wristbangle:
The way some guys act clearly indicate that they will end up as chronic headache for their wives in the nearest future if care is not taken.

I can't really blame guys who are involved in the act of humiliating ladies in public and online because these ladies in question must have torment their heart but going to the extent of destroying their intrinsic values is the major concern here.

Therefore let's take a look at signs that indicate a guy will become an irresponsible husband.

1. Extremely stingy

Some guys are so stingy to the extent that they can't call their girlfriends for just 1minute in a day. The only time they call for long period is during free night calls or bonus awarded from telecom providers. If they call for 30secs, they will hang up and later explain through whatsapp/BBM that it was network failure.

2. Highly promiscuous

This issue is common to perverts who has never zipped up for once in their life by chasing every tom and harry in skirt. These are the kinds that will eventually become sugar daddy, chasing ladies who are young enough to be their daughter in future.

3. Very lazy

Some guys are so idle to the extent that they have no goal, vision and purpose in life. They are just too lazy to seize opportunities around them as they are only seen in betting shops like nairabet, etc. to make money.

4. Ridicule ladies

I hate when a guy beat or disgrace his girlfriend in public just because she hangs out with a guy. I consider this as a dysfunctional act because a man in making will not stoop so low to involve himself in this thrash. [s] Meanwhile on nairaland some consider all ladies as whores of which we still have the rare and good ones like mhizkel, prettythicksme, redgem, aminat508, midehi, adeh39 and others. [/s]

5. Habit of alcoholism and smoking

For a guy that consume too much alcohol and smoke probably in the bid to control his anger is not a man. Such guys cannot become responsible husbands to their wives because they can use children's school fee and other budgetary money to drink and smoke.

6. Wrong lifestyle

Some guys rock and roll with the wrong peer groups who have influence them to have shameful lifestyles like yahoo yahoo occupation, rape gangs and area touts.

7. Careless attitude

The way some guys behave can be likened to a voracious animal. They dump and change ladies like sanitary pads as they care less about their emotion by suggesting abortion for any sex journey that becomes foetus.

8. Poor financial planning

Some guys blow money like trumpet without thinking about future investment. They spend their money on vague things like phones, prostitutes, etc. Such guys will eventually become an irresponsible husband.

sonofananimal:
lozzz. he dey use touch light phone now

vivypretty:
nice list.unless u are blindly in love to overlook this attributes.

sparkleice:
Nice list,especially. Dat bragging part it turns me off immediately.evn if u ave all d jets in d world pls kip t to ursef don't blow d trumpet I wil f igure I out mysef. Ave sme guys on d 1st day dey wil start braagng I ave 6m in mt acct & bla bla bla who ask u,sme dey wil b like d governor s my uncle or my dad fwnd I sell cars to dem bla bla bla I wl. Js b starring @ u. Aftr dat date u won't see me again

redgem:
Bad listening habit: most guys have this habit and it results in ineffective communication, which usually have an adverse impact on the productivity of the individual and their relationships. Poor listening definitely make a huge, negative impact on team morale and productivity. This situation usually results in conflicts and misunderstandings among partners , and it creates a negative environment.


Lack of Self control : some guys lack the ability to control their emotions, behavior, and desires. Guys should constantly be striving towards self-control and discipline, because these are foundations of integrity. One thing they need to understand about self-control is that it is not as much about saying no to certain fleshly desires, lusts
and cravings but more about living and abundant life free from addiction regret and shame.


Interrupting a conversation: guys are good at Interrupting a conversation with improper body language or inappropriate words and this has a negative impact on their relationships. My bf does this a lot and it annoys me... I've told him severally yet, he can't stop it.


Dirty: some guys are so dirty that if they should pass you, oh my God! you won't be able to breathe for hours and most of them terms it sexy.... Imagine animal odour is now sexy ta...go and sleep it's a turn off to we ladies.. We love guys that are neat, guys that organizes their home.


Bragging : some guys brag a lot eggs MrCork I have no problem with a guy having money. However, I do have a
problem when you decide to treat women like gold-diggers whose eyes are bound to widen at the mention of “Bugatti”. Yes, we like money, just like you men, but that doesn't mean you should also shout it.... Brags are turn off for me

RickRichards:
Tcheew. Wristb.angle ko, Kurt Angle ni.

bulldoza:

Dear Mumu,
You mumu no be small o
I have meet with those so-called girls in person
Woman rapper oshi

sulmeza:
nice points there...@wristbangz......i expect oga tosin to work on d counterthread...it'll be fun

shiningamy:
Hmmm, despite all these lists some girls will still end up with them.

bulldoza:

Dear Mumu,
You mumu no be small o
I have meet with those so-called girls in person
Woman rapper oshi

wristbangle:


Well analysed bro. The thing is if one consumes alcohol or smokes moderately, there is tendency such habit will become addictive as it may stare up that ugly attitude in him hence resort into derogatory acts on his love ones most especially his love partner.

