I wish things could be the way it used to be during the time of our forefathers, but now, things have now taken turns because the word "love" has now been wrongly interpreted

I sometimes cannot but shake my head when I see people involved in shameful practices all in the name of so called LOVE

Without wasting time, let's take a look at these differences between olden days love and new generation love

Place for hanging out

In the olden days, under iroko tree, gardens and other less exotic places and suitable places for rendezvous despite the fact that there were expensive restaurants, resort centres and hotels. Nowadays, suggesting such places for ladies will be a bad idea as they will tag him a broke and stingy dude. This reminds me of when Tosyne2much said he recently took a lady to a mango tree as rendezvous, but the lady was disappointed and called the relationship a quit

Financial criteria

What new generation ladies mainly look for in guys is their financial standing. He must have at least a superb car, a good house and must be earning 6 digits salary as a consideration for going on a date, unlike olden days when ladies date guys who have no dine in their pockets

Compatibility level

Ladies then can date or marry a guy in spite of his educational, financial and society status unlike nowadays which the guy's standard must be very high. To confirm this, ask any educated lady of nowadays that, Can they marry a rich mechanic? We know what the answer will be.

Communication

Those times, you will have to perch under a tree for hours waiting for her to pass so that you can communicate with her. Now, you will have to go into recharge your phone as if you life depends on it. Sometimes, you will even be indebted to MTN. When you fail to even send some of them recharge card, you are red- carded.

Attitude

Back in the days, a guy may be poor but may even empty his pocket to provide for her need when he makes a little cash. Try that with new generation ladies, and you are on your way to bankruptcy.

Knowledge and Intelligence

The reasoning level of olden days ladies was outstanding. They were smart, knowledgeable, patient and understood the concept of love means. Ladies of nowadays are brainwashed by what they see. Some ladies may dump intelligent, brilliant and ambitious dudes like Tosyne2much, Lalasticlala, Ronald4lif and Naijaboiy for an old rich man who is using extra time on earth

Abstinence

The issue of pre-marital sex then cannot be compared to sex era we are into. Not like olden days ladies didn't used to have the urge to have sex, just that they were so discipline and had high level of body control, but now, a lady will have to test run a guy just to know his capabilities on bed.

Mode of cooking

Ladies then often cooked delicious meal for the one they truly love. You will see them pound yam, and other tasking exercise just to make the worm in his stomach smile, but now, some ladies cannot even make ordinary noodles, yet they say their men are cheating. You will see some of them parading Mr Biggs, Mr Fans and the likes. Smh.

Feel free to add yours


Lalasticlala

Ok

my two guys always on point


but i prefer communication of now than olden days, its easier and simple.


its not easy to date a broke guy, it takes an empress of love to date a broke guy, so guys should work hard and get the best woman


olden days urge for sex was as a result of circumcision, these days ladies are no longer circumcised; but that does not mean we cant still keep ourselves.
#teamzipup#


who doesnt know how to pound yam, i can,very much

nice one bro.

Great one..

things as changed tho, my grandma always say ' children of nowadays re so spoilt nd not like them wen they were Lil'. I remembered her also saying that wen they were young, they don't av boyfriends guys only admire them and also av crush on them nd if they re really in love with them? They go abt it d right way.
Having a child or children outside wedlock is not celebrated unlike today we av several proud babymamas here nd dere. Also d virginity of a female is also her dignity, there is pride in it. Then when a man nd woman get married, a white cloth is laid on d bed for their intercourse nd if the husband discover she's a virgin? She's hereby celebrated by her husband nd family, making them proud that she hasn't known men, but today virginity is a plague.

Ppl will say civilization changed everything but I will say u can change if u want to. With this so civilization, u hear of lots of failed marriages even tho they av been dating nd had known each other for years but in dere time they get to know themselves nd fall in love in dere matrimonial home, u see them celebrating 50yr anniversary but today if u see engaged couple d next thing u will hear is 'before u know they will divorce' like that's now a norm.

dey don come again!!lemme add to ur list!

sexx position-
n d olden day we there is only one sexx position called missionaruy style**daddy&mummy style** but nowadays style don plenty like doggy,69,360,960,touch ur toes,bend make i bend etc.

Education-Hmmmm when it comes to education of today,it cant b compare to dat of olden days!!things has really changed,examination malpratice everywhere,kids start school as early from d womb self students no longer serious anymore

wristbangle is [size=30pt]BIASED[/size]


Some of those things he thinks they don't exist again still happen. Just that civilization covered most and bad mentality of SOME of our ladies is condemning some, maybe that's why OP concluded sentimentally.




I'm out.

Olden days :Ankara are worn by the wife with Bikini inside


modern days: Bikini are worn outside with no p*nties.



olden days you know need carry woman go restaurant, but this days some of this girls are ready to suck you dry and run away.

Cc

wristbangle

tosyne2much

About the s3x position you made mention, how does that make yesteryear love better than nowadays love

Nice work Op
Come ve a bottle of chilled Eva juice

So much from civilization or perhaps part of end time things

Midehi:
my two guys

Our darling

h

Technology is a major criteria here!
People have become more exposed!

Ok

Another Difference:


In The Olden Days If You Wan See Nyash You Open Pant But, Nowadays If You See Pant You Open Nyash..

In the olden days you are scared of the promise land due to unwanted pregnancy but these days, you are scared due to STDs

In the olden days, couples don't sleep on their wedding night but these days they sleep their life away - nothing new to explore.

In those days there are less things ladies could use to play hard to get - like phone number, bbm pin, and PMs on nairaland. But these days, those things mention are major tool to prove hard to get.

In the olden days ugly girls dont contest with the pretty but these days there is makeups na di ugly ones dey do guy pass.

In the olden days ladies are scared of sex due to unwanted pregnancy but today, eye don tear finish. There is now condom, planB and surprisingly, even abortion is a norm to some ladies of today

tosyne2much:
What's up boo ?

am cool

MhizDeedy:
tosyne2much

Swthrt

tosyne2much:
Swthrt

Limme jare, we re fighting

wristbangle:

Our darling

i remain

Those days been sweet die, na on top mango tree I been toast nneka, hide and seek na our best game, any day I buy new fella trouser na her place I dey first visit, no money for make up, and Brazilian wig.

LogoDWhiz:
Technology is a major criteria here!

People have become more exposed!

True. Times have changed and people have embrace these changes, men and women alike. I don't know much about how life really was back then but there are many positives that we've come to witness over the years which I find commendable. Just like men, women too have adapted to these changes.

Op...nice article

MhizDeedy:
lol wristbangle do u know d stress in pounding yam ehn? Don't worry wen we get married, u wil be d one pounding d yam u hear?

Hahaha una ladies of nowadays too lazy jor.

Old things have passed away.
Wristbangle, adapt to the new era.

ronald4lif:


True. Times have changed and people have embrace these changes, men and women alike. I don't know much about how life really was back then but there are many positives that we've come to witness over the years which I find commendable. Just like men, women too have adapted to these changes.

True!
I agree with u