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Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by AbiJr: 9:14am On Sep 04, 2015 |
U have to take it east better still if u feel u gat so many skills in marketing, start a personal buzness. so u display ur talent there. opinion |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by 9jatatafo(m): 9:15am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Toast that boss of yours and bleep the hell out of her kitty-cat, she will calm down. She is on heat!!! |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by Kings109: 9:16am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Carry her along & let her be truely the boss. Yes she might be applauded for those innovations & she'll be happy with you also but then, your colleagues & other superiors will surely know that you're her backbone & definitely you'll be rewarded in due time. |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by Cutehector(m): 9:16am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Crap... In life, its just abt u.. If she feels challenged, den let her step up her game also. U will forever remain in ur position if u let her ride on u. |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by bidosko(m): 9:17am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Start sharing your ideas and strategy with her and don't have the "I initiated it" behaviour but if she continues to throw back your idea at you, it's time to leave there and move to another place where your ideas will be higly appreciated. |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by bosunjohns(m): 9:20am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Nnaeb: |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by lordsbiz(m): 9:20am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Nnaeb:have u seem to notice that the people who have the best ideas and smartest are not likely the richest or most excelling in life? To be a huge success that i believe u r aspiring for, there are other things u need to imbibe apart from your so thought wonderful ideas, something like respect, team work, and lots more, these are the things that will help ur talent of ideas, else if u go to a million organisation to work, what awaits u is an aile of frustration. Wisdom is key to life. |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by Nobody: 9:21am On Sep 04, 2015 |
All you need do is Swindle her Fanny. She will trouble you no more. |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by ChelseaDotCom: 9:21am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Firstly, from your write-up, it's obvious that you are ignorant of company politics, organizational diplomacy and effective team playing. Even though you are more creative, don't always wants to prove a point that you have better ideas or more intelligent than those who had been doing the job b4 you joined...you'll only create enemies for yourself. So, what should you do?...... Thread softly. Let ask people for their suggestion. Let the idea be aa team work, even though you know that it emanates from you. For instance, remember Tuface in Plantation Boyz group and Beyonce in TLC. These two were the ones doing most of the singing during the reign of their groups, but, they made it looks like a team work. Now, we've been able to see that without them, the group is s good as gone! Do always wants to take the credit. If you have an idea, approach and suggest it to her and how it'll be good to your organization. Give her the room to take it up as if it was her idea, I believe, before long, she'll starts to credit you and the initiation of the idea. Please, don't discuss her or other staffer with any of your colleague, because, if someone discuss others with you, he/she may discuss you with other people. I wish you a successful work experience. Cheers! 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by ogawisdom(m): 9:22am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Nnaeb:ITK better slow down on intimidating your boss with ur ideas or u may b sacked before u kw it. from ur write up and hw u sound u r nt a team player n seem to take d whole credit for ur ideas without creditin d support of ur boss and coworkers. ur type will irritate any boss. ur ideas were implemented bc ur boss accepted it so she deserves some credit n u didnt give her any in ur post showin u r selfish |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by victorazy(m): 9:22am On Sep 04, 2015 |
NairalandDotOrg: Mmmm I never knew about this law but I implemented it when I was having similar problem. I used common sense. Simple; * Carry your boss along * Pretend he/she is the brain behind the. innovations. In my own case, I used to forward my finished job to him to submit it even as he never contributed anything on it. Delete too much gara gara |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by ephi123(f): 9:24am On Sep 04, 2015 |
NairalandDotOrg: People keep using this quote everywhere but I still don't think this addresses the poster's need. How he should he handle the situation without dumbing himself down? We need creative suggestions please rather than simply saying never outshine the master. |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by oluseke(f): 9:27am On Sep 04, 2015 |
PLEASE I WOULD LOVE TO GET SOME OF YOUR MARKETING IDEAS ON REAL ESTATE. THANK YOU |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by victorazy(m): 9:27am On Sep 04, 2015 |
ephi123: Outshining a master is a very dangerous thing to do. |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by ephi123(f): 9:30am On Sep 04, 2015 |
herrdeustch: Thank you. This seems peculiar to Nigeria / a Nigerian thing. Here at work we are constantly challenged to bring up new ideas as individuals and as a team, it is encouraged and nurtured. My naija people would rather sit down and be blowing grammar "never outshine the master" and we wonder why the nation does not progress 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by adino(m): 9:32am On Sep 04, 2015 |
The labour market is not the way forward. Do everything you can to keep your job/salary even if you must be less creative. Never, I mean never let your knowledge out without any reciprocal. Continue to make your boss happy and keep your job. Develop yourself further at the speed of light, search for where your talents are required and rewarded and Finally, GET THE HELL OUT OF THAT PLACE. |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by victorazy(m): 9:32am On Sep 04, 2015 |
