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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Toks2008(m): 11:40pm On Sep 25, 2015

Dozzmani:
Hello friends

I have been a reader in this forum for a while now,usually see the help through advise being given to people,which made me to bring this issue here because at this point,I don't know what exactly to tell this my guy becuase this issue is beyond me.

My friend has been dating his girlfriend for two years now,the babe is know to us(his friends) and his family as the only woman for him. It was a no sex relationship as the girl said her virginity is her pride. My guy accepted to wait till when they get married as he truly love this babe. Last year ending, one guy moved into the compound of this girl, that was when stories entered their beautiful relationship.

To cut the long story short, recently my guy's girlfriend that never wanted sex started disturbing him of sex, he was surprised about it, later agreed as she made him promise her to indulge in it with her. Alarm blew on the supposed day they were meant to have the sex as he wanted to cover his white sheets because of possible blood stains, she told him blood won't come out. He went in and blood never came out. Since then, she had been lying and swearing she was a virgin which my guy persisted she was not.

She opened up to him of recent that she lost it to the new guy in their compound who as of then almost made them to break up but was pleaded with him not to break the relationship by her aunt and some good friends of hers'.

She doesn't have anything to do with that guy she lost it to because the issue went out of proportion then in their compound, which made my guy to start growing faith in her again upon knowing she slept with that guy in her compound few times when she cheated with him.

She recently confessed to him she knew blood won't come out as she slept with the compound guy once before the day they had sex. The twist now is that who he met a virgin could not hold on to it for him but gave it away to another guy.he is questioning the girl's love on how she could have done such.he still loves her but can't say if he can trust her not to try such if eventually he marries her.she begged for forgiveness.but to be honest,I don't know what to say to this guy.

Please, friends, your candid advise will go a long way in shaping someone's future here as of life partner as he plans on getting married by next year ending..

We all deserve a second chance so the guy should let it pass and be with the lady.

Of what use is leaving a girl who just got disvirgined by another man regardless of the promise she made and then going for another lady that have probably slept with many other guys.

Please tell your friend to let it pass and continue because just as i wrote, we all deserve a second chance.

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 11:41pm On Sep 25, 2015

tellwisdom:

No. This kain thing too cheap for me to loose. U go like give me ur own?

Tellwisdom the crase man! cheesy

Nowdays your head don dey come down.

Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by fxbot: 11:41pm On Sep 25, 2015

EggovinMma:
No be your fellow man chop the hymen?Abeg go one side dey cry,no disturb us here.

lol.. Remember when sexy often cried about certain ex. Lol. Na dis kind thing kill am o.

How far Nne? wink

Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by imohchard(m): 11:42pm On Sep 25, 2015

Romance thread are making fp dis days o.. Those mods seun jusst employed are either erotic readers or players......

Modified

I typed "Er0Tik" and nairaland changed it to "intimate". Does seun and his fellow programmers know that under the law of nigeria I can sue them to court?

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by jewelbaby55(f): 11:43pm On Sep 25, 2015

You don't need a pastor to tell you to dump her. Obviously she doesn't love you. Cus if she do? She would allow you to be her first. Don't be fooled a second time! Be wise! He'll is real! ;DYou don't need a pastor to tell you to dump her. Obviously she doesn't love you. Cus if she do? She would allow you to be her first. Don't be fooled a second time! Be wise! He'll is real!

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nickymezor(f): 11:43pm On Sep 25, 2015

Precious91:

they are the most complicated set of being ever created

Hmmm, I hear u... Na u sabi undecided

Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by AreaFada2: 11:43pm On Sep 25, 2015

baralatie:
a boy get girlfriend na another man they y.an.sh am.
you are talking of of marriage!
how?

Abeg follow me ask o.
A girl once told me she was a virgin. I nor ask am o.

With some pressure, we did it o. But na the regular express way I see dia o. Nothing like virgin. grin

Anyhow, since I wasn't after a virgin in the first place I didn't really care.
If non-virgin was the only matter, no sweat at all.

But the supposed virgin had used abortion to ruin her womb much earlier! shocked

And that was a girl I wanted to marry. shocked

Wasted a couple of years with this girl o.
Luckily found out about ruined womb before marriage.
That was EOD sharply.

The lies and deceit still hurt a bit till today. Even though I have moved on. Because she deliberately deceived me. She was under no pressure to be a virgin. It was meant to prepare the way to deceive about her cause of infertility. Totally evil.

