MizMyColi:
The desperation to get married comes from a place of incompleteness, a sense of lack and a total disconnect from one's worth and value.

I will rather remain unmarried and keep on being the best I can be, while ensuring that I fulfil my life's inner purpose....than get hitched with someone who thinks he's doing me a favour.
To hell with that kind of mentality and God forbid!

Well, thankfully, that's not the case

kaboninc:


Only if you look at yourself right now!

I don't have to waste my time on a useless conversation with a senseless unknown character.

Buzz off

Kitme:

Hey Miz
I couldn't have said it better.
For a while now,The society has prided herself as the yardstick for measuring one's self-worth.
Suffice to say, if you think you're living your life rightly, the way it pleases you, and the society think otherwise, THEIR OPINION shouldn't determine your worth.
The society had done more harm than good, we can't rule that out yet.
Many are in some kind of forced marriage, just to please the society, oblivious that their happiness is their life, they suffer both emotional and physical pain.
When desperation creeps it and it's so glaring even to the men,, Men see that as an edge, they expect such ladies to be their slaves that they can tossed around as they please.
Also, Many are with their abusive partner and can't just get out, Because of the damn society.
However, when the going gets tough, they won't proffer any solutions, instead the victim would be subjected to unending mockery.

I love strong women like you.

Kitme:

This is partially directed at me, right??
Agreed! One can't fully scrapped out the society's opinions and ideologies, but it has limits, just like every other thing in life.
If their opinions would subject me to ever-lasting unhappiness and sadness, I would gladly shut them out.
My happiness toppled the list of any opinion.
Everyone has been given the freedom of speech, some opinions are meant to be discarded like tissues.
If you keep on determining your life based on others opinions, you have a long way to go.
Needless to say, you would be the one to face the consequences of your actions and inactions, and not some bickering society.

tivta:
See feminist oh, so if you were a bastard you would be happy? Have never seem such a selfish generation, women trying to fight nature, you better move to the west and stop trying to change our tradition. Seems most of the women supporting single ladies come from broken homes cause if they had parents that have been married over 50 years blissfully, they would be eager to get married.
As for the seed sowing, I believe all forms of seed sowing should be avoided, it is just another Avenue for pastors to make money. God, it is true that the world is coming to an end. Women saying that the don't need a man where as the bible says go fort and multiple, (I know some feminist will say the world is already congested) I weep...

sonofananimal:
you want them to assassinate you ABI.

joseph1832:
Oh drugpusher, I'm really starting to like you oh, kachisbarbie seems like the kind of girl who would do the above.

#No offense intended.

Lols, first it was Coli...now it's Queen Barbz.
Yes, Queen because that's exactly how my husband treats me, like royalty. Deal with it...

Truckpusher:
Well, You got it all wrong my dear, sorry.

tivta:
See feminist oh, so if you were a bastard you would be happy? Have never seem such a selfish generation, women trying to fight nature, you better move to the west and stop trying to change our tradition. Seems most of the women supporting single ladies come from broken homes cause if they had parents that have been married over 50 years blissfully, they would be eager to get married.
As for the seed sowing, I believe all forms of seed sowing should be avoided, it is just another Avenue for pastors to make money. God, it is true that the world is coming to an end. Women saying that the don't need a man where as the bible says go fort and multiple, (I know some feminist will say the world is already congested) I weep...

Edusouls:
shut up,rejected women, stop covering up ur woes and ur shameful inability to get a man.if u aint married,u re just nothing in the face of God and man,continue to deceive urself's in ur own deceitful lives, end time women..

NinaArsenal:
If I hear say I sow seed for any man head. Tufiakwa

flokii:




bad news is... I can't die

Truckpusher:
It is not only silly but childish to be demeaning a woman in the public over your political disagreement If she attacked you first that would have been understandable but attacking her simply tells stories of your woes and not hers - If only you will get this message.

NB: I do not want to be identified with you under any circumstances and even in death - The difference between you and I is as far as the earth is to the sun and you do not need to agree with me on anything.

flokii:

make I guard mysef wella for my oyinbo sweetiepie

[size=13pt] Na that one sure pass
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Truckpusher:
You forgot to tell her that it doesn't work for everybody and also tell her that while doing it, wisdom should be applied.

Also tell her that the same society can't be totally ignored after all you're a part of that society and must have consciously and unconsciously subscribed to the same ideology as result of your immediate existence in the same society.

You can't avoid these factors ,would you ?

Kachisbarbie:


Lols, first it was Coli...now it's Queen Barbz.
Yes, Queen because that's exactly how my husband treats me, like royalty. Deal with it...

darkenedrebel:


hypocrite! yet you made it clear some months ago that you would physically inflict injuries on a woman if she stepped on your tail, & here you are chastising another person..

what else could be sillier than laying a finger on a female?

Kitme:



Really??
You can as well educate me, I don't mind, learning is a daily process

MizMyColi:


Like I pointed out already.

Society has their view...I have my view.
I will take that which works for me, that which resonates with me and discard the rest.

Why should I allow myself get worked up over things I do not have control over?

You have a point though.
Wisdom is profitable to direct.
I catch your drift.

Edusouls:
shut up,rejected women, stop covering up ur woes and ur shameful inability to get a man.if u aint married,u re just nothing in the face of God and man,continue to deceive urself's in ur own deceitful lives, end time women..

Chei!
See painment.
Bros, who do you this kyn tin na

Easy o.
HBP is damn real.

You can keep huffing and puffing and venting sha.

Your choice

joseph1832:
Funny I didn't hear you say 'deal with it' when coli abi na kulikuli accused me of stalking you. LOL.

Dude, never take what a drugpusher say seriously? He's just a wussbag!

Truckpusher:
Well, it's different strokes for different folks.
Considering how many people that can't think for themselves these days ,I do think that it is important to note correctly that some ideologies are better left in the hands of the very few that can manage the pros and the cons of such ideology lest we should wake up to a society that has lost its bearing though the truth must be told and knowledge must be propagated but to who?...This is the million dollar question.

MizMyColi:



Chei!
See painment.
Bros, who do you this kyn tin na

Easy o.
HBP is damn real.

You can keep huffing and puffing and venting sha.

Your choice

tivta:
See feminist oh, so if you were a bastard you would be happy? Have never seem such a selfish generation, women trying to fight nature, you better move to the west and stop trying to change our tradition. Seems most of the women supporting single ladies come from broken homes cause if they had parents that have been married over 50 years blissfully, they would be eager to get married.
As for the seed sowing, I believe all forms of seed sowing should be avoided, it is just another Avenue for pastors to make money. God, it is true that the world is coming to an end. Women saying that the don't need a man where as the bible says go fort and multiple, (I know some feminist will say the world is already congested) I weep...

Truckpusher:
If that guy catches you eh , na better koboko you go see.

There is nothing new under Nairaland sun that they will tell me.

You know whether I need the koboko sef?

darkenedrebel:



i know that already.. it's those that engage in discussions or take him serious that i pity the most. they must have lost about 6 brain cells in the process. dude is as dumb as a stomp

MizMyColi:


My dear, let's just play our cosmic role in the universe when we can.

It is simple like that.