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The Different Type Of Friend And Which One To Choose by realsherif98: 7:42am On Jul 27, 2015 |
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The noble Shaykh Muhammad Ibn
Salih Al-'Uthaymeen, may Allah have
mercy upon him, states: "And he
(Shaykh Bakr Abu Zayd, may Allah have mercy upon him) divided
(in his book Hilyatu Taalib-il-'Ilm)
friends into the following three
categories: Firstly: The one who
befriends you for some worldly interest.
He is the one who befriends you for as long as he can benefit from you by
way of money, status or other than
that. As soon as that benefit ceases he
turns into your enemy and he doesn't
know you any longer and nor do you
know him. How numerous are the people of this category! And how
numerous are those who complain
when it comes to gaining some
worldly benefit!Allah says; ''And of them
are some who accuse you {O
Muhammad} in the matter of {the distribution of} the alms. If they are
given part thereof, they are pleased,but
if they are not given thereof, behold!
They are enraged! {surah At-Taubah vs
58}
You think that he's your close friend and from the most beloved people to
you and that you are from the most
beloved people to him, but when he
asks you one day and says: "Lend me
your book so that I may read through it!"
and you say to him: "By Allah, I need the book today but I'll give it to
you tomorrow." he suddenly becomes
arrogant and hostile towards you. Is
this a (real) friend?! This is the one
who only be friends you for some
worldly gain. Secondly: The fun friend. He only be friends you because he
enjoys sitting, having conversations,
socializing and staying up until late at
night to have a chat with you, but he
does not benefit you and nor do you
benefit from him. Each one of you does not benefit the other. It is nothing
else but time wasting. You similarly
have to watch out when it comes to
this category in order for him not to
waste your precious time.
Thirdly: The good and virtuous friend. He inspires you to do good and forbids
you from doing evil. He opens up for
you the doors of good and guides you
towards them. And if you do a
mistake he admonishes you without
that you have to feel embarrassed. He is the good and virtuous friend." Shaykh
Muhammad bin Saalih
al-'Uthaymeen, may Allah have mercy
upon him
Source: Sharh Hilyati Taalib-il-'Ilm |
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