dmcdad:

Well said. But you know sometimes it's not just about provoking them.

If you say men should stop provoking them for there not to be insults, it means they have the license to verbally abuse when provoked. Should men too be given the license to physically abuse them when provoked? No of course.

Bottom line is that, both sex should know how to hold themselves together. No physical abuse, and no verbal abuse. We can argue all that about which comes first. Some will tell you they physically abused the other because they were verbally abused. And others will say they verbally abused the other cause they were physically abused. You see? It turns out to be the egg and hen.

Actually if I get to marry of which am not interested in anyway.. I cannot in anyway for any reason displease my wife talkless of physically abusing her it's like putting ones hand in fire and blaming ones brain for it. To me as far as I am concern both parties should see each other as their very self they need for complete existence. And if any case I convince myself in Loving any Lady I had give her my whole self with no restriction....After God she will be the one I will treasure than my own soul.

Stellaenefa:
Physical abuse from the man is more guilty. I always tell people not to be physical instead use your mouth(voice) to fight for your right.

Lolz, fight u say?

The last time I checked, during a fight, u come with the best weapon so as to enable u Win.

So, if u come with ur "MOUTH" as ur weapon,?
I will come with my "FIST" as my own weapon too.










My point is, None of the two forms of abuse is good in any form.

The same way a physical abuse is so bad to ladies is d same way the verbal abuse is so lethal to men.




None of them should be encouraged in any form.
And none of them should be justified in any form.

Mznaett:
In as much as am not in support of any of the above I think Verbal abuse is the worst..Women! just our mouth alone can make a man commit suicide

You are very correct.

I hate all forms of abuse. And I will never be a party to any form of abuse. Yet, these are salient things that are killing relationships and marriages today without being taken cognizance of.

Thanks for your honesty and objectivity.

Captainswag225:
hahahahahaha, so what if we say beating women too is in our genes? The thing is if we can encourage men to stop beating women then we can encourage women to stop verbal abuse. Some men wont care but others do alot and it affect them even to the point of committing suicide.

ahahah Physical Abuse is actually worse than Verbal abuse Its her major form of defence just like her nails and teeth because she know she can't beat you ...But if the lady is not abusing you down to your lineage/generations she doesn't warrant Beating,, It all depends on the type of guy some are actually aggressive,,,

There are other ways to punish a lady who abuses you verbally than Beating her...

chigoizie7:
Not again!!!!, I hate this kinda threads, and on a monday , no time to comment

You just did sweerie

shizzy7:
ahahah Physical Abuse is actually worse than Verbal abuse Its her major form of defence just like her nails and teeth because she know she can't beat you ...But if the lady is not abusing you down to your lineage/generations she doesn't warrant Beating,, It all depends on the type of guy some are actually aggressive,,,

There are other ways to punish a lady who abuses you verbally than Beating her...

lol, i dont support beating a lady no matter how verbally abusive she can be..... With that said i agree with u, some ladies were born to insult.... U jux have to ignore them.

Oyind17:








You just did sweerie

go to bed lol...

Oyind17:









You just did sweerie

Yes love, I can't help it. That's why I said "Not Again".



I don't know why some people will see certain things to be good for A and not good for B. It sulks.



Women just think that verbal abuse Is their birth right and with that, they see nothing wrong with it while there is everything wrong with it.




Well, to answer OP's question, VERBAL abuse Is the worst form of abuse. As 80% of physical abuse today is caused by a verbal abuse. Hardly will u see a man just beating a woman without the woman saying a word to him in the first place, that is to show u how BAD it is to men, we all have our soft spots,


What is good for the goose is good for the gander.


U will never know how the shoes pain unless u wear them.

To me, I would rather u beat/hit me than abuse me verbally. @times it brings out the beast in me.

dmcdad:

You see! That's the problem. They need to know it shouldn't be a culture. Just like awareness is being raised so that men would refrain from physical abuse, same should be done with verbal abuse.

To some men, abusing a woman physically is as normal as the emboldened. But should it be so? Nah nah nah.

You see I understand what you're saying BUT there are various factors to be considered
such as the *kind of home the man/woman is coming from
*The possessive man
*The bossy woman
*The kind of advice you get from friends
Its all about individual perspective,,

How do you intend to raise awareness? you should Start with the illiterate/semi-illiterates 'Cos its very common amongst them..

Captainswag225:
go to bed lol...

Ssssshhhhhhh, that's my love

Oyind17:








Ssssshhhhhhh, that's my love

huh? Ur what?

dmcdad:

Guess your cousin doesn't know shiit about football. You shouldn't believe everything he tells you, you know...