Virgin forming is one of the most common lies some girls peddle to obfuscate guys.
Never fall for it.

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by MrBasketball: 11:44pm On Sep 25, 2015

I would advice you not to accept her back... She still gat to cheat.

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by jewelbaby55(f): 11:44pm On Sep 25, 2015

Why am I typing twice?

Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 11:46pm On Sep 25, 2015

fxbot:
lol.. Remember when sexy often cried about certain ex. Lol. Na dis kind thing kill am o.

How far Nne?

i dey jare.
Don't mind all these guys wey dey form "my fiance".

Them don bastardize the word already!
AFTER ALL NO BE THE GIRL GET HER YANCH

SHE GAVE IT OUT TO THE BEST SEX CANDIDATE HOOOOHAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! cheesy

GOD KNOWS I CANT HOLD MY VIRGINITY FOR A GUY,ONLY FOR MYSELF!!

I NO EVEN REMEMBER THE NIGGAR WEY DISVIRGIN ME,GOT TIRED OF HIM AFTER THE THIRD MONTH I THINK.

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by mustiiz(m): 11:47pm On Sep 25, 2015

F50:

Have u dated a virgin before? If not learn from my experience.
Not all virgins have the will to succeed till wedding night.

Dts d truth cos dias dis lady in ph dat was a virgin nd told me immidiately she enters uni.. She will loose her virginity..

Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by tellwisdom: 11:47pm On Sep 25, 2015

EggovinMma:

Tellwisdom the crase man!
Nowdays your head don dey come down.

U dey abuse me? sad

Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by lezz(m): 11:49pm On Sep 25, 2015

Dozzmani:
Hello friends

I have been a reader in this forum for a while now,usually see the help through advise being given to people,which made me to bring this issue here because at this point,I don't know what exactly to tell this my guy becuase this issue is beyond me.

My friend has been dating his girlfriend for two years now,the babe is know to us(his friends) and his family as the only woman for him. It was a no sex relationship as the girl said her virginity is her pride. My guy accepted to wait till when they get married as he truly love this babe. Last year ending, one guy moved into the compound of this girl, that was when stories entered their beautiful relationship.

To cut the long story short, recently my guy's girlfriend that never wanted sex started disturbing him of sex, he was surprised about it, later agreed as she made him promise her to indulge in it with her. Alarm blew on the supposed day they were meant to have the sex as he wanted to cover his white sheets because of possible blood stains, she told him blood won't come out. He went in and blood never came out. Since then, she had been lying and swearing she was a virgin which my guy persisted she was not.

She opened up to him of recent that she lost it to the new guy in their compound who as of then almost made them to break up but was pleaded with him not to break the relationship by her aunt and some good friends of hers'.

She doesn't have anything to do with that guy she lost it to because the issue went out of proportion then in their compound, which made my guy to start growing faith in her again upon knowing she slept with that guy in her compound few times when she cheated with him.

She recently confessed to him she knew blood won't come out as she slept with the compound guy once before the day they had sex. The twist now is that who he met a virgin could not hold on to it for him but gave it away to another guy.he is questioning the girl's love on how she could have done such.he still loves her but can't say if he can trust her not to try such if eventually he marries her.she begged for forgiveness.but to be honest,I don't know what to say to this guy.

Please, friends, your candid advise will go a long way in shaping someone's future here as of life partner as he plans on getting married by next year ending..

Your friend should call it quits. Losing her virginity to a near-stranger (Newly moved in neighbour), lying about it are all the signs she can't be trusted in a marriage.

And is your friend a mugu? How can he date her so long and she insisted on keeping her virginity only for a new neighbour to burst her open?

It's either she has no physical attraction for your guy
Or your guy is just plain dumb. And don't believe she won't still be _fucking that neighbour.

Girls are very soft on men who first _fucked them voluntarily. She will be drawn to that _fuck for a long, long time.

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by mactoni91(m): 11:49pm On Sep 25, 2015

Gracito:
. Hahahaha, Ayaf die here. We'd probably hear your own story soon? How u take see am?

already posted my story...
A guy lashed ma first virgin gf...
Had anoda virgin gf

Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Bamz(m): 11:51pm On Sep 25, 2015

Tales by moonlight cheesy

Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 11:52pm On Sep 25, 2015

tellwisdom:

U dey abuse me?

