Babe relax! The guy was just trying the new chalk given to him by baba. Apparently it doesn't work over distance.



Play along, go snap the shoe & send to him like u have purchased it. See how lovely the next set of messages will be & wen you arrive for Christmas, give him a story of how some1 who helped u pack ur bags mistakenly left it.

chukxie:

I wanted to know if you were my Wechat budddy, LoveDay?

No.

guccidriver93k:
My boyfriend said I should buy him Gucci Driver shoes worth N93k when I am coming home for Christmas break, said he will give me the money when I come back. This is going to be the first time we will meet since we started our fragile relationship 9 months ago, we knew a bit in University few years ago.

Severally, I have told my boyfriend prior to now that I cannot afford it. Last before now, he said "but you can start saving now and you will get the money before your arrival". So this time, to be the virtuous girlfriend, I had to go all out and check up the prices for this shoe.
I think he assumes that because I am a self-sponsored student abroad, I am Dantata's love child.
Anytime i debunk this claim, he goes like "haba!" and

Let me correct something, he is not your boyfriend and you're not his girlfriend either; simply put - you guys are just catching up online as friends.

You both went to undergrad together and he didn't ask you out, he prolly didn't even notice you then. Now all of a sudden, you're in China for your MSc and your future looks brighter, you feel bored in a foreign land and chats with him on Facebook, and the next thing you know, he's telling you about how much he's loved you from your undergrad days and bla bla bla... and you think you're in a relationship.

My dear, wake up and dump his sorry bottom, now! You're better off without him - think of how much (time and resources) you've invested in ur 'relationship' and how better you'd have been exploring and learning new things about your city. Since you guys started 'dating' 9 months back, what values has he added to you? Now he wants a 95k shoes. . If he really wants it badly, he should order it online and have it delivered next week.

I've been there before and I know how friends of the opposite gender will start loving you up when they know you're in a foreign country.

DeeTus:
No.

All good, bro. Nice to meet you here. I'm Dan.

chukxie:

All good, bro. Nice to meet you here. I'm Dan.

Ok.

Don't be a puppy, he won't pay u back. If u want to get it for him, get it and zero ur mind from a pay back syndrome . Bt from his reply, it seems he just wnts to milk u n go... Dats my sentiment though

phabulous88:


Let me correct something, he is not your boyfriend and you're not his girlfriend either; simply put - you guys are just catching up online as friends.

You both went to undergrad together and he didn't ask you out, he prolly didn't even notice you then. Now all of a sudden, you're in China for your MSc and your future looks brighter, you feel bored in a foreign land and chats with him on Facebook, and the next thing you know, he's telling you about how much he's loved you from your undergrad days and bla bla bla... and you think you're in a relationship.

My dear, wake up and dump his sorry bottom, now! You're better off without him - think of how much (time and resources) you've invested in ur 'relationship' and how better you'd have been exploring and learning new things about your city. Since you guys started 'dating' 9 months back, what values has he added to you? Now he wants a 95k shoes. . If he really wants it badly, he should order it online and have it delivered next week.

I've been there before and I know how friends of the opposite gender will start loving you up when they know you're in a foreign country.

Everything you have written here is most likely true of what happened. The funny thing is I really felt it was true, not knowing I was about to be swindled
Thanks for your timely advice.

OP,

This ur bf na ole.

Ehnnn can u imagine oooo.

Him come tell u sey fi buy the shoe and wen u meet for the 1st time he will give u the money.

Isnt that alarming to u already?

Not only r women glod diggers but men as well.

Op if u still give ur bf money after this, i no pity u because u will never in ur entire life get back that 93K again.

And he had the guts to say u shouldnt call him husband.

gerrout of here jare.

Nonsens!!!

Black Friday is just days away, so you can still get him the shoes at a more cheaper rate..