , I spent 3 years at home after secondary school. My mates that got into school that same year will call you to ask how far. I guess just to mocl you, I will say something like its in progress and some will sat eyaa, some will even mock you, but guess what?? God helped me that before I graduated I was already earning some massive amount that some grads don't earn,

So life isn't like Nairaland first to comment or first to graduate its about you becoming successful on the long run. Dont see this as a bad thing, every person u meet in your life is for a reason, those people u are calling juniors among them might be the next president of Nigeria governors, ministers etc or you could even meet the love of your life that will turn your whole life around.bro look at the bright side of life. This coming years might just be the best years of your life, bro its just a year, less than a year sef, a semester, see while you are preparing for those courses, develop yourself, socialise. Become a better person and come back here next year to share your testimony. I believe in you bro.

We have all failed but failure can only make u better In life

fellowbeing:
I will kill myself on Wednesday if am not able to sort this out. I'm tired of this life even though people around believe all is well with me.

I am a 23 year old undergraduate of University of Ilorin. I am a spill over student due for graduation last year. I had 2 courses for first semester and 5 courses for second semester, including project. I really tried my best this year, so that I can graduate. The trauma, depression, studying with my juniors, O God, after stressing myself reading day and night, preparing hard and settling project issues, just to discover that I failed 2 courses in second semester. I will now splash, not again.

I am pressing some buttons IF the courses can be waved. I discovered that I failed the two on friday after checking my results at the level adviser's office.

How will I inform my parents? I don't have a choice than to just end this if nothing can be done before Wednesday evening.

The pressure is just too much. I am the first born of my parent. They are expecting the good news not the splash news again, not after supporting me for a year.

My dear
Did you come to this world because of University of Ilorin. Is it worth ur life and effort. If you die they will give just a minute of silence for you and the school still goes on and the fact that ur not yet a graduate still remains.
If u think killing urself is the best option its up to you. But remember lif has no duplicate once uve gone uve gone. Notin is worth it. Everbody dies at last and take notn not even d so called certificates acquired.

He who wears the shoe knows where it hurts but guy I fit vez slap u now sha. U r healthy, strong, 23 second spill and u wan kee urself??

My friend's younger bro who is very very intelligent is 25 and yet to get admission. But u 23.

I left sch at 21 but didn't get a job till 26.

If we all decide to kee ourselves cos of challenges, ya papa sef for no remain.

Nor make me vez slap u tru NL ooo. Pick urself up stupidddd, look at other ppl's situation n u wld b thankful for where u r now stupiddd......who told u ur success comes only through ur degree obtained.........lemme hush here b4 my temper boil yam.

...Funny u

Guy u Ar just 23 years old.. Age is on ur side, some people Ar just processing school at this age and u Ar talking about suicide... I av people who Ar old to be my father in my level at school (400), and they still carry courses over, some even join us at dis level because dey Ar spilling and splashing... so if as old as they ar they Ar not giving up or commit suicide why will a Young fellow dat still has everything on his side give up by committing suicide... Pls tight ur belt and get urself together. There Ar lot ahead of u.

You"re just 23yrs old...some people are jubiliating they got admission into uni @ ur age ...i"m not saying you shouldnt be a lil" bit hard on yourself for splashing,but hey;who knows what's waiting for you whichever way..God's delay's not his denial...stay strong,Keep ur head up!

Delphi:
Once there is life, there is hope. Calm down. Except death, everything has a solution. Please, when and where do you intend to do that, i.e., the venue and time.

lol, do u want to witness it? Or avert it?

fellowbeing:
I will kill myself on Wednesday if am not able to sort this out. I'm tired of this life even though people around believe all is well with me.

I am a 23 year old undergraduate of University of Ilorin. I am a spill over student due for graduation last year. I had 2 courses for first semester and 5 courses for second semester, including project. I really tried my best this year, so that I can graduate. The trauma, depression, studying with my juniors, O God, after stressing myself reading day and night, preparing hard and settling project issues, just to discover that I failed 2 courses in second semester. I will now splash, not again.

