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Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by Nobody: 10:12am On Aug 31, 2015 |
cyprus000:Gbam!!! U deserve some chilled kegs of palmwine 3 Likes |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by Nobody: 10:14am On Aug 31, 2015 |
cyprus000:*faints* |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by Nobody: 10:15am On Aug 31, 2015 |
Guy, she is a traitor... have u considered the fact that emotionally, she is already cheating on u? Throw her out the back door and let her roam... 1 Like |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by Nobody: 10:16am On Aug 31, 2015 |
It is not your duty to help others make a decision. Life is full of mistakes and mistakes are natural step stones. Stop ruining things for another guy. Get a pet project and be busy. Stop disturbing the girl. |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:16am On Aug 31, 2015 |
My brother... Women, once that drummer begin drum for them, even Pope, Imam or Okija shrine no fit change their mind. This guy is not a 'bad decision'. He is her decision. And she made it CLEARLY with her emotional korokoro eyes wide open. This story is just an old rehashed plot. Every person will tell you a version he or she has seen on experienced. For my very close friend, it was some dude from Spain who destroyed his relationship. They really were just the sweetest couple. And my very own sister, some S.A based dude swooped in and married her, before you could say "kwarraption". Naturally her very loving boyfriend was very fvcking distraught. That's women for you. They don't really truly 'send' you, in the way that you are capable of 'sending' them. If you like, write her an encyclopedia, she wouldn't heed a word. Just move on with your life. Equally, tomorrow, it will be you making some other poor guy's life miserable, by magneting his beloved girlfriend. Well, if that's not the 'circle' of life. Namatse. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by Nobody: 10:19am On Aug 31, 2015 |
@ st judas Your objectivity of the whole issue is obviously not going to be trusted. Its just an introduction. To my own understanding, after introduction is when the real courting begins. It is not marriage.If you are not planning to marry her, leave her to explore her options. And if you truly love her, let her know you dont want her to leave you and that you really want to see where your relationship is heading. Telling her not to commit to the guy because he might be shady will not help. Yeah, she is in year 3 but then, we dnt know her age. Atleast she knows what she wants unlike some agbaya over 20 women still posting unclad pictures and videos online 1 Like |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by 2sex(m): 10:22am On Aug 31, 2015 |
Jhenny:She is one of those who think marriage is a ticket out of poverty, a liability and parasite. I can never marry any woman with such mindset. 1 Like |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by cyprus000: 10:22am On Aug 31, 2015 |
ogorkojo:[size=13pt] I no do am anything na!. Me and am just dey discourse. [/size] 1 Like |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by freeage7(m): 10:22am On Aug 31, 2015 |
You are really paranoid. He is ready, you are not. Make I beg you, I beg no take your raggae spoil the girl blues oh. The lord is your strength as you let her go oh. 3 Likes |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by bigiyaro(m): 10:23am On Aug 31, 2015 |
op, dey is notin u can do, just get over her n move on. |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by remmydada(m): 10:23am On Aug 31, 2015 |
My guy just let the girl go for what she want may be the bad side that you are seeing in the other guy maybe that is what the girl like in him you've already given her ur own piece of advice let her either take it or leave it |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by teeghurl(f): 10:23am On Aug 31, 2015 |
cyprus000:Na who vex Prof Obahiagbon ds early momo, chai prof i'm sorry on his behalf |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by Nobody: 10:23am On Aug 31, 2015 |
I understand how you feel bro, when you love your friend(s) and want the best for them like you do for yourself but they refuse to heed your advice because they are blinded by emotions and the eagerness to get married and so, they can't see the danger signs you are seeing... my advice is that you pray for her and encourage her not to be desperate about marriage, she is still young, meanwhile, don't act as if you' re her dad when talking to her, talk like her friend. If after the two, she continue with him, leave her to follow her mind, you have done your part and what a friend should do, its her life, you can not live it for her or control how she live it. |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by preciousMI1(f): 10:29am On Aug 31, 2015 |
stjudas: if you would like to know why this babe is crying by tomorrow hit LIKE..... bros please remember to tell us why she's crying tomorrow... we are following the story closely lalasticalala.... please push it to the front page tomorrow 8 Likes |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by QueenFusa16(f): 10:29am On Aug 31, 2015 |
God is in control |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by Nobody: 10:32am On Aug 31, 2015 |
cyprus000:Person fit cry for dis discussion o |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by Nobody: 10:32am On Aug 31, 2015 |
cyprus000:Person fit cry for dis discussion o |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by DrGroove(f): 10:32am On Aug 31, 2015 |
@Op..thanks for your advice on behalf of the girl Pls allow her get married,ok? even if she chooses to marry a demon,its her business u are a corp member n not ready for marriage I think your grievance is cos you wan continue to phuck her in the name of relationship Abeg shift! |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by braine(m): 10:33am On Aug 31, 2015 |
