It might sounds unbelievable but it happened , I have got a friend,a hardworking type who luvs his wife very much.He is cameraman and also sells Dvd plates to supplement it.(no food 4 lazy man) . He met and got married to this girl in the church with the help of my church tingy"omo boy no sabi toast ".d wedding was ok and b4 u knew it they had a baby..so along the line, the wife started behaving somehow,denying the husband his obligatory right to have intimate with her to the extent that the man would slot in ponographii and most times selfservix in her presence,and she will belike"yea this is what u need..kip it up"...it has been like this for some months... He didn't border and due to his feelings for his wife,he opened a beer parlour for her atleast to show her that he still care,on this faithful day,he went to her beer parlour and other for some drinks,the wife brought the drinks and he thanked her and rubbed her shoulder romantically atleast to give signal to other customers that this is my wife.. the next thing he received was a loud slap on his face,he didn't do anything and he left the place to avoid further embarrassment ....the man his seeking advice because he his ready to divorce......don't really know what to say that's why I am here....thanks

Marriage of inconvenience.Back to sender.ASAP.

They say cute guys like me are womanizer.... Yes!
I've told myself my kids must date 3 different guys/Ladies before my eyes... Have sex with them before saying that crazy phrase "i do"
I'm single.... Still searching because I hate news like this. Anything that borders on my sexualty and private life I regard them more than going to church...
MEN NEED SEX TO LIVE NORMAL JUST LIKE CARS NEED GASOLINE TO SERVE FUNCTION.
Going to church doesn't make you complete Christian/Muslim. Is simply makes u religious.
The purest orange juice can't move your car....
Take heart bro... I've got no advice for you now your are married. Wish I met you single..

He should remember two wrongs dont make a right. Before taking any step to divorce her, let him finda week to gift her her favorite things and be at peace with her. once he is sure she seems happy, he should talk to her about what has been happening and seek for her opinion as to what to do to make things better. It might just be something little he needs to work on ...something as little as bad bed action.

This story get as e be

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It might sounds unbelievable but it happened , I have got a friend,a hardworking type who luvs his wife very much.He is cameraman and also sells Dvd plates to supplement it.(no food 4 lazy man) . He met and got married to this girl in the church with the help of my church tingy"omo boy no sabi toast ".d wedding was ok and b4 u knew it they had a baby..so along the line, the wife started behaving somehow,denying the husband his obligatory right to have intimate with her to the extent that the man would slot in ponographii and most times selfservix in her presence,and she will belike"yea this is what u need..kip it up"...it has been like this for some months... He didn't border and due to his feelings for his wife,he opened a beer parlour for her atleast to show her that he still care,on this faithful day,he went to her beer parlour and other for some drinks,the wife brought the drinks and he thanked her and rubbed her shoulder romantically atleast to give signal to other customers that this is my wife.. the next thing he received was a loud slap on his face,he didn't do anything and he left the place to avoid further embarrassment ....the man his seeking advice because he his ready to divorce......don't really know what to say that's why I am here....thanks

who slapped him and why?
what was the wife's response?
the man self servicing in front of the wife and the wife urging him on?
This is no marriage but contracted cohabitation!

kristonium:

who slapped him and why?
what was the wife's response?
the man self servicing in front of the wife and the wife urging him on?
This is no marriage but contracted cohabitation!

d wife slapped d man,,,dunno why.....but suspecting d woman might have a boyfriend drinking in d bar @ dat moment

otukpo:
This story get as e be

quite unbelievable but it happened...

Why beer parlour business though ?

Ewuro4:
Why beer parlour business though ?

dunno

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d wife slapped d man,,,dunno why.....but suspecting d woman might have a boyfriend drinking in d bar @ dat moment

That means the wife married the man!

Segedinho:
It might sounds unbelievable but it happened , I have got a friend,a hardworking type who luvs his wife very much.He is cameraman and also sells Dvd plates to supplement it.(no food 4 lazy man) . He met and got married to this girl in the church with the help of my church tingy"omo boy no sabi toast ".d wedding was ok and b4 u knew it they had a baby..so along the line, the wife started behaving somehow,denying the husband his obligatory right to have intimate with her to the extent that the man would slot in ponographii and most times selfservix in her presence,and she will belike"yea this is what u need..kip it up"...it has been like this for some months... He didn't border and due to his feelings for his wife,he opened a beer parlour for her atleast to show her that he still care,on this faithful day,he went to her beer parlour and other for some drinks,the wife brought the drinks and he thanked her and rubbed her shoulder romantically atleast to give signal to other customers that this is my wife.. the next thing he received was a loud slap on his face,he didn't do anything and he left the place to avoid further embarrassment ....the man his seeking advice because he his ready to divorce......don't really know what to say that's why I am here....thanks

jfl

He shouldnt divorce her.
She is having leadership issues, doesnt recognise him as the man of the house.
He should wait for her one day with cane.
when she comes home, lock the door and flog the living daylights out of her.
After which he should Bleep her very well.
I assure you her brain will reset.

