ConfessionsNgr:
What could have made my teenage son interested in sex at his age when he should be serious with his studies? He is 14-years-old and in SS1. This is a boy brought up in a good Christian home. Maybe the mistake was the laptop his dad bought for him. We had thought it will aid him in his studies but he is using it for something that could destroy his future. I’m so sad about it. That night, I was hearing some sound from his room around 11PM and I could understand what it meant. So I tip-toed to his room and saw him engrossed in the porn movies he was watching. I was so furious; I beat him and seized his laptop. I later got to know he was introduced to porn by a class-mate of his. I told him I’m changing his school. He has been begging me not to tell his dad when he returns from his trip but I feel his father should be aware of the whole thing. Parents out there, how can I check this situation?


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pelij18:
which technical knowledge wey naija get to banned am. Nigeria is greatly lacking behind.

fizzy94:

Haha ask the Indian government how it went for them when they tried it. You can't ban porn sites o

ConfessionsNgr:
What could have made my teenage son interested in sex at his age when he should be serious with his studies? He is 14-years-old and in SS1. This is a boy brought up in a good Christian home. Maybe the mistake was the laptop his dad bought for him. We had thought it will aid him in his studies but he is using it for something that could destroy his future. I’m so sad about it. That night, I was hearing some sound from his room around 11PM and I could understand what it meant. So I tip-toed to his room and saw him engrossed in the porn movies he was watching. I was so furious; I beat him and seized his laptop. I later got to know he was introduced to porn by a class-mate of his. I told him I’m changing his school. He has been begging me not to tell his dad when he returns from his trip but I feel his father should be aware of the whole thing. Parents out there, how can I check this situation?


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gabazin080:
what if the father is dead.
Won't she do something about it

Abdulleeh:


my sister I tire o. ban the stupid thing and let the world do her worst

ConfessionsNgr:
What could have made my teenage son interested in sex at his age when he should be serious with his studies? He is 14-years-old and in SS1. This is a boy brought up in a good Christian home. Maybe the mistake was the laptop his dad bought for him. We had thought it will aid him in his studies but he is using it for something that could destroy his future. I’m so sad about it. That night, I was hearing some sound from his room around 11PM and I could understand what it meant. So I tip-toed to his room and saw him engrossed in the porn movies he was watching. I was so furious; I beat him and seized his laptop. I later got to know he was introduced to porn by a class-mate of his. I told him I’m changing his school. He has been begging me not to tell his dad when he returns from his trip but I feel his father should be aware of the whole thing. Parents out there, how can I check this situation?


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Pidggin:


It takes a lot of self-control (especially for men) to have access to porn and not use it. If he already had a smart phone before the laptop, you may be dealing with an addict, so beating him may not fully solve the problem.

I am still trying to figure out why it is essential for a 14year old boy to have a laptop or smart phone even though you said it was for study. We are not that technologically savy here, kids are still being taught by teachers and given text books for added knowledge. That said, if you choose to live like a westerner, then you are sure to face a lot of the problems they deal with too.

You did well by taking the laptop, but he also has a smart phone you need to take too, tell his dad about it and both of you should figure out what to do. I suggest you find something productive for him to engage in e.g. regular sporting activities, or anything productive that he likes should be encouraged to help him live a more meaningful life.

Henix:
good one

MzzTega:
Can't porn be banned in Nigeria?

Thoniameek:
Whatever he's doing now is out of curiosity, it's the age. And you have to understand that

They should be some sort of male figure in his life; a father, an uncle, big brother, an older friend (browda), grandpa or even a witty aunt that could help you talk to him about sex in general, but if you can handle it; do it!

Tell him it is not the right time to experiment with that skin dangling in between his legs as that is not what makes him a man..... What makes him a man is being able to defend himself intellectually and physically among his peers and being able to protect what ever is put in his care

Since he's already a good Christian boy, he knows what the bible says already; spare him that, rather give him practical ways to deal with lust and the benefits it brings afterwards. You can as well ask him to study the life of Joseph for instance.

Btw; I recommend this book to you "Modern Parents, Vintage values" by Melissa Trevathan & Sissy Goff.

Bonapart:
Deliverance he needs Talking from experience cos neeger was once an addict

ConfessionsNgr:
What could have made my teenage son interested in sex at his age when he should be serious with his studies? He is 14-years-old and in SS1. This is a boy brought up in a good Christian home. Maybe the mistake was the laptop his dad bought for him. We had thought it will aid him in his studies but he is using it for something that could destroy his future. I’m so sad about it. That night, I was hearing some sound from his room around 11PM and I could understand what it meant. So I tip-toed to his room and saw him engrossed in the porn movies he was watching. I was so furious; I beat him and seized his laptop. I later got to know he was introduced to porn by a class-mate of his. I told him I’m changing his school. He has been begging me not to tell his dad when he returns from his trip but I feel his father should be aware of the whole thing. Parents out there, how can I check this situation?


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trapQ:
Allow your kids to have sex when they are 5 yes old since you clearly support evil.

Bibidear:
Try talking to him abt sex and the harmful aspect

ConfessionsNgr:
What could have made my teenage son interested in sex at his age when he should be serious with his studies? He is 14-years-old and in SS1. This is a boy brought up in a good Christian home. Maybe the mistake was the laptop his dad bought for him. We had thought it will aid him in his studies but he is using it for something that could destroy his future. I’m so sad about it. That night, I was hearing some sound from his room around 11PM and I could understand what it meant. So I tip-toed to his room and saw him engrossed in the porn movies he was watching. I was so furious; I beat him and seized his laptop. I later got to know he was introduced to porn by a class-mate of his. I told him I’m changing his school. He has been begging me not to tell his dad when he returns from his trip but I feel his father should be aware of the whole thing. Parents out there, how can I check this situation?


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MrBiggzz:
As a father what u have to do is to sit wit ur son, and elaborate on d different typ of styles carried out...B-)

Thoniameek:
I just feel it wasn't fair in beating the boy

missbehave247:
sign of end time

Thoniameek:


Tell him it is not the right time to experiment with that skin dangling in between his legs...

jimi4us:
harmful?? you're funny. he's a guy here. I started having sex at the age of 9. my neighbor she kept on touching my Pepe massaging it on her wewe. honestly speaking it felt goooood .