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Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by IYANGBALI: 9:57pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
totorimi:God bless you jare 2 Likes |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by jabojafa(m): 10:01pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
kemiola89:let me tell u why..... I cud rememba wen i wz sti in d uni, and my state gov visited our sch wich is in anoda state. So our association thru d presido tried to present a gitf to d gov bt d security ppl didnt giv him access. So we went back n brought a young girl dt wz part of us to present d gift to d governor and lo n behold she gained access n brought back 2million naira cash for us. Dat wz d 1st time i saw dt kind of moni even though i wznt mine. 4 Likes |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by labanji(m): 10:18pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
The truth basically is; Men are most times in control of Money and Resources. And naturally Men are created to give more attention to their opposite sex than same sex As a result of this, we find a situation where the eloquence ɑ̤̥̈̊Ω̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ sonorosity of women's make some big men wanna patronise these young female bankers. Moreso, some managers would prefer employing a female banker because of the lust nature of some big men Hence the reason for such 1 Like |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Nobody: 10:19pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Abeg, aunty, wetin be gumshion? |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by ojsenior: 10:19pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
I have worked in a bank before.If you are a lady, there are few things involved in meeting your target or getting promotion.If your are beautiful, contented with the level you are and not bothered about promotion, and you don"t give a damn about being fired, or your parent or family are connected, powerful. If not......... How do you convince that permanent secretary or the commissioner of finance to open that account in your branch with you the account officer? How do you convince that married old man to bring his millions to your bank. We have to remember, it is your puna against puna from another bank. It takes the grace of God,luck to be positioned around a nice establishment that needs the service of your bank, who you know to be a Godly woman. Note: not all female marketers are Olosho, but the pressure to meet the bank's target has turned most to something else. @Op, is you fiance a desperate type? things are happening in the banking sector even with the ladies in the operation that may not have a monetary target to meet. Can you cope with her not having much time toward the family especially if you are living in Lagos, Ibadan,PH? |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Teejaykary: 10:20pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Though it might look like female bankers are prostitutes but its a lie,everybody got he or she professional job due to the nature of the job a banker must be there at all times to lure customers to patronize their product either way round.and is depends on individual to accept the proposal from their client.Dnt make a mistake by saying bankers are prostitutes, we only advice. u to safe for the rainy season. |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by kentAire(m): 10:21pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Vry simple my friends! Daddy and friends has bleeped so many of them. ;DVry simple my friends! Daddy and friends has bleeped so many of them. |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by ibe9ja: 10:27pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Because thier punanies don buzubaza anyhow before dem reach their target. I would rather marry a prostitute than marry a female bank marketer. Thunder fire any female bank marketer wey go quote me to talk rubbish. |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by SAMBARRY: 10:36pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Timbuktou:common sense 1 Like |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by SAMBARRY: 10:41pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
[quote author=engrshakespeare post=36963568][/quote] go and ask Google search engine. There's a section there meant for fools like you. They'll answer you. Oponu |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by SAMBARRY: 10:44pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Still there are still decent and sensible ones. They can't all be prostitutes emmatok: |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by onyekadike: 10:47pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
mianyaegbu:ok naah |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Kimoni: 10:49pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Woged2005: I don't understand. Why don't you have a level playing ground? Because your friend's in-law regards female marketers as prostitutes Generalizations like this comes from sheer ignorance. Like someone said, a hoe is a hoe regardless of career. Every step you take in life has its own challenges, it's left for individuals to deal with such challenges when they crop up. Will this same parent stop their son from marrying a Nigerian female graduate simply because rumor has it that female students in Nigerian universities tend to sleep with lecturers before passing their examinations? That's a common rumor in Naija too, innit? |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Teejaykary: 10:49pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
ibe9ja:We are different in nature,not only banker. |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by youngalex(m): 10:51pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