I am pressing some buttons IF the courses can be waved. I discovered that I failed the two on friday after checking my results at the level adviser's office.

How will I inform my parents? I don't have a choice than to just end this if nothing can be done before Wednesday evening.

The pressure is just too much. I am the first born of my parent. They are expecting the good news not the splash news again, not after supporting me for a year.

Spillover is not the end education, it is not the end to success too. If these courses are not waived, then you should not be downcast; you should not take your life.

Seriously are you for real? You are giving up on life already just for some lame carry over , what will you do then when bigger challenges come up. Dude seriously you need to brace yourself. University ain't gonna make you what u intend to be in life it only prepares you. If you commit suicide now ask yourself this question, what have i achieved in life? Nothing of course. You need a new orientation in life

Suicide ke? U aint the first or the last person this will happen to in UNILORIN! U aint the first/the last person whose mom will be holding vigils for his/her successes. So why suicide? I wonder what people who have graduated and are still writing job test/exams for 6 or more yrs should do! What you are going through now is the simplest of all challenges one may go through now.
There's always a way out to every challenges as long as u can exercise patience and prayerful. Kindly contact me through PM....and let's see what God will do.

guy... pls jus forward all the money in your account to mine before committing suicide so it won't waste. you wanna commit suicide... it's a free world....

B serious pls

fellowbeing:
I will kill myself on Wednesday if am not able to sort this out. I'm tired of this life even though people around believe all is well with me.

I am a 23 year old undergraduate of University of Ilorin. I am a spill over student due for graduation last year. I had 2 courses for first semester and 5 courses for second semester, including project. I really tried my best this year, so that I can graduate. The trauma, depression, studying with my juniors, O God, after stressing myself reading day and night, preparing hard and settling project issues, just to discover that I failed 2 courses in second semester. I will now splash, not again.

I am pressing some buttons IF the courses can be waved. I discovered that I failed the two on friday after checking my results at the level adviser's office.

How will I inform my parents? I don't have a choice than to just end this if nothing can be done before Wednesday evening.

The pressure is just too much. I am the first born of my parent. They are expecting the good news not the splash news again, not after supporting me for a year.

During my final yr,i wrote almost 5 carryovers and still made 22

Example 1
mohammadu buhary, he was litrally crying when he lost the last election. He vowed, no more. But pls who is the president of nigeria now?

ppl who comit sucide donst anounce it

Had similar issue then. Noticed one of my results were missing when the semester was far gone. Never failed a course in school, and the only option was to resit the course. I wept cos it made me not to graduate with my mates. Finally wrote the so called course and still made a 2'1. So just see it as one of life challenges and pray over it. God is your strength cos suicide is not the remedy

Pls dont do it. Life is precious, go to d hospitals and wat m talkin abt

Just one slap from me will reset your brain back to default...

fellowbeing:


Sir, I will be spilling for the second time. Funny enough, it is not as if I wasn't the brilliant, especially during my 200L and 100L days. It all started second semester 200L.

That's where something must have been wrong somewhere. Try getting your hand on other things. Getting a certificate is not everything, at least you have the experience..


Just Endure cos it wouldn't be easy. But in years to come you will definitely remember And Laugh..

Don't kill yourself. Kill the problem.

Bro which department is that? I am also a better by far student studying educational technology?? Please rethink what you are about to do bro

How do u wish to die bro? God gave u life and u choose death, thy curse u frm ur village u better go for a deliverance coz ur not well

can u b like me??even after defending my project I was handed a letter that I have been expelled... am still moving on n am getting there soonest...though it was devastating..

You're not alone; many of us have had suicidal thoughts at some point in our lives. Feeling suicidal is not a character defect, and it doesn't mean that you are crazy, or weak, or flawed. It only means that you have more pain than you can cope with right now. This pain seems overwhelming and permanent at the moment. But with time and support, you can overcome your problems and the pain and suicidal feelings will pass. You need to be strong bro.

fellowbeing:


Sir, I will be spilling for the second time. Funny enough, it is not as if I wasn't the brilliant, especially during my 200L and 100L days. It all started second semester 200L.

one thing comes to mind



GIRLS!!!!