Good men turned bad long time ago cos of the way you ladies took them for granted.

Jhenny:
are they all taken? They seem to have gone extinct. I miss being in love,i mean i would love to fall in love again but the men out there these days have all gone terribly bad. No commitment. All they want is sex sex and sex. Are there no good men willing to love you for who you are and wait till marraige. Must you sample?. I'm almost giving up on men but gosh,i miss being in love and i want to fall in love again but i'm worried. Seriously,are there still good men or are they all taken??

You don't deserve to be in love with a good man because you aren't a good woman.

Jhenny:
you're derailing and yes,there are good women. Atleast,i'm one.

what makes you a good woman?

I am one of the fair ones. seriously, if don't mind we let's mingle and by grace of God I won't fumble .

Jhenny:
are they all taken? They seem to have gone extinct. I miss being in love,i mean i would love to fall in love again but the men out there these days have all gone terribly bad. No commitment. All they want is sex sex and sex. Are there no good men willing to love you for who you are and wait till marraige. Must you sample?. I'm almost giving up on men but gosh,i miss being in love and i want to fall in love again but i'm worried. Seriously,are there still good men or are they all taken??

What's your definition of a good guy ?

Jhenny:
you're derailing and yes,there are good women. Atleast,i'm one.

Oh... u re one?

I'm also a good man.

Jhenny:
are they all taken? They seem to have gone extinct. I miss being in love,i mean i would love to fall in love again but the men out there these days have all gone terribly bad. No commitment. All they want is sex sex and sex. Are there no good men willing to love you for who you are and wait till marraige. Must you sample?. I'm almost giving up on men but gosh,i miss being in love and i want to fall in love again but i'm worried. Seriously,are there still good men or are they all taken??

there are good men everywhere, its women that deliberately drive them away.the truth is most Nigerian ladies,don't deserve to be with good guys.Nigerian ladies force most good guys to turn bad.You will be genuinely in love with a lady,without any intension of having sex with her,but,the girl will dump you for a bad guy.At least 95% of Nigerian ladies initiate a sexual intercourse,before the guy will make any such move.

Truth is like minds attract each other, you say men want sex but in reality today's girls seems to be telling the world that their unique selling point is their body. Take a look at social media Pictures of most Nigerian girls its mostly sexually revealing. If you show yourself to be a lady of high moral value men will respect you and think twice before making unwholesome requests from you.

Jorussia:
there are good men everywhere, its women that deliberately drive them away.the truth is most Nigerian ladies,don't deserve to be with good guys.Nigerian ladies force most good guys to turn bad.You will be genuinely in love with a lady,without any intension of having sex with her,but,the girl will dump you for a bad guy.At least 95% of Nigerian ladies initiate a sexual intercourse,before the guy will make any such move.

your last statement is false. Most girls dont initiate sex. Guys do,they beg for it besides i haven't met these set of ladies that dump guys cos he does not want sex. I dont know where you meet them

Tundecool:

Oh... u re one?
I'm also a good man.

good

UyiIredia:


What's your definition of a good guy ?

my definition of a good guy is someone who is ready to wait till marriage for sex. Someone who wont tell you all the sweet words just to get between your legs. He isn't a perfect person but he is ready to listen and not bother us for sex. Guys overrate sex.

DeeTus:
You don't deserve to be in love with a good man because you aren't a good woman.

and you know i'm not a good woman because??.....

AfroKnight:
Good men turned bad long time ago cos of the way you ladies took them for granted.

where does d good men meet these kind of ladies??.. Na wa.

ilobasama:
We all have our stories. Just keep being yourself. And what/who you deserve will surely find you

i pray

Afromano:
If feel your pain dear. This is exactly the question thousands of good guys are asking about ladies. isnt it ironic?

I hope ure cute tho cos ladies that call themselves "good" are usually not that attractive. i don't know why...dont shoot the messanger..just saying

i am not beautiful but i have a good heart. That is enough

Jhenny:
your last statement is false. Most girls dont initiate sex. Guys do,they beg for it besides i haven't met these set of ladies that dump guys cos he does not want sex. I dont know where you meet them

The chances of you meeting such ladies is slim,because, you are a lady.I am talking from personal experience, at least 95% of Nigerian ladies will choose a bad guy over a decent guy.

Jorussia:
The chances of you meeting such ladies is slim,because, you are a lady.I am talking from personal experience, at least 95% of Nigerian ladies will choose a bad guy over a decent guy.

thats weird. Tks for d insight

Jhenny:
my definition of a good guy is someone who is ready to wait till marriage for sex. Someone who wont tell you all the sweet words just to get between your legs. He isn't a perfect person but he is ready to listen and not bother us for sex. Guys overrate sex.

That's a very myopic view. Some guys aren't like that but may be violent, lazy or greedy. You simply shouldn't limit your definition of a good guy to his sexual behavior.

Jhenny:
and you know i'm not a good woman because??.....

Because you're fussy, moody and a little bit selfish.

women who usually look for good men are those that have already messed up with their lives.

[quote author=Jhenny post=37254632]i am not beautiful but i have a good heart. That is enough[/qute
] nope it's not enough dear sorry, men are visual beings you have to make yourself look attractive and approachable, if you are out of shape exercise and look fit, wear clothes that fit your shape with nice feminine colors it helps. When you have attracted them then u can show them your good heart.

At op, there are lots of good men around looking for ladies with good heart like u, u just need to put yourself more out there if u are the indoor type, attend weddings, functions, visit a close friend ( the one u can share secrets with)
read books, change your perspective, dressing, friends or add a few to your circle.
give some men a chance on social networks( decent ones) u can also change your shopping route and destinations.
and if u finally find a good man, don't talk to him about marriage too soon or ask him for anything... just be cool with him and also don't give in to anything u don't want to give him. and if everything goes well to the point of sex and u feel like u wanna do, just relax and enjoy it with him.
A good man always knows the heart of his woman, if the relationship is established on truth and love, then in no time he will propose... mine proposed last month and my intro is next Saturday and I'm getting married in December.

Valeree:
...and my intro is next Saturday and I'm getting married in December.

And the number of my possible alternatives just reduced by one! *worried*
Congrat to you tho.

Jhenny:
you're derailing and yes,there are good women. Atleast,i'm one.

Good if you are one...surely the good guys still exist, if those you met are all about sex, sex, sex, does not mean all guys are about sex, do not generalize, likewise the money aspect for ladies, definitely gals too Afta money, but definitely not all , so the good guys exist and am one too.

Valeree:
At op, there are lots of good men around looking for ladies with good heart like u, u just need to put yourself more out there if u are the indoor type, attend weddings, functions, visit a close friend ( the one u can share secrets with)
read books, change your perspective, dressing, friends or add a few to your circle.
give some men a chance on social networks( decent ones) u can also change your shopping route and destinations.
and if u finally find a good man, don't talk to him about marriage too soon or ask him for anything... just be cool with him and also don't give in to anything u don't want to give him. and if everything goes well to the point of sex and u feel like u wanna do, just relax and enjoy it with him.
A good man always knows the heart of his woman, if the relationship is established on truth and love, then in no time he will propose... mine proposed last month and my intro is next Saturday and I'm getting married in December.

Good this testimony is coming from a lady...hope the OP changes her perception or else she will continue to fall to wrong hands and will never see the right guys

Jhenny:
you're derailing and yes,there are good women. Atleast,i'm one.

If your measure of being a good woman is based on sex, or should I say delaying sex till marriage, you've gone terribly wrong.

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