Emilokoiyawon:
EVERY woman is looking for the man who can do the following:

1. Work tirelessly to make money for her to spend.

2. After the man works finish he can only get sex when she is in the mood.

3.If they happen to live in the west (US, Canada or UK) she can do the following:
a. divorce him and take half his life earnings.
b. divorce him and make sure he never sees his children again.

4. She will nag him day and night so that he doesn't concentrate on how fat and ugly she has become.

So basically what is the average women looking for? She is looking for a slave for life.

Therefore, here is my philosophy on women: A woman is a person who does not work. She is mentally lazy and does not contribute value to society. At the age of 14 most girls have already made up their mind to use their toto to get a better life for themselves. Their goal is to capture a willing slave who will be give them whatever they want in promise of toto service here and there. So what does a guy do? This is what I do. I promise these skanks heaven and earth and pretend that they are all I care for and love. I get the toto regular and right around 6 months when the toto begins to get stale and drop her and move on to the next. The child that says his father will not sleep will never experience the shortest of naps.

sonofananimal:
WHAT OF WE WERE WE DON REPENT BUT I STILL DEY DRINK SHALL


Hope i will make a good husband

sonofananimal:
really really true. But is not that easy to just stop drinking expecially when your drink started with a heart break, it only takes the grace to reduce it.

wristbangle:


He can start by taking lot of soft drinks to cushion the alcohol. Lol it takes God's grace. Meanwhile have u concluded u will not date a Nigerian lady again?

wristbangle:


Dear Oponu,

I have met these ladies in person and they are unique.

If I am hyping guys like that, u will open your dirty mouth to say "I hope this guy is not a gay?"

Bad belle oshi

wristbangle:
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Therefore let's take a look at signs that indicate a guy will become an irresponsible husband.

1. Extremely stingy

Some guys are so stingy to the extent that they can't call their girlfriends for just 1minute in a day. The only time they call for long period is during free night calls or bonus awarded from telecom providers. If they call for 30secs, they will hang up and later explain through whatsapp/BBM that it was network failure.

8. Poor financial planning

Some guys blow money like trumpet without thinking about future investment. They spend their money on vague things[b] like phones[/b], prostitutes, etc. Such guys will eventually become an irresponsible husband.


CONTRADICTORY!



2. Highly promiscuous

This issue is common to perverts who has never zipped up for once in their life by chasing every tom and harry in skirt. These are the kinds that will eventually become sugar daddy, chasing ladies who are young enough to be their daughter in future.

4. Ridicule ladies

I hate when a guy beat or disgrace his girlfriend in public just because[b] she hangs out with a guy.[/b] I consider this as a dysfunctional act because a man in making will not stoop so low to involve himself in this thrash. Meanwhile on nairaland some consider all ladies as whores of which we still have the rare and good ones like mhizkel, prettythicksme, redgem, aminat508, midehi, adeh39 and others.

7. Careless attitude

The way some guys behave can be likened to a voracious animal. They dump and change ladies like sanitary pads as they care less about their emotion by suggesting abortion for any sex journey that becomes foetus.



Oh Pleaze, source the Geese.... Source the Gander! TWO CAN PLAY THE GAME, right? Utter Bunkum!
BTW, Abortion is legal... and better than siring a child that you cant take care-of, who ends up becoming a blight on the society.

schumastic:
op you dey look for babe ni...this one your calling names do you know them personal? you already concluded they are good...anyway nice write up n if na babe u dey find abeg talk

An2elect2:

Hell no

ronald4lif:
That moment when you want to contribute but don't know where or how to. How do I even know if I fall into any category.

I think one can be a moderate smoker, drink and still be responsible unlike the common perception that any smoker or an alcoholic must be reckless and irresponsible.

The health risk associated with smoking alone is more dangerous than it behavioural effect on the consumer. That alone should be a huge concern to a partner who intends to walk down the aisle with a smoker.

wristbangle:


Hahaha. So u no go magad the guy?

sonofananimal:
see you!
Can you explain why the hell no

heavens Is this sonofananimal. I was expecting the usual rejoinder. Lol
well we don't do bestiality here