Okay, ooo but I believe him when it comes to FB because he's a diehard Fan and he actually paid me to support his club, so my loyalty remains......

chigoizie7:





Yes dear, I can't help it. That's why I say not "AGain".



I don't know why some people will see certain things to be good for A and not good for B. It sulks.



Women just think that verbal abuse I their birth right and with that, they see nothing wrong with it while there is everything wrong with it.




Well, to answer OP's question, VERBAL abuse Is the worst form of abuse. As 80% of physical abuse today is caused by a verbal abuse. Hardly will u see a man just beating a woman without he woman saying a word to him in the first place, that is to show u how BAD it is to men, we all have out soft spots,


What is good for the goose is good for the gander.


U will never know how the shoes pain unless u wear them.

To me, I would rather u beat/hit me than abuse me verbally. @times it brings out the beast in me.

I agree with you my love

Captainswag225:
huh? Ur what?

Yes, chigozie7 is my love

Oyind17:









Yes, chigozie7 is my love

awww, heartbreak for my guy. Why na!

Oyind17:








I agree with you my love

SHarp my love,
now come to bed, we ve got a long ride till d next morning

chigoizie7:




SHarp my love,
now come to bed, we ve got a long ride till d next morning

Lollll, hope you won't ask for water this night

Oyind17:








Lollll, hope you won't ask for water this night

Have u forgotten I am on water therapy? Of course I will always ask for water.

chigoizie7:






Have u forgotten I am on water therapy? Of course I will always ask for water.

You no well,loll

Captainswag225:
lol, i dont support beating a lady no matter how verbally abusive she can be..... With that said i agree with u, some ladies were born to insult.... U jux have to ignore them.

That's you But many people won't think the way you do when you say you want to create awareness,fine that's good BUT Men will have their own stories justifying the abuse and women will also have their reasons justifying the abuse...I watched a programme and they were interviewing people asking why they abuse physically and a man said he's just training her- imagine that kind of thought/mentality...

I think the abuse is inevitable it can only be reduced

Captainswag225:
awww, heartbreak for my guy. Why na!

Your guy is on his own, na Chigozie7 me love

shizzy7:
That's you But many people won't think the way you do when you say you want to create awareness,fine that's good BUT Men will have their own stories justifying the abuse and women will also have their reasons justifying the abuse...I watched a programme and they were interviewing people asking why they abuse physically and a man said he's just training her- imagine that kind of thought/mentality...

I think the abuse is inevitable it can only be reduced

so what will u do when a man tries to abuse u?

Oyind17:









You no well,loll

U are enough dose of my medication, if I no well, then u treat me. *winks

Oyind17:









Your guy is on his own, na Chigozie7 me love

i no gree oo. It must be reversed.

chigoizie7:



U are enough dose of my medication, if I no well, then u treat me. *winks

I'll be back

chigoizie7:




Lolz, fight u say?

The last time I checked, during a fight, u come with the best weapon so as to enable u Win.

So, if u come with ur "MOUTH" as ur weapon,?
I will come with my "FIST" as my own weapon too.










My point is, None of the two forms of abuse is good in any form.

The same way a physical abuse is so bad to ladies is d same way the verbal abuse is so lethal to men.




None of them should be encouraged in any form.
And none of them should be justified in any form.

Well said.

shizzy7:
Okay, ooo but I believe him when it comes to FB because he's a diehard Fan and he actually paid me to support his club, so my loyalty remains......

Paid you to support his club?

Captainswag225:
i no gree oo. It must be reversed.

I'm addicted to my Gozie

shizzy7:
You see I understand what you're saying BUT there are various factors to be considered
such as the *kind of home the man/woman is coming from
*The possessive man
*The bossy woman
*The kind of advice you get from friends
Its all about individual perspective,,

How do you intend to raise awareness? you should Start from the illiterate/semi-illiterates 'Cos its very common amongst them..

You are right. Still weighing options or means of disseminating such information. Time will tell how this can be achieved.

Captainswag225:
so what will u do when a man tries to abuse u?

it depends;; if it's my husband OR just any Man ~ different rules apply..

starlingslimnet:
Actually if I get to marry of which am not interested in anyway.. I cannot in anyway for any reason displease my wife talkless of physically abusing her it's like putting ones hand in fire and blaming ones brain for it. To me as far as I am concern both parties should see each other as their very self they need for complete existence. And if any case I convince myself in Loving any Lady I had give her my whole self with no restriction....After God she will be the one I will treasure than my own soul.

Very well sir.

Oyind17:









I'm addicted to my Gozie

then u have to stay away from my friend! I dont want u to destroy his heart.