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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by christinie(f): 10:34pm On Jul 30, 2015
Dragonking:


Did you go through the whole thread at all? If you did u would have noticed the poster's comment below.

only one person?
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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Moana(f): 10:38pm On Jul 30, 2015
jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.
Take time to find out the route of the problem. Some women usually lose it after childbirth especially when it was a difficult experience. If thats the case she will need professional help to get over it and start enjoying being with you again.

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Dragonking: 10:39pm On Jul 30, 2015
christinie:
only one person?

Check very well, you will see enough post blaming the guy and all sort of rubbish as usual. It mustn't be in the exact format as u expected though.

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jul 30, 2015
tjskii:
You could talk to her about getting some libido boosting sprays or creams, this could help get her in the mood.. The thing with us females is that lovemaking is a thing of the mind, we don't get turned on by visuals the way men are programmed to... Most likely shez worn out cleaning up after u and the kids, probably worrying bout finances(best way to economize) to suddenly be In the mood for sexxx,

Get some1 to assist her with household chores and the kids, tell her often how beautiful she is, send her random sweet text messages, take her out for date night, just the two of u, last but not least, get her libido boosting sprays/creams
I have the feeling you're just anatha pampered kid or that you watch movies too much or you have an overdose of fairy tales running in yo blood. Kid, your opinion doesn't work in reality. There is no time.
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by malikisah: 10:43pm On Jul 30, 2015
Cutehector:
Who killed it
good question
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Aderupoko2: 10:44pm On Jul 30, 2015
Which kain thing be that, u neva start and she don finish. You have been scammed

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by malikisah: 10:45pm On Jul 30, 2015
capricun:
Something must have led to the "death". Libidos don't just die like, something triggered it or you were not doing enough. Shed some light into occurances during that period. Did you hurt Her? Did she lose someone? Did she get a new job? Or is she cheating on you?

The solution to this problem starts with communication smiley
well said!
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by bashsani(m): 10:45pm On Jul 30, 2015
Born2berich:


I feel your pain Oga jackbauer and as a married man myself, I will advise that both of you see a sex therapist for guidance. You can also pm me if you wish to discuss about it in private as we have known each other very well in the investment thread. It is well.
pls don't pm anyone they will only add to ur problem by scamming u
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by mikkypel(m): 10:45pm On Jul 30, 2015
Ama80:
I'm one of such women whose libidos are dead long time ago and yes a lot of things contributed twds dat;1 my husband's unfaithfulness,2 poor sexual motivations in d bed.etc.so op tell us wat u did dat killed her libido

And how is the libido now, have you buried it?
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by vague: 10:46pm On Jul 30, 2015
kevinberry:
This is why I always encourage people to marry younger ladies ....

This is what happen when you marry an old cargo
its brain dead people like you that are old and still act like fools.

Some women develop sexual disorders because of their partners infidelity, miscarriages, abortion and child birth.

But hey, when others were in science class you were probably dancing with masquerades in your village.

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jul 30, 2015
Bro,she is not attracted to you.She may have a side nikka who is servicing her often.

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by christinie(f): 10:47pm On Jul 30, 2015
Dragonking:


Check very well, you will see enough post blaming the guy and all sort of rubbish as usual. It mustn't be in the exact format as u expected though.
but I never saw where anyone recommended change of toothbrush/accent/steps , gym enrolment and swags upgrade for him hahahaha. Women don suffer.

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by 3kay945(m): 10:48pm On Jul 30, 2015
Pishure of the dead libido or ...... Oh, sorry it can't be seen cool

On a serious note, are you a one minute man
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by midolian(m): 10:50pm On Jul 30, 2015
OREMUSSANCTUS:
Mr man, u died d day her libido died
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by TV01(m): 10:50pm On Jul 30, 2015
BCISLTD:
U most do this for a living
Thank you. Funnily enough I do. Actually acquiring my certification now.

That was encouraging. Much appreciated. God bless you.

Coach TV cheesy
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by 3kay945(m): 10:52pm On Jul 30, 2015
Aderupoko2:
Which kain thing be that, u neva start and she don finish. You have been scammed

grin
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jul 30, 2015
darlenese:
No woman will make this kinda decision if she was enjoying it , oga are u sure u are doing the right thing? , there's difference between having sex and making love o.

Please beg her to tell u the truth and u will be amazed
Give him full illustrations on how to spice his woman up.
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by midolian(m): 10:53pm On Jul 30, 2015
Ama80:
I'm one of such women whose libidos are dead long time ago and yes a lot of things contributed twds dat;1 my husband's unfaithfulness,2 poor sexual motivations in d bed.etc.so op tell us wat u did dat killed her libido
hmmmmm...lipsrsealed
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 10:53pm On Jul 30, 2015
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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Dragonking: 10:55pm On Jul 30, 2015
christinie:
but I never saw where anyone recommended change of exercise, gym enrolment, change of accent, change of steps, swags upgrade for him hahahaha. Women don suffer.

Can you compare all those comments to this one below? Definitely you can't..women are enjoying if u don't knw.

shaboti:
thats because you are very weak man, you have failed to satisfy her sexually and now murdered the poor woman's libido. You should be very ashamed of yourself!!
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Spydamannn(m): 10:56pm On Jul 30, 2015
Who are your Neighbors?
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Dragonking: 10:57pm On Jul 30, 2015
bashsani:
pls don't pm anyone they will only add to ur problem by scamming u

Stop being fo0lish. Both of them know themselves in the investment thread as he stated it. I knw dem too.....Learn to read and stop displaying ur ignorance here.
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by christinie(f): 10:57pm On Jul 30, 2015
Dragonking:


Can you compare all those comments to this one below? Definitely you can't..women are enjoying if u don't knw.

lol I saw that one too. Wicked!!!
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Dragonking: 10:57pm On Jul 30, 2015
christinie:
lol I saw that one too. Wicked!!!

So who is enjoying and who is suffering now?
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by mrajims(m): 10:59pm On Jul 30, 2015
Empress2014:
cheesy dead libido should be buried....or better still wait for Jesus that rise Lazarus from the dead
good talk my sister. dead libido should be buried after knowing who killed it. period undecided but bros bad o. 2kids in two years? haba you wan kill am? maybe na you kill the libido you come here they ask

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by brownsug(f): 11:00pm On Jul 30, 2015
Try and improve ur look,both of u shld do more exercise together,don't use libido enhancing drug,its too early,tell her to take vitamin c daily,make her happy she may be going thru sex,be more romantic.I hope it helps

jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by brownsug(f): 11:01pm On Jul 30, 2015
Try and improve ur look,both of u shld do more exercise together,don't use libido enhancing drug,its too early,tell her to take vitamin c daily,make her happy she may be going thru stress,be more romantic.I hope it helps

jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 11:01pm On Jul 30, 2015
freecocoa:
OP something must have happened, find out what.


Well except your wife is 80 years old.undecided
Like what?
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by ssiaccenture(m): 11:02pm On Jul 30, 2015
Problem: wife lost libido.

Causes: She is stressed out as result of work pressure at home and in the office. You guys have not been talking of increase your sex lives. She probably wants to be sex starved as a result of her inability to come to orgasm due to your poor performance or poverty. She is either keeping extra marital affair or discovered your infidelity. Spritual attack. Love lost between you guys. Etc.


Solutions: forget for for a while about your personal fulfilment sexually and concentrate on her by going for counselling, spiritual healer, learning more about the importance of irgasm during sex and above let her take viagra.

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Mightyodi: 11:04pm On Jul 30, 2015
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