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His name is michael, and he's 27years old (an only son) he earns 25k in a month. Now, his uncles, siblings (two sisters), friends are now pushing him to get married since he's the only son


Here is the question

• Is he to get married now? Remember he earns 25k in a month


Your professional opinion is needed

He isn't a kid anymore not to know what he wants. Even with 25k as his salary, with plans he can still make it but; he should take his time to avoid everlasting regret...

LoLs. It all depends on wha he wants for himself but I don't think it will b ok 4 him to MARRY now. He's not matured enough financially. But he could get a random girl pregnant to satisfy his uncles ( I wouldn't do that if it were me tho)

If he wants to marry he should go ahead...
Forget whether he earns 10k a year.

BeeBeeOoh:
He isn't a kid anymore not to know what he wants. Even with 25k as his salary, with plans he can still make it but; he should take his time to avoid everlasting regret...

He said he's not yet ready for marriage for now, but siblings and uncles are pushing him to the wall because he's the only son

What do you mean by "he should take his time to avoid everlasting regret?

Am curious

Melahou:
If he wants to marry he should go ahead...
Forget whether he earns 10k a year.

The guy said he's not ready for marriage for now, remember he's the only son, and he's 27years old


What do you think?

so when do you think he can earn enough to get married.

HeartRobber:



He said he's not yet ready for marriage for now, but siblings and uncles are pushing him to the wall because he's the only son

What do you mean by "he should take his time to avoid everlasting regret?

Am curious

@ the bolded...I meant he should not give into d pressure by the family not minding that he's d only son. The truth he might be giving it a second thought, but I don't he will forgive his family & himself if they made him to make the choice of marrying a wrong woman..



You should take your time bro

Sabrwahaqqo:
LoLs. It all depends on wha he wants for himself but I don't think it will b ok 4 him to MARRY now. He's not matured enough financially. But he could get a random girl pregnant to satisfy his uncles ( I wouldn't do that if it were me tho)

Lols

I wouldn't do that if it where me too though

The guy said he's not ready for marriage for now

But seriously, the salary is some how poor in my professional opinion

BeeBeeOoh:
@ the bolded...I meant he should not give into d pressure by the family not minding that he's d only son. The truth he might be giving it a second thought, I don't he will forgive his family if they made him to make the choice of marrying a wrong woman..



You should take your time bro

Seriously, the salary is poor, for me

Thanks bro, your opinion counts

HeartRobber:




Seriously, thee salary is poor, for me

Thanks bro, your opinion counts

bro! The salary isn't poor, it's all about "PLANNING & everything will fall in place..


FOOD FOR THOUGHT:


If You Don't Manage Poverty, You Can't Manage Wealth

BeeBeeOoh:
bro! The salary isn't poor, it's all about "PLANNING & everything will fall in place..


FOOD FOR THOUGHT:


If You Don't Manage Poverty, You Can't Manage Wealth

I understand you, bro


But is not as easy as you think, 25k for the month for a guy man in this present nigeria?

Think again bro

Thanks, anywhere

HeartRobber:




I understand you, bro


But is not as easy as you think, 25k for the month for a guy man in this present nigeria?

Think again bro

Thanks, anywhere

God will see u through, just take am sofri-sofri

he can go ahead and marry together they will build new generation. 25k is good enough for them.

BeeBeeOoh:
He isn't a kid anymore not to know what he wants. Even with 25k as his salary, with plans he can still make it but; he should take his time to avoid everlasting regret...

That he's not a kid anymore; I agree, that he can make it with 25k;;please educate me, that he should avoid everlasting regret; a word they say is enough for the wise.

kentochi:
he can go ahead and marry together they will build new generation.
25k is good enough for them.

Lol

Did I hear you say that "25k is good enough for two grown adult that are expecting babies soon?

kentochi:
he can go ahead and marry together they will build new generation.
25k is good enough for them.

hia, this kind of counsel!! Hope you will drop your contact in case of emergency.

HeartRobber:



He said he's not yet ready for marriage for now, but siblings and uncles are pushing him to the wall because he's the only son

What do you mean by "he should take his time to avoid everlasting regret?

Am curious

He should talk to himself that those uncle and siblings will not live with the wife with him and let them leave him alone to organise his life for a better future.

Lineage is. Very important. Family is more than just one individual.
The family might have an inheritance material or in material.
Should money be a reason for risking the shut down of the lineage?

focus7:
He should talk to himself that those uncle and siblings will not live with the wife with him and let them leave him alone to organise his life for a better future.

Thanks, man

Your opinion counts

mutter:
Lineage is. Very important. Family is more than just one individual.
The family might have an inheritance material or in material.
Should money be a reason for risking the shut down of the lineage?

Morning,

I don't understand

Can you throw more light?

focus7:
hia, this kind of counsel!! Hope you will drop your contact in case of emergency.

Lol

What is your take?

HeartRobber:



The guy said he's not ready for marriage for now, remember he's the only son, and he's 27years old


What do you think?

at times in life you need a little push or persuasion to get to the top...
apart from him been the only son am sure they are other reasons why they want him to marry now...

he should make up his mind whether to marry now or later...

HeartRobber:



Lol

What is your take?

My take is he should ignore all those mounting pressure on him and upgrade himself, opportunity for a brighter future await him out there, by God's grace he won't be 30yrs before God turn his finances around and he can now settle down with a woman. I don't always like the idea that implies that money is not an important aspect of our living, to me the place of money cannot be overlooked though I advocate legitimate means of possessing it.

focus7:
My take is he should ignore all those mounting pressure on him and upgrade himself, opportunity for a brighter future await him out there, by God's grace he won't be 30yrs before God turn his finances around and he can now settle down with a woman. I don't always like the idea that implies that money is not an important aspect of our living, to me the place of money cannot be overlooked though I advocate legitimate means of possessing it.

All true

Only son or not, he should wait till he's ready, 25k is poor for two people in this present nigeria

Thanks for your opinion, bro

Melahou:


at times in life you need a little push or persuasion to get to the top...
apart from him been the only son am sure they are other reasons why they want him to marry now...

he should make up his mind whether to marry now or later...

He said he's not ready for marriage for now

So you mean he should forget about being the only son and plan his life first?

Thanks, man

HeartRobber:




I understand you, bro


But is not as easy as you think, 25k for the month for a guy man in this present nigeria?

Think again bro

Thanks, anywhere

rememba d bible says d jsut shall live by his faith n not his salary. How many ppl do u tink live by deir salary in a month? It is beta to marry a man with vision dan a man with television. Bt if u can find a man with both den its d best.

focus7:
hia, this kind of counsel!! Hope you will drop your contact in case of emergency.

wen u find a wife, u hv founf go tin and God starts favoruin u.

i knw a couple who started with a mat in one room bt today dey built 3diff houses and dey drive tear rubber cars now. Wot it takes is jst two ppl who can agree and work togeda and b honest to each oda. Every oda tin wil fall into place.

HeartRobber:



He said he's not ready for marriage for now

So you mean he should forget about being the only son and plan his life first?

Thanks, man

if he`s not ready for marriage he should plan his life
but he should let his people understand that getting
marriage now is not priority for him as there are other things to be done

HeartRobber:
Welcome!


His name is michael, and he's 27years old (an only son) he earns 25k in a month. Now, his uncles, siblings (two sisters), friends are now pushing him to get married since he's the only son


Here is the question

• Is he to get married now? Remember he earns 25k in a month


Your professional opinion is needed

Tell everyone of the family member telling him to get married to fucckk off because they will not be around to help you when the extreme poverty starts.

Marry with 25k salary?!