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I have come to love this blog like my family, I visit here like no man,s business, even my husband knows but he is a very busy man and doesn't do blogs. We've been married for 9years and have 4 children. I love him like kilode and he does too to the extent his friends use us as example of what a marriage should be.


Now, the issue ‎is, a month ago my husband said we should have anal sex, I thought he was kidding because our sex life is already very wild and adventurous, so I was wondering what else he wants; 2 weeks ago he pleaded again that we should try it,to make him happy I agreed, but we had to stop because I almost fainted in pain.


Now my hubby is ignoring me for days now.


I even wanted to check if he is having an affair but i'm not the snooping type because we trust each other; I have prayed, cried and tried talking to him, still no headway. How can a marriage going so smoothly suddenly turn to this? We haven't talked for days now as he keeps ignoring me, only attending to our kids.

I'm becoming mentally and emotionally frustrated and I don't want to talk to any of my friends about it, so I decided to write to here for advise. Please, help, what should I do?‎



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Are you gay?

Guess you tagged the wrong person

Give it to him because if you don't, UNILAG student will be involved, and if they're involved. You know what it means...........
Don't forget. There will more tighter than the main thing after 4 children

Just saying




Gbogbo emi esu mo ba yin wi ni oruko Jesu

Anal sex

1.I think ur husband watch way too many hard core porrn for a married man......

2.if u guys must indulge in it u probably need help from a ssex instructor or something....that type of ssex is not easy @ all....my tip u guys need plenty lubricants and he should go in very gently and with low velocity(hope u get d picture).

If you don't want it, Say no.
And mean it.

HE Who hasn't Watch Porn should Cast the First Stone. Ur husband failed to differentiate between a Wife and Porn star.

Na small small dey use take de drink hot palmWine

Pornography is involved!

i would have told this wifey that she should educate herself on how to PROPERLY have ana.l sex so that it could possibly be rewarding.
the MAIN issue about an.al sex is for the woman to RELAX, if she aint then it can never be done properly/painlessly.

Give it 2 him raw, but also demand he also licks it deep 4 you anytime he wants 2 penetrate your lower intestines! Anal sex feels good 4 men but is extremely sweet 4 women and even leads 2 orgasms most of the time! But make sure he gives you a rim job as his penalty! Don't be shy give it a try! If not AMINA, OBIAGELI and KUBURAT would gladly oblige him and you know what the consequences of dia involvement can lead 2? But wait oh? This op na man sha! Abeg 14 yrs no be am oh!

Before you give him, get a dïldo and let him promise you he will allow you put it up his asss as well.

Don't do it! It wont stop him from cheating!
Or , aye you should get a Love Machine and Bleep him as well

Don't understand why women gets agitated and lack esteem concerning this.This na very small thing wey no suppose to worry anybody at all.Husband wey go cheat go cheat, if you like do the anal or not . Trust myself na, I will present him certificate to gi ahead and get it outside. Who get time?

The day he choose to go through the normal sex, we use condom, I expect he dies alone in case he contracts HIV.Thanks for the different types of Love Machine, and sex objects. When I feel Hot, I fuccck myself to death!


Nigerian married women, una really get time.

winetapper:
Na small small dey use take de drink hot palmWine

them dey prison? @your signature

firstEVA:
Before you give him, get a dïldo and let him promise you he will allow you put it up his asss as well.

i hope you feel the same way when your man suddenly asks you to open doors for him, go to work and pay your 50/50 share of any bills/food/kids/clothes/vacations etc... lol!

firstEVA:
Before you give him, get a dïldo and let him promise you he will allow you put it up his asss as well.

I was going to say this too.

Op,get a big Love Machine and tell him you want to try it on him first.
If you don't want it,just say no and let it stop there.It's not every adventure one partakes in even in marriage.

NaijaSingleBoy:


them dey prison? @your signature

hehehehe the prison de center of Atlantic ocean until next year oo... Abeg Help Campaign for them oo

MRBrownJ:



i hope you feel the same way when your man suddenly asks you to open doors for him, go to work and pay your 50/50 share of any bills/food/kids/clothes/vacations etc... lol!

oh so because he pays the bills, he should destroy my body ba? No way. I think our men are getting over influenced by porrrn, they fail to realise that most of those porrrn stars are on drugs and are heavily paid for what they do, they also get adequate medical attention. I believe it's disrespectful for a man to demand for anal sex from his wife, except of course she likes and wants it.

Hehehehehe husband going gaga too much porn exactly the reason I don't put my face there. Nne you really have to discuss this with him and check yourself too.

EwwwwwwwEwwwwwww

Hmmmm....I thought Sex therapists always emphasized on Sexual Fantasy? Is Anal sex not among?

xynerise:
Hmmmm....I thought Sex therapists always emphasized on Sexual Fantasy? Is Anal sex not among?

Well maybe I will suggest my husband make out with a man in my presence .
If he must drill my hole to get sexual fantasies, then he must make out with a man to also satisfy my intimate curiosity

I won't even be jealous!

I tink u already made d mistake of making ur sex life too adventurous. Now ur husband feels he can bring other ideas from just anywhere to even spice it up more. I guess u both have 2 talk dis out and set boundaries else I see danger

My dear rebuke him asap. D last tym I check, d anus is meant 4 excretion of s.hit n not 4 sex. May God deliver dis generation. I wonder wat d next generation will do

firstEVA:
oh so because he pays the bills, he should destroy my body ba? No way.

of course NOT.... you should pay half of the bills because you believe that everything in life is 50/50, and that if your man ask for an.al then that means you should fukc him too with a dil.do...

I think our men are getting over influenced my porrrn, they fail to realise that most of those porrrn stars are on drugs and are heavily paid for what they do, they also get adequate medical attention.

yeah p0rnstars get heavily paid and get adequate medical checks but are you therefore saying that EVERYTHING they do is wrong? yes, the "way" they go about it may be different but the basis of what they do (aka sex) has been here for gazillions of years... and people have been having an.al sex way before po.rn was ever created, lets get real here!

I believe it's disrespectful for a man to demand for anal sex from his wife, except of course she likes and wants it.

at LAST, you are saying some things that makes sense here (the bolded). so you think that its disrespectful for a man to tell his wife about what turns him on, and instead he should hide and be miserable in silence, or what?

btw, here are a few clues for you:
- most women would never lose their virginity, if it wasnt because the 1st time, the guy pushed on when the gal said it was painful (just like anal sex).
- the majority of women were in pain the 1st time they had sex, and after a few trials and errors, they now love it (just like anal sex).

#myoneccefa
NO amount of love!cajoling!! Threat!!! et al will make me do that!!!
Peace..

No go shit for bed ooo

EggovinMma:


Well maybe I will suggest my husband make out with a man in my presence .
If he must drill my hole to get sexual fantasies, then he must make out with a man to also satisfy my intimate curiosity

I won't even be jealous!

Be careful of what you wish for or.........

xynerise:

Be careful of what you wish for or.........

Lmao.
Seriously, I wish for this, that's if he wants us to start an "ANAL-LISTIC" Marriage.

EggovinMma:


Lmao.
Seriously, I wish for this, that's if he wants us to start an "ANAL-LISTIC" Marriage.

First experience will definitely be comedy

Shooo wic one be dis again . Pray for God to deliver him cos only God can change a man . After when shit dey drop from ur body anyhow d same man go run leave u