BlaqCoffee109:
the Ibos are open to Rivers people like the Ikwerre...they are considered Ibo...now the thing with Ibos: Their sons marrying a none ibo especially Yoruba...they will frustrate the life of that union in anticipation for him to marry from "home"...in very rare cases do you see the man stick with his choice and follow through.

And this is based on, what, anecdotal evidence? I bet you don't know that based on anecdotal evidence the same can be said of the Yorubas and other ethnic groups too.

You didn't answer my first question though: Do you believe that Peter is having problems with Paul SPECIFICALLY because of Lola's ethnicity?

BTW, this thread is over two years old. I don't know why you're still alerting the mods to take it to the front page. So that more people can show up and bash Igbos, so you feel good/better?

It's been over two years since that Igbo guy broke your heart. Don't you think you owe it to yourself to get over it already? This isn't healthy.

RedboneSmith:


And this is based on, what, anecdotal evidence? I bet you don't know that based on anecdotal evidence the same can be said of the Yorubas and other ethnic groups too.

You didn't answer my first question though: Do you believe that Peter is having problems with Paul SPECIFICALLY because of Lola's ethnicity?

Did you take into account the reports Peter claimed Paul was after his wife...and a post he shared on social media "come and be going"...why that is no basis for these assertions,they might as well be pointers to it...btw,aren't the other boys married?why must Lola be referenced and be at the receiving end at their fights?

RedboneSmith:
BTW, this thread is over two years old. I don't know why you're still alerting the mods to take it to the front page. So that more people can show up and bash Igbos, so you feel good/better?

It's been over two years since that Igbo guy broke your heart. Don't you think you owe it to yourself to get over it already? This isn't healthy.

Duh!? am I not grateful am not in the mess Lola Omotayo is in now for the sake of loving/marry an Ibo man?This is a topical and societal issue to be addressed not for the sake of bashing Ibos but to bring certain ills to our national consciousness and deal with it...not to make the same mistakes our fathers made in the past...y'all are quick to cry wolf about the dichotomy of Nigeria;did i hear a referendum?Lets talk about Ibophobia...lets talk about why it is almost a taboo for a full fledged Ibo man not to marry outside Iboland...Yeah it is 2years past this thread but the relevance of this discuss cannot be over-emphasized

btw, @RedboneSmith...for my vanity,i left him...i made that decision for him...you know what they say about getting something better than the former?its called upgrade...i got me a MAN ya know what i mean?

BlaqCoffee109:
btw, @RedboneSmith...for my vanity,i left him...i made that decision for him...you know what they say about getting something better than the former?its called upgrade...i got me a MAN ya know what i mean?

I am actually happy for you, believe me.

BlaqCoffee109:
Did you take into account the reports Peter claimed Paul was after his wife...and a post he shared on social media "come and be going"...why that is no basis for these assertions,they might as well be pointers to it...btw,aren't the other boys married?why must Lola be referenced and be at the receiving end at their fights?

Smh. And you are sure there is no legitimate reason why they have problems with Lola, other than that she is Yoruba? You don't know what goes down in the Okoye household, but you want to tie it down to tribal hatred because you had a bad experience with an Igbo guy?

Lol.

RedboneSmith:


I am actually happy for you, believe me.

i am happy for me too,hun...

RedboneSmith:


Smh. And you are sure there is no legitimate reason why they have problems with Lola, other than that she is Yoruba? You don't know what goes down in the Okoye household, but you want to tie it down to tribal hatred because you had a bad experience with an Igbo guy?

Lol.

blame it on the rain...just blame it on the rain

BlaqCoffee109:
Lets talk about Ibophobia...lets talk about why it is almost a taboo for a full fledged Ibo man not to marry outside Iboland...

Taboo?

I've attended enough Igbo man/non-Igbo woman weddings to know this statement is ridiculous. I've seen enough Igbo man/non-Igbo woman couples that have lived happily for decades to know this statement is ridiculous.

Until I see statistics that there is a greater reluctance in Igboland for the men to seek wives outside than the reluctance that exists in other tribes, I maintain that your view is very subjective.

By the way, I am from the Igbo part of Delta State, and I haven't had very good experiences with my Yoruba exes either, because their families didn't approve of 'omo ibo'. You don't see me whining about it and calling Yorubas tribalists.

RedboneSmith:


Taboo?

I've attended enough Igbo man/non-Igbo woman weddings to know this statement is ridiculous. I've seen enough Igbo man/non-Igbo woman couples that have lived happily for decades to know this statement is ridiculous.

Until I see statistics that there is a greater reluctance in Igboland for the men to seek wives outside than the reluctance that exists in other tribes, I maintain that your view is very subjective.

By the way, I am from the Igbo part of Delta State, and I haven't had very good experiences with my Yoruba exes either, because their families didn't approve of 'omo ibo'. You don't see me whining about it and calling Yorubas tribalists.

...yada yada, yada...Get back to the issues raised

BlaqCoffee109:
...yada yada, yada...Get back to the issues raised

Yes. Yada Yada yada... people say that a lot when they begin to realise the premise of their gist holds no water, and they want to fend you off.

