saggat2:
Smh God has given humans everything we need to co-exist. How can you want God to come down and help you with what you can do for yourself!

bros thank you very much, people are taking GOD for a servant. how can human with full functioning brain need GOD to look for husband/wife for them.? religion has blinded so many people

Sagamite:


I am not saying you should not have your belief. I am just advicing you on what you should do like the way people like you do it.

I'm not seeking for advice cause i know the source of good things

DoTheNeedful:
I thought this lady was married or is she divorced? I used to have a serious crush on her The girl set no be small . I wont still mind going with my CV to apply for a job "under" her . Aunty e jo o,mo n wa she la be yin

Y u no find work on top her?

I don't think the point of being 40 is to start competing with younger people.


That only happens when people get too western and do not know about African values.

Its actually a big turn off if men drooling all over you is the only thing you look forward to at such an age.

sure recipe for cloudiness.

Maryalex1805:

Y u no find work on top her?

Under her is better. I will take the offer with all humility

ammyluv2002:
Story! Only God can give a man. Do your part and God will finalize the rest , we can't achieve anything without God that's the simple truth.

God bless You this Monday, sowi jor always.
Apart from all these textbook abi celebrity answers, How many ladies know who they are let alone what they need.

missbronze:
I went to church one time, pastor asked those looking for partners should come out for prayer, we all did. both guys/ladies

Hi. Is your church in Gbagada, Lagos?

derecho:
God bless You this Monday, sowi jor always.
Apart from all these textbook abi celebrity answers, How many ladies know who they are let alone what they need.

free2ryhme

These are excerpt from the full text

Let's start with Abraham, Isaac. Abraham made his servant swore than he will not take a woman outside his kindred. Read Gen 24:7 ...The Lord who rules heaven brought me here from the land where I was born and promised that he would give this land to my descendants forever. When you go back there, the Lord will send his angel ahead of you to help you find a wife for my son. Note the word find is not the same thing as choose.

Good thing you brought the passges up. When God chooses for you, He chooses the best regardless, we have the power to accept or reject God's choice (this is never advisable). If we're seeking the word "choose" then we may never find it. To choose is an option just as to choose after you FIND. God found a wife for Isaac and Abraham accepted God's CHOICE whole heartedly. God chose for Isaac and he accepted it.

In the case of Hosea God want to show a symbolic sign btw Him and the children of Israel. God will nvr visist you to choose a LovePeddler as a wife

The significance of Hosea's union with a harlot is not our bone of contention, but that God is capable of choosing for a man or not is. God explicitly chose a harlot for Hosea just as God chooses for several reasons concerning His own. For example, God could choose for you to humble you, to break you or to aid you in the ministry He has placed you. Note that He does not just choose for anyone but those who are VERY close to Him. "Those who are led by the Spirit of God are the sons of God" (Romans 8:14, NIV).
"Since ancient times no one has heard, no ear has perceived, no eye has seen any God besides you, who acts on behalf of those who wait for Him" (Isaiah
64:4, NIV).

In the case of Joseph he was about to put his wife because she was pregnant outside wedlock which is against his belief but God's plan with Mary would not allow Joseph to do put her away.

Yes, Mary was pregnant outside of wedlock. (Matthew 1:18-21) Can you imagine being engaged, and suddenly noticing that your fiancée is pregnant? She claims it wasn’t some other man, instead she says it was an angel from the Lord that got her pregnant. Joseph had two choices; to stone her to death as per the Law and as per the custom, or break off the engagement. He still had options but God re-affirmed that Mary was his wife.

Mind you she was already married before the prophecy of Christ birth. It was not a case of Joseph marrying her and she became pregnant. Mind you she was a virgin when he discovered she was pregnant

Was she? No! She was engaged to Joseph. The Bible says she was "BETROTHED". No need to stretch this.

Bottom line: God chose for Hosea and he accepted. God found (chose) a wife for Isaac, again he accepted through his father, Abraham. God re-affirmed in the case of Joseph and Mary. Just like some of the pass I gave above, all that is needs faith and total obedience. God is still in the business of choosing for His sons; those that are led. His standard has not fallen, neither has it risen beyond what it used to be.

DoTheNeedful:


Under her is better. I will take the offer with all humility

Lol...na real humility

Sanchez01:

Good thing you brought the passges up. When God chooses for you, He chooses the best regardless, we have the power to accept or reject God's choice (this is never advisable). If we're seeking the word "choose" then we may never find it. To choose is an option just as to choose after you FIND. God found a wife for Isaac and Abraham accepted God's CHOICE whole heartedly. God chose for Isaac and he accepted it.


The significance of Hosea's union with a harlot is not our bone of contention, but that God is capable of choosing for a man or not is. God explicitly chose a harlot for Hosea just as God chooses for several reasons concerning His own. For example, God could choose for you to humble you, to break you or to aid you in the ministry He has placed you. Note that He does not just choose for anyone but those who are VERY close to Him. "Those who are led by the Spirit of God are the sons of God" (Romans 8:14, NIV).
"Since ancient times no one has heard, no ear has perceived, no eye has seen any God besides you, who acts on behalf of those who wait for Him" (Isaiah
64:4, NIV).