Thank me later.

nkan nbe

Animal. You've started again

one minute you will type like a normal human being another minute you will be typing like a rapeest and woman beater

you nor dey shame. In fact shame on you

5minsmadness:

jfl

He shouldnt divorce her.
She is having leadership issues, doesnt recognise him as the man of the house.
He should wait for her one day with cane.
when she comes home, lock the door and flog the living daylights out of her.
After which he should Bleep her very well.
I assure you her brain will reset.

Thank me later.

SAMBARRY:
Animal. You've started again

one minute you will type like a normal human being another minute you will be typing like a rapeest and woman beater

you nor dey shame. In fact shame on you

jfl

Wetin be "animal" inside the tin again?
The woman wey slap the man for no reason no be animal?
Quiet man marry you put you for house open beer parlour for you, you repay am with denial of sex, humilate am to the point wey he masturbate for yafront u still tell am wedone, com slap am again for buisness centre wey he open for you.


Op take that woman home and buy N50 water cane and finish am for her back and buttocks! Her brain go reset!

I'm not saying what the woman did is right but violence doesn't solve violence. He should leave the house for her for 6months then she'll learn how to behave instead of employing violence

5minsmadness:

jfl

Wetin be "animal" inside the tin again?
The woman wey slap the man for no reason no be animal?
Quiet man marry you put you for house open beer parlour for you, you repay am with denial of sex, humilate am to the point wey he masturbate for yafront u still tell am wedone, com slap am again for buisness centre wey he open for you.


Op take that woman home and buy N50 water cane and finish am for her back and buttocks! Her brain go reset!

What kind of relationship and courtship did this couple have?I think the hubby should talk to someone in her family.

divorce shdnt be an option, he shd gv sumtim and moniter movemnt, cos she sure is cheatin on him. Dt wz why she did slap him in d beer parlour cos her lover wz der. Sinc he open d busines for her, she shd stop frm goin to d shop until she changes.

MrAnonTAC:
He should remember two wrongs dont make a right. Before taking any step to divorce her, let him finda week to gift her her favorite things and be at peace with her. once he is sure she seems happy, he should talk to her about what has been happening and seek for her opinion as to what to do to make things better. It might just be something little he needs to work on ...something as little as bad bed action.

Abeg what kinda advice is this?

MrAnonTAC:
He should remember two wrongs dont make a right. Before taking any step to divorce her, let him finda week to gift her her favorite things and be at peace with her. once he is sure she seems happy, he should talk to her about what has been happening and seek for her opinion as to what to do to make things better. It might just be something little he needs to work on ...something as little as bad bed action.

Who she be wey dem dey give am favorite things.
I can guess you are not married.
Person wey dem open shop for to show he still cares.
The Op said he loves her dearly.
She now has the audacity to slap her husband.
For a wife to slap her husband in public without offending her implies that the man means nothing.
Denying the man love making. That is how majority of married women behave.

Buy her gift, Talk to her, who she be abeg?

The right thing bro is to call your wife to order and take charge of your home. If as a last resort, then you should get counselling.

If this story is really true, then the man should first do a paternity test ASAP. To know if she danced another tone without his knowledge.

Then he should demand to know the meaning of that display out there.

I don't think there was courtship before the marriage took place. He would have seen some of those baggage.

As someone else mentioned, why would he open a beer parlour for her out of all businesses in this world?

Richy4:
If this story is really true, then the man should first do a paternity test ASAP. To know if she danced another tone without his knowledge.

Then he should demand to know the meaning of that display out there.

I don't think there was courtship before the marriage took place. He would have seen some of those baggage.

As someone else mentioned, why would he open a beer parlour for her out of all businesses in this world?

dere was no courtship, d guy was quite happy 2 have found a woman,,, he married her 2 quickly

jabojafa:
divorce shdnt be an option, he shd gv sumtim and moniter movemnt, cos she sure is cheatin on him. Dt wz why she did slap him in d beer parlour cos her lover wz der. Sinc he open d busines for her, she shd stop frm goin to d shop until she changes.

a wife that laffs out his husband N urge him 2 continue selfservix 4 him not 2 boda her intimately?. . .. d man suspected sh z is cheating but yet 2 catch her red handed,,,,mayb dat was why he torch her romantically N d bar atleast 2 let d customers knw

Hian.

Slap. In public too. And for no reason according to the story.

In my opinion that's the height of it.

I wouldn't forgive that lightly so I won't tell him to. trying to wrap my head around that kind of behavior. It's only suitable in nollywood movies.

Nollywood

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dere was no courtship, d guy was quite happy 2 have found a woman,,, he married her 2 quickly

And what was the man's reaction when the woman got home? He nor table the matter? Its either d man needs deliverance or the woman needs it. How can ur wife slap u in public, and u did nothing about it?

Op does your friend need a prophet to tell him that his wife has a guy that is playing the husband's role?

5minsmadness:

jfl

He shouldnt divorce her.
She is having leadership issues, doesnt recognise him as the man of the house.
He should wait for her one day with cane.
when she comes home, lock the door and flog the living daylights out of her.
After which he should Bleep her very well.
I assure you her brain will reset.

Thank me later.

The best advice ever.

Btw: never knew dumb guys(OP's friend) still exist

D man needs some place..i hate men dat don't take actions were necessary

Stupid advise, iranu oshi

Both of'em aren't meant for each other......no doubt....they should DIVORCE!!!!!!!!!!!!






Dis story sound yeyetic