iice:

Which is the problem? Her moving away or having the 'asking' spirit?
Or
Her being boring to you?

C2H5OH:

I think the issue here is that you have found someone you "want" . The selfish part of you wants to hold on to her, but your other half is alerting you to some ensuing compatibility issues that may break out. To be honest with you, yes sure you might coast through the honey moon period with mild arguments here and there. As soon as you settle into a routine or become more familiar with each other, you will most likely get bored of her. You know the challenge you need in a woman and this one you have found doesn't have it.
One terrible mistake you can make is jumping into a relationship with her expecting a change. If it doesn't happen don't be disappointed.

honeric01:

Your first question is for my first EX, second question is for my second EX, those 2 questions have nothing to do with the current problem i am facing.

The third question is what i am worried about, Nothing really excite me about her when communicating except the mutual likeness we have with eachother.

honeric01:


  There is a particular girl in my life, though i have not told her i want her to be my date (Partner, fiancee), but as things are, She's likely expecting me to pop up that question. The problem is that i really have a phobia with asking a girl to date me after the 2 incidence, I always fear i might end up being disappointed either by her moving away as the former one or by her showing some hidden characters i have yet to see in her while we stay as "friends" for now. Mind you, as at now, she's not the "SPOILT" type,

Something must be wrong with the post i read

iice:

I think if there is no chemistry, you can't really force it.

davidylan:

nah, my ex was exactly like that. hyper quiet . . . never raises an issue. But you can work your way around it if you truly and sincerely love her. If you dont then its time to quit now.

chamotex:

Bros, so you once had a 'Girlfriend'?

bluespice:

:p

davidylan:

and bluespice will soon replace her now.

bluespice:

chamo 4 d next 5 mins mi o kin se iyawo e mo!
ansa my kweshion!

bluespice:

chamo 4 d next 5 mins mi o kin se iyawo e mo!
ansa my kweshion!

chamotex:

You must be having a laugh.  
mi o ki n fi iyawo mi ba anybody shere o.

_{Is she d only girl on this forum?}

bluespice:

david heaven n back?
naw if u take me to heaven uve also gotta take me to hell b4 u bring me back
do we have a deal?

I am beginning to think so, but then she would always want us to talk on phone, after the normal routine questions and answers we are used to, nothing else again, when i keep quiet, she would ask me to say something but never would she raise an issue to deliberate on. too bad for me i think.