Yes, Mary was pregnant outside of wedlock. (Matthew 1:18-21) Can you imagine being engaged, and suddenly noticing that your fiancée is pregnant? She claims it wasn’t some other man, instead she says it was an angel from the Lord that got her pregnant. Joseph had two choices; to stone her to death as per the Law and as per the custom, or break off the engagement. He still had options but God re-affirmed that Mary was his wife.


Was she? No! She was engaged to Joseph. The Bible says she was "BETROTHED". No need to stretch this.

Bottom line: God chose for Hosea and he accepted. God found (chose) a wife for Isaac, again he accepted through his father, Abraham. God re-affirmed in the case of Joseph and Mary. Just like some of the pass I gave above, all that is needs faith and total obedience. God is still in the business of choosing for His sons; those that are led. His standard has not fallen, neither has it risen beyond what it used to be.

Well, keep waiting for your husband


Best of luck

missbronze:
I totally concur.


Especially, on being approachable.

I went to church one time, pastor asked those looking for partners should come out for prayer, we all did. both guys/ladies.

After service, the gal sitting beside me was approached by one cute guy like that, you wont believe the gal started giving the guy attitude. I mean, this was the same gal that came out for prayer of partner.

The guy just tried more a bit before walking away. I was mad. i told the gal my church mind sharp sharp.

Even if she is nt available, (engaged or dating). That doesn't mean she should use the guy and do yeye in the company of her friend.

What happens to be friendly and explaining in a friendly way that u are already hooked.


Come to think of it..., That brother may be her destined husband.

Onwe ghi onye ma afo ga amu eze echi.

meaning: who knows belle wey go born king tomorrow?

maybe cute guys had shown her pepper in the past and she is trying to be cautious

Sanchez01:

You ehn?

God alone gives, by strength shall no man prevail.

you see how you people idolize celebrities based on what the media says about them?

keep misquoting bible because a celebrity said you should start soliciting men when you're 40!

Youngpo413:
maybe cute guys had shown her pepper in the past and she is trying to be cautious

Past or no past.


Ladies should make themselves approachable.

missbronze:
Past or no past.

Ladies should make themselves approachable.

na them sabi

Dankeml if i catch u i go brake ur leg.

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It wouldn't hurt to have a good career as well.

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kossyablaze:
1. Don't be an osho free...U strafffff any guy that. comes ur way.

2. Don't form toooooooooo hard to get.

3. Beware of ur make up!Make it lyt a bit.

4. Pay adequate attention on how u dress!If u
dress like a hoe,u ll meet hoe niggas!If u dress presentably,u ll meet responsible guys like me.

5. The lady below me,oya na fold ur hands and watch God throw a man down from heaven for you.Better go out there and meet ur man.If u dull,mmiri abaa gi anya life!Gbagam!
SMARTKOSSY
Now playing Rick Ross-Diced pineapples

....
I see u

ammyluv2002:
Story! Only God can give a man. Do your part and God will finalize the rest , we can't achieve anything without God that's the simple truth.

when God gives you keep on rejecting them when it lat lik 12 midnight you will be asking God questions that you will answer

who will marry a 40 yr old an for what na, what is left there to marry. She should just go ahead and have a child or adopt because its too late when there are 20-25 yr old girls in the market.

snowblaq:
.... I see u

lol I see u too!

snowblaq:
.... I see u

lol I see u too!

Sagamite:
That should be pretty much advise to all these Nigerian women, not just the ones over 40. Something I have been trying to drill into their heads on NL for long.

If this Nse Ikpe Etim is the one in the picture with that guy and she is 40, then fck me, she obviously practices what she preaches.

She is irresistable. I would gladly smash it.

She has kept herself to be able to compete with many 20-something year olds.

Many other women would not and then be shouting "Men should ......" "It is shallow to like beauty" "Beauty fades it is personality that matters".

So personality is what would give me a stiff!

Anuofia!

That's her husband

how is her stepson doing?

I've never seen them in any picture together.

ammyluv2002:
Story! Only God can give a man. Do your part and God will finalize the rest , we can't achieve anything without God that's the simple truth.

smh Nigerians... Yes only God can give one a man then whats the use of doing your part or.dont you think.your part are the things she listed?

missbronze:
Past or no past.


Ladies should make themselves approachable.

but my dear why are you not practising what you preach?

missbronze:
I totally concur.


Especially, on being approachable.

I went to church one time, pastor asked those looking for partners should come out for prayer, we all did. both guys/ladies.

After service, the gal sitting beside me was approached by one cute guy like that, you wont believe the gal started giving the guy attitude. I mean, this was the same gal that came out for prayer of partner.

The guy just tried more a bit before walking away. I was mad. i told the gal my church mind sharp sharp.

Even if she is nt available, (engaged or dating). That doesn't mean she should use the guy and do yeye in the company of her friend.

What happens to be friendly and explaining in a friendly way that u are already hooked.


Come to think of it..., That brother may be her destined husband.

Onwe ghi onye ma afo ga amu eze echi.

meaning: who knows belle wey go born king tomorrow?

i want to date you

PRIDE is just the word for single unmarried women.. They are never humble..

PRIDE is just the word for single old and unmarried folks.. They are never loyal..

enomakos:
but my dear why are you not practising what you preach?

Lol.

Is not like that. I just felt you were out to look for my trouble.

missbronze:
Lol.

Is not like that. I just felt you were out to look for my trouble.

no dear,i was just teasing you

dammykrane:
nd wen did tb.joshua start sharing husband? mtceeeew

what is ur gender..