oluseke: Is very simple. Pray 3 time in mid-night by 1, 2 and 3 Maintain quiet moments at least 1hrs Pay ur tithe God will answer you, gudluk |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by ephi123(f): 9:33am On Sep 04, 2015 |
victorazy: That is the problem with the Nigerian workplace. People would rather have their egos massaged than for the business to move forward. People are more comfortable with the status-quo, they don't want challenges neither do they want to grow. This is not helping us as a country at all. |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by adino(m): 9:38am On Sep 04, 2015 |
NairalandDotOrg: This is a dumb quote if I may say. This is a firm for Christ sake and the lady boss is even a staff just like the OP. The only thing the OP should do is to play along with his boss and tone down on his creativity. Quoting a book and law does not make any sense. |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by U2ice(m): 9:43am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Na I too knw wan kill u so....she's d head of dept if u av any idea discuss it wiv her... My 2cent...dnt take my advice cos am jobless |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by sweetrace(f): 9:44am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Please let me be candid. Your write up is full of how fantastic you are. How you're better than your predecessor. How you're better than your boss. How your ideas are the best. I know you didn't explicitly state these. But, please read what you wrote again and you might see it. Please note that NOT every single idea of yours may be great. All your ideas don't need to be accepted. All your ideas may be great and accepted by your boss but may not be implemented. May not be implemented because there are better ideas from others or because it just isn't the right time or... Understand that your boss has the overall picture. You don't. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by victorazy(m): 9:45am On Sep 04, 2015 |
ephi123: That is not what I meant sister. I mean he should apply wisdom by carrying his superior along. Involve her in your ideas even when she has nothing to contribute. Am an architect and I ones faced the same problem and I used sense. We have our CEO and he is in UK but I have my senior architect who is also a pastor. During our project with CBN Kano, I was the one doing all brain works here and sometimes our CEO will contribute via Skype but my MD here who have to be pastor never contributed cuz of no time as a pastor and I understood him. After everything, I will send the drawing to him (pastor) also brief him of what I did so he can forward it to CEO in UK as if he is the main brain behind all and we lived peacefully. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by NwaliE01: 9:47am On Sep 04, 2015 |
you are overwhemly selfish.prove read your writting to see how many "I" you used.You only wanted to outshine your boss and now you are getting reaction from her. I have made so many innovations in my office but no one know who is the brain behind it. All praise goes to my boss and I always smile to the bank after month end. let your boss take the lead,be the back-up. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by ephi123(f): 9:47am On Sep 04, 2015 |
victorazy: Okay, I get your point now and understand what you are saying. I do agree with you that wisdom is key. |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by Forward1(m): 9:49am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Nnaeb: firstly, you have to understand the fact that you & ur boss are both employees in an organisation. Secondly, you're not working directly with d owner of the organisation. Its only the owner(ceo) that can fully appreciate ur ideas because he wants the advancement of his business. Lastly, ur boss will never be comfortable with ur ideas when she has a superior that knows the source of the ideas(from u). Her job may be on d line. In conclusion, never outshine ur master. Relate ur ideas to her before any other person gets to knw. Note: keep being innovative, you may have to work for me soon. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by timay(m): 9:52am On Sep 04, 2015 |
phyllosilicate: This is definitely the answer to ur question OP 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by victorazy(m): 9:58am On Sep 04, 2015 |
ephi123: I thank God you got something out of it. Is a common sense stuff. Even our CEO is an intelligent man cuz sometimes he will suspect our game but the isue remains that I always let my senior architec know of everything am doing and he was proud of me. OP is the gra gra type of a guy, maybe this is his first job |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by kachnov(m): 10:00am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Tricky,Pass your ideas through her. Make it look like she's the one churning out the innovations,that way its a win win scenario. |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by Patented: 10:03am On Sep 04, 2015 |
@ AbiJr, the second and third paragraphs of your story would look amazing on ur linkedin page and your cv so put them there. If you are bursting with creativity the way you described, then my opinion is that your boss or your company is getting to small for you and cramping your style. Time to move. 1)start looking for another job and your current experience and success wld be attractive to anyone. 2) register a BIZ name or a company (company is more expensive but preferable in the long run) and start an IT or marketing consulting biz. U can thank me later and holler for more consultation 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by victorazy(m): 10:09am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Patented: Bad man |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by ephi123(f): 10:15am On Sep 04, 2015 |
victorazy: Haha Some things come with time. I am sure he will learn from the experience. I feel he should continue to put in his best, whilst learning how to manage his work environment. |
Re: Please Help! My Boss Is Scared I Will Replace Her by Nicepoker(m): 10:20am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Op imaging ur self in her position. How will u feel. Share ur smart ideas with her. Simple. In case one of ur smart ideas goes wrong someday, she will not lay all the blames on u that will tarnish ur cool smart previous ideas. |
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