@op I don't blame the guy's family...marriage is not friendship,any potential red flag need to be eliminated,most ladies in marketing are always under pressure to deliver,they dress seductively to attract the client and possibly make love to him to "sustain" the business relationship.......In most CVs you see ability to work under pressure guess it's self explanatory as to the extent of pressure you can withstand 1 Like |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Nobody: 11:04pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:According to which English Language authority o? Or is it a yoruba word? |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Kimoni: 11:07pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Haba Oga, gumption na English word naa |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by sureboy4eva(m): 11:28pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Normal bank staff encounter so much d*cks[b][/b], talklesss of marketers, they will do anytin to meet the target given to them by the bank. A girl at zenith bank has given me her card before when I went to make a deposit and she saw my acct balance. Yet I made a #5m transfer to a usa account behold the girl hide her card underneath the wrapper holding the money I cashed out. She wrote i'm free tomorrow call me let's have launch, call me anytime but not night. and that was all. And she is married. But big bold and beautiful. If she can f*ck a customer then senior staffs are bonuses |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Nobody: 11:30pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Kimoni:Na the kain tin wey I dey hate be dis. She said gumption, Kimoni? |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by 1miccza: 11:31pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Because female Bankers are just like Female Doctors and Nurses |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Kimoni: 11:48pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Lol...Mohammed go meet mountain, mountain go meet Mohammed - as long as Mohammed and mountain don see each other 1 Like |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by mikolo80: 11:53pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
bellong:how can man do immoral tactics. which woman Will fall for seduction |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Nobody: 11:58pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Kimoni: Lol. Don't spoil my mischief-making jor. I know she's the one that liked your comment. |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by enilowo(m): 1:12am On Aug 15, 2015 |
Woged2005:if una like make una roast me after this. Hear this, I have fifteen years banking experience and I have worked in 5 different banks in this country to crown it all, they are all among top 10 banks in Nigeria and based on my experience my verdict is that 9 out of every 10 high flying ladies bank marketer are being laid aside their husband. What happen these days is they stay Ms rather than Mrs. We call them miserable sisters. If the babe dey work for one bank wey be small before come swallow big bank with head office in Dannie Street VI. Please tell yout brother to move on. Abeg no talk say I tell you o. O Dabo. 1 Like |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by bellong: 1:20am On Aug 15, 2015 |
Empero1: I am sorry, I do not exchange words with kids and people with low comprehension skill. Have a good night. |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by suavetony(m): 2:23am On Aug 15, 2015 |
kenny1313:There are so many ways to achieve ones target as a female marketer...especially wen the lady in question is professionally minded. Is only those that don't have something "upstairs" among them that indulge in such acts. All she needs to do is to convince her clients of d short term benefits, interest or profit if they bank with them. |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by macminista(m): 3:05am On Aug 15, 2015 |
Does GOOGLE know what obtaines in 9Ja? Abeg try to dey visit home often as u can.." my mama say i be nigerian" |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by madjune(m): 4:39am On Aug 15, 2015 |
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Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by DedeNkem: 4:41am On Aug 15, 2015 |
I think because some Female Bank Marketers in Nigeria created the bad image of using their body to sell their banks' services. A girl came to me with the help of a friend few years ago, and told me that they're under serious pressure in her bank to meet a monthly quota for new customers who would have at least one million balance in their new accounts for at least three months. She told me she was open for anything I want that will make me comfortable, for her to have me as her new customer. You know what "open for anything I want" means. She was wearing a very sexy mini with tight blouse that revealed her voluptuous curvy hips. She was in fact, a very very beautiful woman. But the thought of wife in my head reminded me I wasn't the ashawo I used to be anymore. By the end of the day, my wife and I helped her by opening two accounts at her bank. So some Nigerians see them as ashawos. |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by nastyesco(m): 6:18am On Aug 15, 2015 |
Why do most marriages go wrong? -Because most parents focus more on the book than the cover -Because most guys nowadays don't even have the guts to take their own decisions and stand by it. And in this topic I simply see both points above being the bone of contention. Shout out to those Marketers who sell their body and bank products....How market?? |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by perryy(m): 6:22am On Aug 15, 2015 |
As a male banker who is in the know of how those ladies operate, I won't allow my son to marry any female bank marketer. In our branch here in Ota, we had a case where a colleague of ours dated a father and went on to date his son when the man died,all in the name of deposit. The pressure is just too much for them. How will a woman who has signed a post dated letter of resignation says no to a man who promised her 100m deposit? She knows the only thing that will make her regional head not to forward her letter HCM at the end of the month is her meeting her target or even 50% of it. If she says yes to the man, she will keep her job and may even be celebrated, depending on how much she has brought in relation to her target, if she says no, she is out of the job at the end of the month. Can her husband pay her 300k per month? How much is her husband's salary self? The temptation is NOT resist able |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by priscaoge(f): 6:47am On Aug 15, 2015 |
kenny1313: That's d problem we face in Nigeria. Someone I know actually quit the job due to the pressure from d bank and especially the conditions given to her by these rich men. |
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