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Igbo Men Marry Late. How True? by Josephamstrong1(m): 6:40pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
There have been worries in many families in Igbo land especially in Anambra when male children fail to get married when they are due. Often times, men as old as 40 remain unmarried, not because they do not want to be married, but because they lack the resources to do so. Findings show that one of the reasons is high bride price. In many Igbo communities, it is believed that marriage is meant for mature men, not boys. Therefore, only real men who are ready and well equipped financially can pay the exorbitant bride price and provide all the items in the list brought by the family of the bride, which includes goat, bags of rice, tubers of yam, clothes and cash for various categories of people. Sometimes it is even made a condition that the bride must train one of her siblings up to the university level. Again, Igbo men keep postponing marriage because, apart from the high bride price, which could be as high as N20,000, the cost of traditional marriage is also high as it requires the throwing of flamboyant ceremonies as may be required by the family of the bride. For such traditional ceremonies, the groom provides money for dresses to be worn by the bride and the bridal train, the bride’s mother and her friends and provides money for the elaborate cooking that would be done. Late marriage inevitably became more pronounced when unemployment hit the rooftop. For one to meet marriage requirements, he has to have a steady income. With graduates staying at home without jobs several years after graduation and with those who did not attain university education being apprentices for about eight years before they are settled by their masters to begin their own business, marriage becomes the least priority for men. Besides, many Igbo girls prefer husbands who are already rich. Failure to get such husbands often attracts scorn from female colleagues and so, they would rather wait until rich men come to ask for their hands in marriage. |
Re: Igbo Men Marry Late. How True? by madridguy(m): 6:43pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
The matter requires urgent attention. You will be surprised seeing a man having his first child at the age of 45-50 when Yoruba and Hausa don already turned grandpa.... |
Re: Igbo Men Marry Late. How True? by pweedyuz(f): 6:48pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Bride price set aside,,I bliv most igbo who have d money or still struggling 2 get d money wants 2 "enjoy their life" as a bachelor before settling down 2 "one" woman,Hence, come of age in d process 2 Likes |
Re: Igbo Men Marry Late. How True? by kestolove95(m): 7:02pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Bcox ibo man will use d first dota bride price to sponsor and feed d whole family of 9.... |
Re: Igbo Men Marry Late. How True? by missKiffy(f): 7:06pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Kind of true, igbo men marry late, I guess it's cos they just want to make enough money so that they can take care of their family 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Men Marry Late. How True? by IamRespected: 7:26pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
They marry late because most are business oriented and wish they make money first before marriage, me am an igbo man, I have seen a girl to marry but income is not steady, God knows that if I get a steady income I don marry finish 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Men Marry Late. How True? by coolebux(m): 7:31pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
We're just about the most unique set of men in Nigeria. Whatever we choose to do is always in the news Back to the matter Op save yourself the stress, we marry only when we deem fit. |
Re: Igbo Men Marry Late. How True? by Nobody: 12:11am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Well its good. |
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