ABUSE YOU FOR WHERE?
I DEY FEAR YOU OOOOO.I NO FIT TRY AM NA.

Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by dcole73: 11:52pm On Sep 25, 2015

Life ain't fair. Move on.

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by inimitkel(m): 11:53pm On Sep 25, 2015

Gbese re o!

Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by mozart1893(m): 11:54pm On Sep 25, 2015

cutesmilez:
One chance

DIVISION OF LABOUR BRO.... lipsrsealed

Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by fxbot: 11:54pm On Sep 25, 2015

EggovinMma:

i dey jare.
Don't mind all these guys wey dey form "my fiance".

Them don bastardize the word already!
AFTER ALL NO BE THE GIRL GET HER YANCHSHE GAVE IT OUT TO THE BEST SEX CANDIDATE HOOOOHAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!

GOD KNOWS I CANT HOLD MY VIRGINITY FOR A GUY,ONLY FOR MYSELF!!

I NO EVEN REMEMBER THE NIGGAR WEY DISVIRGIN ME,GOT TIRED OF HIM AFTER THE THIRD MONTH I THINK.

I don die from laugh. Omo, after that incidence eh, my eyes clear. As in eh, I can't go into any relationship with girl claiming "no sex". The moment I see signs or hear "no sex", I don dey plot my graph to exit be that.

No b me dem go use do kparo again.

The thing be say many guy no know say babe want the thing badly, like I naively thought back then.

Since then, we dey wash the kini wella so tey dem dey hail us lol.

But I am not the sex freak. My indulgence was due to bad experiences and the need not to feel cheated if I no chop and babe waka later.

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 11:54pm On Sep 25, 2015

Av experience this sh1t, same 2yrs dating her without sex and neither did I cheat despite I love fvckin. Warned her not to go to a particular party with her friends she told me about, only for her to went there, drank first tym, got drunk and taken advantage of. It hurt like hell and it made me kinda iron hearted in a way. but i thank God coz d minute she confessed, I turn d relationship into friendship and I refuse sleeping with her up till today which she really wanted, cried for it, begged for it coz she wants to feel the touch of a man she loved. Little did she know that was her punishment. Ur friend fvck up sleeping with her

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by predatorX: 11:56pm On Sep 25, 2015

sweetorgasms:
d compound guy that disvirgin her, look 4 his girlfriend and pet her and fvck her very well, then after dumb ur girlfriend. "atleast u dnt loose

wicked! wicked!! wickedest!!!

that's what the bible calls "an eye for an eye", a fvck for a fvck grin

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 11:57pm On Sep 25, 2015

una dey find virgin wife abi

?UNA NEVER SEE ANYTHING!!! cheesy

ONE BIG BOTTLE OF STAR FOR THAT SHARP NIGGAR!!! kiss

GUYS GO DEY STRAFFFFFFFF,BUT THEM ONE MARRY VIRGIN.WHEN SHE STILL BE VIRGIN WHY YOU NO QUICK MARRY HER

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Seculent: 11:57pm On Sep 25, 2015

Girls cheating too much these days and that means 99% of them are whorés.

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 12:01am On Sep 26, 2015

Na normal thing,it can dey pain.na only God know how far you don go to make the totex ripe thinking say na you go pluck am last last.respect to the guy when chop am finally.

Modified: oh yeah you gon have to break up with that broad.

Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by tellwisdom: 12:04am On Sep 26, 2015

EggovinMma:

ABUSE YOU FOR WHERE?
I DEY FEAR YOU OOOOO.I NO FIT TRY AM NA.

Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by dapsonlou(m): 12:05am On Sep 26, 2015

Dozzmani:
Hello friends

I have been a reader in this forum for a while now,usually see the help through advise being given to people,which made me to bring this issue here because at this point,I don't know what exactly to tell this my guy becuase this issue is beyond me.

My friend has been dating his girlfriend for two years now,the babe is know to us(his friends) and his family as the only woman for him. It was a no sex relationship as the girl said her virginity is her pride. My guy accepted to wait till when they get married as he truly love this babe. Last year ending, one guy moved into the compound of this girl, that was when stories entered their beautiful relationship.

To cut the long story short, recently my guy's girlfriend that never wanted sex started disturbing him of sex, he was surprised about it, later agreed as she made him promise her to indulge in it with her. Alarm blew on the supposed day they were meant to have the sex as he wanted to cover his white sheets because of possible blood stains, she told him blood won't come out. He went in and blood never came out. Since then, she had been lying and swearing she was a virgin which my guy persisted she was not.