cyprus000: Your post would have made sense if not for your crappy font. |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by dammytosh: 10:34am On Aug 31, 2015 |
stjudas: Leave her alone and train your heart to move on. For a 300Level girl you have introduction plan for later this year to be in a hurry. She might be tired and not ready for you guys to grow the coins to dollars together. She wants something ready made. STop hurting yourself, TRAIN THAT HEART to move on. Now that they are back together, they will be sleeping with themselves till December Deadline you gave her. Grow up Man !!! Build your confidence and get busy. |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by DedeNkem: 10:35am On Aug 31, 2015 |
stjudas: It's not your duty or business to tell her who she should marry. You've indicated you don't want to marry her. Now she has someone who deemed her good enough to be his wife. And you want to ruin it. You don't personally know this guy. She knows him far more than you do, so why should you advise her against the guy? The whole thing looks as if you're jealous and finding it difficult to let her go. If she thinks the guy is good for her, let her be and move on with your own life. It's time to let her go! 1 Like |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by 2sex(m): 10:35am On Aug 31, 2015 |
stjudas:see let me tell you, you are madly in love with girl and all your epistle is laced with jealousy. You can't imagine someone taking her away from you and at the same time you do not have what it takes to give her what she want--marriage. You may not want to accept this but I know what I am saying as I have once felt same. What that guy said is true. In the end she will see you as an obstacle UNTIL she has her finger burnt and then would want to come back crawling into your arms. On a second thought, you should be glad because that girl doesn't have an independent mind. She sees marriage as green card out of poverty. Is that the kind of woman you want? A woman who can't think of selfless service. I don't know about you. But I CAN never marry such a woman. My current girl friend has the mind of an independent woman. She is a go getter. And that's one thing that I would choose to marry her over any lady I have come across if the opportunity present itselve. Just leave her. 1 Like |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by seanjy4konji: 10:35am On Aug 31, 2015 |
Brother let the girl go and go and find money weh make gal leave you before u destroy your liver with panadol for another person head ache...na she be the only girl weh deh town... u r only scaared of loosing the girl and cash out u nor get... Face front and go find money.time is going. 1 Like |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by efficiencie(m): 10:40am On Aug 31, 2015 |
Marriage must never be rushed even if it is to a saint...but fools rush where angels dare to tread... My bro, if you truly love her pray and intercede for her. She's young and foolish. Childishness still rules her soul and would lead her to punishment for "foolishness abounds in the heart of a child..." and for that "many stripes will decorate her back" Pray for her and tell her to get the experiences of other married women (probably in her church) before saying "yes" to any saint or stranger... She's still a kid...an overgrown kid that wants to play with the toys of adults...toys that have wrecked many, maimed thousands and caused a lot of regrets... |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by oluwafeolami(m): 10:41am On Aug 31, 2015 |
D bottom line is dat she loved d guy in some ways 4 her 2 accept his marriage proposal to d extent of choosing a date 4 d introduction if am nt mistaken. I knw ow u feel buh jst let her b 4 nw nd if I may suggest let her b d 1 dat wants 2 hear 4rm u 4rm nw on. Dnt cal her 4 some time nd let her b her own judge. Thank me later. |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by helphelp: 10:42am On Aug 31, 2015 |
Abeg you don chop the babe before Na kweshun I ask ooo |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by litetias(m): 10:45am On Aug 31, 2015 |
You can't change her mind. She has to make her own mistakes and then live with the consequences. That's the theme of life. Very affordable 3 bedroom, 2 bedroom and self-contain apartments in conducive environs in Warri is available for rent. Just 1 yr upfront payment (Instead of the 2 years most landlords collect). Contact me via my signature |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by uzo4real(m): 10:46am On Aug 31, 2015 |
Wats ur biz if she marries the wrong person? I believe u have nothing to loose....so free her oooo |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by jessBoitumelo: 10:47am On Aug 31, 2015 |
cyprus000:Bros abeg eazy they say does it...you wan murder person? Eh joor please forgive him on my behalf. I'm still struggling to pronounce all those grammar how much more the scumbag. |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by ruggedtimi(m): 10:48am On Aug 31, 2015 |
u re jst doin bizzy body .. |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by lumeneng22: 10:48am On Aug 31, 2015 |
The bad guy is smar enough to take your girl? too bad. Your girl is not wise enough to spot the different? pity. Guy leave her and move on with your broken heart, soon very soon you will get over it. |
Re: She's getting married to the wrong person. Pls, advice. by fotadmowmend(m): 10:53am On Aug 31, 2015 |
It's either that you truly love her and do not want her to get hurt or that you are jealous. In either way, the question is : does she loves you ? Even if she does, girls usually feel insecure whatever their guy go for NYSC. However, the only thing you can do is to tell her you mind and let her decide while you watch. Even for the duo to reach a conclusion on an introduction date means a lot and you can more or less do nothing about it. My candid advice for you is to just prepare my mind on how to move on. |
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