its almost six months now that we've been communicating. i met her around october 2008, on glo chat and the distance is so so far apart (i'm based in minna and she is in lagos). we've talked durin xtracool and i discovered she is a nice girl, though a bit lousy but i like her. she calls me almost everyday and shes already called me twice 2day. i dont have any hope of going to lagos soon.
guys, i dont know wht my nxt step should be. HELP!

~ Invite her over, pay her a visit or call it off! Don't y'all get tired of using technology? ~

Czarskit:

~ Invite her over, pay her a visit or call it off! Don't y'all get tired of using technology? ~

guy, cant u read? i dont have any hope of c-ing her soon! the distance, and my parent are the main considerations.

yes you can be inlove with someone you have never seen

all you need to do is arrange a meeting for the both of you

Let me get this right:

You've never seen her;

You live with your parents?

You seem scared of your parents

She lives miles away

You probably ain't got no money, or you'd book a hotel.

Unless I've got it wrong, your dilemma is pointless.

ChuckWoody:

Let me get this right:

You've never seen her;

You live with your parents?

You seem scared of your parents

She lives miles away

You probably ain't got no money, or you'd book a hotel.

Unless I've got it wrong, your dilemma is pointless.

WHATEVER! u should read the post again

yes u can,but by the time the person appears and she looks like juju calabar is then u will truly know if wat u feels for her is love or lust.
i hate invisible women.

invisible women indeed

alright, i told her many times that she should e-mail her pix, she complained that she didnt have an e-mail add. but later sent me one (a friends own). i sent mine and she sent hers. now, the pix wasnt clear so i couldnt conclude in any way on wht she looks like. i told her to try 2 send another and that has been a problem for her. well, i wont blame her, from the few stories we shared 2gether, she is a bit of an illiterate (i mean 'not used to browsing') and she's also a bit young (she'll b 16 by june) but i dont think that matters. i'm trying my best not to conclude from her voice coz GOD! she has a sweet charming voice.

My goodness! Poster, you have got to be absolutely kidding yourself here!

NEVER EVER seen her? Just her voice and free night calls to her, are all that dazzles you? WOW!!!!!

No point to harangue you. If it works out for you, fine. If it does not, you would learn how to go the whole way before committing yourself to any relationship the next time.

All the best.

^^^

You don't love her.

It's infatuation

Meet her first. . . .and if it doesn't work out, lol, no harm done

First of all,dis is child abuse,although it depends on how old u are,try being a big boy and come 2 lagos,yes u are J D bt give dem some kinda excuse ok?

I am also in the same dilema!!!

That is what technology has turn us to,

Yeah. Especially after being brainwashed by that som1

*Toyinrayo:

^^^

You don't love her.

It's infatuation

Meet her first. . . .and if it doesn't work out, lol, no harm done

dl_jbd:

she's also a bit young (she'll b 16 by june) but i dont think that matters. i'm trying my best not to conclude from her voice coz GOD! she has a sweet charming voice.

SEEK CAUTION YOUNG MAN! or else you will find yourself in Court for Child Abuse and Molestation.

dl_jbd:

alright, i told her many times that she should e-mail her pix, she complained that she didnt have an e-mail add. but later sent me one (a friends own). i sent mine and she sent hers. now, the pix wasnt clear so i couldnt conclude in any way on wht she looks like. i told her to try 2 send another and that has been a problem for her. well, i wont blame her, from the few stories we shared 2gether, she is a bit of an illiterate (i mean 'not used to browsing')

Leave The Kid ALone!

@poster

the girl in question is young ooooooooo

its a tricky one. . . but from my own perspective. . . its a No.

daduke2k:

First of all,dis is child abuse,although it depends on how old u are,try being a big boy and come 2 lagos,yes u are J D bt give dem some kinda excuse ok?

Do you know what the "legal" definition of CHILD ABUSE is?

Ppl and their way of rewriting the dictionary

You can't be in love with someone you've never seen. You've got this idea of the girl in your head and it's all based on what she has TOLD you and that's dangerous. Either arrange to meet her and get to know her properly or cut all ties with her.

People,
Tell the Boy in Plain Words to leave the Kid Alone, She is UNDERAGED for crying out Loud!

it's very possible infact i'm in love with my girlfriend's younger sister and we've never meet

IFELEKE:

People,
Tell the Boy in Plain Words to leave the Kid Alone, She is UNDERAGED for crying out Loud!

WETIN B UR STRESS NA?

Enockia:

it's very possible infact i'm in love with my girlfriend's younger sister and we've never meet

man, ur is weird. that means u've seen her on pix or heard her voice on phone. pls xpalin

Wow . . . first, you're in love with you have never seen or spent time with and now, she is 16. Just when I thought I had heard it all . . .

StephenP:

Wow . . . first, you're in love with you have never seen or spent time with and now, she is 16. Just when I thought I had heard it all . . .

u guys are yellin as though i'm searching 4 a 6th wife. . . . . . . .i'm jst 20, so can som1 say something!!!

dl_jbd:

u guys are yellin as though i'm searching 4 a 6th wife. . . . . . . .i'm jst 20, so can som1 say something!!!

I'm not yelling, I'm just in shock. To answer your question, no that would be really difficult.

u r a big mumu, ur just 20 tryin to spoil a 16yr old girl, come which level u dey 4 school sef, how many times u don fail WAEC, instead of u to fink of somethn substantial to help ur self ur here complainin of LOVE.

u live with ur parent, dey feed u, n u wanna enter into a relationship under their roof. fire don burn u be dat. this pure INFATUATION,

@Poster

Your next step is to give me her number while I do to her those things you have been fantasising of doing to her. i.e. fok the living daylight out of her darn pussy.

Lets face the fact.

On your part
1)You are confused.
2)The person you are in 'love' with is the image your mind created.
3)She is still under 18, a child so no 'legal' intimate relationship can hold between you two. so stop confusing yourselves
4) If this girl in question happens to be my daughter, then you will succeed in turning me into a muderer.

Advice: u ar being pushed by lust. Think of your life. find a job and better your life and by that time, she would have been matured for a 'legal relationship. If by then you still feel as you fill now, (assuming u were not castrated before then), then you will know that you love her. FOR NOW, ZIP UP!!!

On her part
She is not sencere. If she is, she would have found a way to make her clear pix reach you, litrate or illitrate. SHE IS IN LAGOS SO TO MAKE HER CLEAR PIX REACH YOUTHIS WOULD NEVER BE AN ISSUE.

ADVISE?,

My Guy, that babe is too young for you!

No let her papa break ur head o, Be Careful!

i ain't seen her pic but we do talk on phone