I'm in a relationship with a guy whom I love so much and I think he loves me too. He doesn't have a stable job yet but he buys me stuffs. surprisingly he doesn't have much but whenever he has money he spends it on me. We have been dating for about 4years now. He introduced me to his family and friends as the lady he wants to marry.
But my problem with him is that he gets angry unnecessarily, he doesn't apologize even when he is at fault, I always apologize. When he is angry, he doesn't pick my calls or respond to my chat. He always speak harsh words to me. He traveled since on Friday but has refused to pick my call. He said I should let him be but I can't because I love him so much. His phones are all off. Pls I need your advice on how to deal with his attitude towards me.

Cc: Lalasticlala, u r not sure. Farano darling, kindly help me move this thread to front page.

this one serious oooo

You appologies because of what he spends on you, all whor*s are golddiggers

Love has covered/blinded someone's eyes totally!

Cooked up story

Cutehector:
Cooked up story

What do u do for a living?

delectablegyal:


What do u do for a living?

I dnt tell strangers what I do for a living..

Cutehector:
I dnt tell strangers what I do for a living..

U r snitching on me. GTFO.
U don't have a job, tosyne done get job now, na why u no dey see am again. U sef find something doing bro.

delectablegyal:


U r snitching on me. GTFO.
U don't have a job, tosyne done get job now, na why u no dey see am again. U sef find something doing bro.

lmao... When dey dnt hav anytn tangible to say.. Bullshitt is inevitable....

whenever he has money, he spend it on U....No wonder U claimed that U still love him....women and money are just like monkey and banana

orieoda:
whenever he has money, he spend it on U....No wonder U claimed that U still love him....women and money are just like monkey and banana

Orieoda

U are insecured

This place looks like anger Management class?

delectablegyal:

Orieoda

delectablegyal:
I'm in a relationship with a guy whom I love so much and I think he loves me too. He doesn't have a stable job yet but he buys me stuffs. surprisingly he doesn't have much but whenever he has money he spends it on me. We have been dating for about 4years now. He introduced me to his family and friends as the lady he wants to marry.
But my problem with him is that he gets angry unnecessarily, he doesn't apologize even when he is at fault, I always apologize. When he is angry, he doesn't pick my calls or respond to my chat. He always speak harsh words to me. He traveled since on Friday but has refused to pick my call. He said I should let him be but I can't because I love him so much. His phones are all off. Pls I need your advice on how to deal with his attitude towards me.

Cc: Lalasticlala

hahahaha. Ok sorry i'm finding this so funny.

Why do you think you can change that guy? All you can do is what he has asked you to do...let him be...at least, for a while

Money is a powerful tool I swear.

^^^^^^
Seconded.

He said u shld let him be..respect his decision and gv him a break..

He buys you stuff, that's a synonym for "love" na, why u no go like am?
But u have to understand something, anger issues is a very tough habit to overcome, I have thesame issue too, and believe me, I've tried things to change but it doesn't seem possible. The only thing u should o is avoid getting him angry and when he is angry just play cool.
After a while, when his temper has gone down, talk to him and apologise If u are the one at fault

Did you notice how selfish this your writeup sounds?

You only said "you love him" but never mentioned if you help him in any way.

'he doesn't have a stable job but he buys you stuffs', what exactly do you contribute to his life?

When you apologize even when he is at fault how do you feel?

He said to let him be and you keep bugging him with calls. Leave the man be the space is good for you too, you can use it to figure out what you want from a relationship and if he can give it to you.

peedeeasobie:
Did you notice how selfish this your writeup sounds?

You only said "you love him" but never mentioned if you help him in any way.

'he doesn't have a stable job but he buys you stuffs', what exactly do you contribute to his life?

Calm down, d story is fake

She cooked dat up just to get to front page

There are two things involved: its either he needs time for himself or wants to move away from you.
Since you really love him, wait for him to arrive from his trip. When he returns, sit him down and talk maturely to him letting him know what he does that pains you and disturb your mind.
Also, pray to God to remove his anger and guide us both to the right path. I pray he change for better

delectablegyal:
I'm in a relationship with a guy whom I love so much and I think he loves me too. He doesn't have a stable job yet but he buys me stuffs. surprisingly he doesn't have much but whenever he has money he spends it on me. We have been dating for about 4years now. He introduced me to his family and friends as the lady he wants to marry.
But my problem with him is that he gets angry unnecessarily, he doesn't apologize even when he is at fault, I always apologize. When he is angry, he doesn't pick my calls or respond to my chat. He always speak harsh words to me. He traveled since on Friday but has refused to pick my call. He said I should let him be but I can't because I love him so much. His phones are all off. Pls I need your advice on how to deal with his attitude towards me.

Cc: Lalasticlala

for the sake of your family and children unborn.
unlove him and run for your life.

Staying with a guy like that never worked for me I eventually gave him space and we grew apart I don't know if staying with him might work for you but you should pray about it

Eleyi gidi gan.. may God help you

He don beat u b4?

Lalasticlala, e nvr reach make this thread make front page?

delectablegyal:
Lalasticlala, e nvr reach make this thread make front page?

front pAge for wat? haven't u gotten enuf advice? mumu

I smell lies here. What did you do that gets him angry. Guess you cheated again

delectablegyal:


U r snitching on me. GTFO.
U don't have a job, tosyne done get job now, na why u no dey see am again . U sef find something doing bro.

. I can't stop laughing my dear


You are so funny

justified19:
front pAge for wat? haven't u gotten enuf advice? mumu

U dey craze. Na ur g.f be mumu.