She opened up to him of recent that she lost it to the new guy in their compound who as of then almost made them to break up but was pleaded with him not to break the relationship by her aunt and some good friends of hers'.

She doesn't have anything to do with that guy she lost it to because the issue went out of proportion then in their compound, which made my guy to start growing faith in her again upon knowing she slept with that guy in her compound few times when she cheated with him.

She recently confessed to him she knew blood won't come out as she slept with the compound guy once before the day they had sex. The twist now is that who he met a virgin could not hold on to it for him but gave it away to another guy.he is questioning the girl's love on how she could have done such.he still loves her but can't say if he can trust her not to try such if eventually he marries her.she begged for forgiveness.but to be honest,I don't know what to say to this guy.

Please, friends, your candid advise will go a long way in shaping someone's future here as of life partner as he plans on getting married by next year ending..

My Guy since you already Chop your own let her go, Once a girl cheat on you she will Cheat on you always, fact. You Deserve better because you waited for her it shows good character.

Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by tellwisdom: 12:06am On Sep 26, 2015

jewelbaby55:
Why am I typing twice?

You could be drunk sad

..Seems u even have big boobss..Can i feel it?? wink

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 12:08am On Sep 26, 2015

Dozzmani:
Hello friends

I have been a reader in this forum for a while now,usually see the help through advise being given to people,which made me to bring this issue here because at this point,I don't know what exactly to tell this my guy becuase this issue is beyond me.

My friend has been dating his girlfriend for two years now,the babe is know to us(his friends) and his family as the only woman for him. It was a no sex relationship as the girl said her virginity is her pride. My guy accepted to wait till when they get married as he truly love this babe. Last year ending, one guy moved into the compound of this girl, that was when stories entered their beautiful relationship.

To cut the long story short, recently my guy's girlfriend that never wanted sex started disturbing him of sex, he was surprised about it, later agreed as she made him promise her to indulge in it with her. Alarm blew on the supposed day they were meant to have the sex as he wanted to cover his white sheets because of possible blood stains, she told him blood won't come out. He went in and blood never came out. Since then, she had been lying and swearing she was a virgin which my guy persisted she was not.

She opened up to him of recent that she lost it to the new guy in their compound who as of then almost made them to break up but was pleaded with him not to break the relationship by her aunt and some good friends of hers'.

She doesn't have anything to do with that guy she lost it to because the issue went out of proportion then in their compound, which made my guy to start growing faith in her again upon knowing she slept with that guy in her compound few times when she cheated with him.

She recently confessed to him she knew blood won't come out as she slept with the compound guy once before the day they had sex. The twist now is that who he met a virgin could not hold on to it for him but gave it away to another guy.he is questioning the girl's love on how she could have done such.he still loves her but can't say if he can trust her not to try such if eventually he marries her.she begged for forgiveness.but to be honest,I don't know what to say to this guy.

Please, friends, your candid advise will go a long way in shaping someone's future here as of life partner as he plans on getting married by next year ending..

issorite

Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by torqque7(m): 12:08am On Sep 26, 2015

adazinnie:
Haba all dese guys self how many of una b virgin...

@adazinnie..the issue is the betrayal here,she starved her fiance for years only to happily give someone just days of meeting him..if she wasn't a virgin in the first place then we can understand but clearly shez taking the fiances Luv for weakness and foolishness..

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by predatorX: 12:08am On Sep 26, 2015

For this kain hard time when virgins scarce, dis useless Op still dey lose hin own. undecided

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 12:11am On Sep 26, 2015

fxbot:
I don die from laugh. Omo, after that incidence eh, my eyes clear. As in eh, I can't go into any relationship with girl claiming "no sex". The moment I see signs or hear "no sex", I don dey plot my graph to exit be that.

No b me dem go use do kparo again.

The thing be say many guy no know say babe want the thing badly, like I naively thought back then.

Since then, we dey wash the kini wella so tey dem dey hail us lol.

But I am not the sex freak. My indulgence was due to bad experiences and the need not to feel cheated if I no chop and babe waka later.

EVERYBODY GAT TO PROTECT HIS/HER INTEREST BIKO!NO BODY HOLY PASS.

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