Captainswag225:
he or she saved ur life. U gotta marry the person.

naijaboiy:
Hmmm...

People should not give because they expect something in return.

They should give because they truly wanted to help from their mind.

If the person you helped decided to reward you with something in return then it's a good thing.

So it shouldn't be compulsory.

Captainswag225:
he or she saved ur life. U gotta marry the person.

queenbetsy:
against my will?

twoondei:
Donor of what? Blood? Kidney? Heart? Semen?

Captainswag225:
u must learn to love him. He saved ur life.

queenbetsy:
some think we shouldn't be ungrateful

MrsPhyno:
I would actually suggest that you don't
There would be a power imbalance in the relationship
Cause the donor would always feel you owe them something. You would too.
IMO, no try am o

MrsPhyno:
I would actually suggest that you don't
There would be a power imbalance in the relationship
Cause the donor would always feel you owe them something. You would too.
IMO, no try am o

queenbetsy:
imagine urself in this situation....do u think U'll be happy in the relationship?

naijaboiy:

I don't see how marrying the person makes you grateful either.

This same thing can be related to a lecturer sleeping with a female student because he wants to help her with her final exams.

So of all things to be grateful with it must be sex?

You don't choose what a person who you have helped will give to you in appreciation.

Some may not have any other thing to give other than "Thank you"

queenbetsy:
thanks for ur contribution,sir

So which movie did you see this happening?

Captainswag225:
okay, now am sounding a little unreasonable lol, what i want to say is if a person saves your life and he or she loves u then jux give them a chance with a relationship., if it doesnt work out then so be it. If they are married then thats a no go area.

queenbetsy:
now....ur being considerate! thanks!

naijaboiy:

So which movie did you see this happening?

Cutehector:
Who else will u love na? Armed robber?

queenbetsy:
I mean its complicated

Cutehector:
ur d one dats complicated... Uncomplicate ur life.... Do u think I will donate my kidney and give to u?

Someone who went extraordinary to gv his kidney fo u. And u sayn u dnt love him.. U hav a very wicked heart.. JeeeEz!

queenbetsy:
what if you are in this situation? would u have chosen to be unhappy in the relationship?

queenbetsy:
I've observed that whenever a lady/guy is in need of a donor and the donor happens to be someone who's in love with d lady/guy,most times, they(donors) think that the reward that suit them is to start a love affair or even marry the person...... what if I don't love him? what if I refuse to date him? am I being ungrateful?
....what's ur take on this?


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queenbetsy:
lots....and I'm sure its happening to someone....maybe presently or bound to happen in the nearest future

Cutehector:
u wana knw wat I will say to u right? I will be more dan happy... !!!! Christ!!! I wish he ddnt even donate d kidney to u sef... So dat u would hav died!!

naijaboiy:

Pray you are not trapped in that type of situation.