Anyway, I think I am done here.

Lalasticlala, please front page, so she can get what she really wants.

Good luck to you.

RedboneSmith:


Yes. Yada Yada yada... people say that a lot when they begin to realise the premise of their gist holds no water, and they want to fend you off.

Anyway, I think I am done here.

Lalasticlala, please front page, so she can get what she really wants.

Good luck to you.

...ok

RedboneSmith:


Yes. Yada Yada yada... people say that a lot when they begin to realise the premise of their gist holds no water, and they want to fend you off.

Anyway, I think I am done here.

Lalasticlala, please front page, so she can get what she really wants.

Good luck to you.

hon, i will like you to answer me explaining the differences between igbo and yoruba style jollof rice, just answer me that one question and I will back off ok

ewa26:


hon, i will like you to answer me explaining the differences between igbo and yoruba style jollof rice, just answer me that one question and I will back off ok

for real?curious to know the difference...

BlaqCoffee109:
for real?curious to know the difference...

yes i heard there is quite some difference and i am curious to know wetin e be ok, apparently is either yoruba or igbo that sweet pass, that the other tribe put to mosh nonsense spicing or whateveing

ewa26:
yes i heard there is quite some difference and i am curious to know wetin e be ok, apparently is either yoruba or igbo that sweet pass, that the other tribe put to mosh nonsense spicing or whateveing

hian!Ooh!!

bigfrancis21:


Its not an issue of 'men queuing up for you' but the quality of the men in queue for you? Because if the men queuing up for you so far were of solid quality, you wouldn't still be single by now.

RedboneSmith:


Wait. Are you suggesting Peter is having problems with Paul for the specific reason that Lola is not Igbo? Didn't Paul marry a Rivers girl?

Paul married an Igbo girl from Oguta. Besides Rivers State is not a tribe.

BlaqCoffee109:
Duh!? am I not grateful am not in the mess Lola Omotayo is in now for the sake of loving/marry an Ibo man?This is a topical and societal issue to be addressed not for the sake of bashing Ibos but to bring certain ills to our national consciousness and deal with it...not to make the same mistakes our fathers made in the past...y'all are quick to cry wolf about the dichotomy of Nigeria;did i hear a referendum?Lets talk about Ibophobia...lets talk about why it is almost a taboo for a full fledged Ibo man not to marry outside Iboland...Yeah it is 2years past this thread but the relevance of this discuss cannot be over-emphasized

You are heart broken dear! Sorry about your loss. Work on yourself and stop blaming the entire Igbo nation.

QueenOfNepal:

...you his bottom b*tch now?

QueenOfNepal:

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Pchidexy:
You are heart broken dear! Sorry about your loss. Work on yourself and stop blaming the entire Igbo nation.

...and you are?You know me?Have we met?

BlaqCoffee109:
...and you are?You know me?Have we met?

You have been crying so much because of a lost love. There are millions of Igbos men from various background. Get hooked up to one. Stop saying Igbos are bigots. Every group marries more from their stock. Why should Igbo peoples own become a fight.

I am still single you know!

Igbos rock!

Pchidexy:
Paul married an Igbo girl from Oguta. Besides Rivers State is not a tribe.

Paul's wife is from Rivers state.

And she's still sulking after 2 years? Oh my.

God what did we do wrong to end up with such people? Smh.

BlaqCoffee109:
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where is pazienza to sign off on your head

I guess the harsh conditions they are subjected to,have made them lose touch of comprehension or some folks are just plain slow...This thread was created as a sociological discuss to change an anomally in Society...alas,here some dumb folks in their foolry acting like they got juice.Little wonder some class of people will rule over others...all animals are equal,some are more equal than others.Do please bring your brains along when responding to topics as this for the sake of intellectual discuss...people grow,people preferences get refined overtime...at least people like me and 2years is alot of time to do that.Whatever its worth,if y'all can read and comprehend and understand the value of upgrade,i mentioned before i left him and was sorry for him...the pressure he had to go through like one Lola's husband is been subjected to...that is a societal problem and instead of some intelligent submissions,y'all had to be small minded and petty...typical!Do please stick to the topic and importance of the thread.

QueenOfNepal:
where is pazienza to sign off on your head

Little girl...I don't do b*tches,much less unintelligent and petty ones...I don't cat fight either...that's for street girls too.If you want to step up to me,do the courtesy of bringing your brain along...I do not have the valuable time to waste on cheap ass wannabes...do please get of my mention.You might wannabe intelligent to contribute meaningfully to enlighten and educate people on the ibos and their culture as an argument to this thread.Thank you

BlaqCoffee109:
Little girl...I don't do b*tches,much less unintelligent and petty ones...I don't cat fight either...that's for street girls too.If you want to step up to me,do the courtesy of bringing your brain along...I do not have the valuable time to waste on cheap ass wannabes...do please get of my mention.You might wannabe intelligent to contribute meaningfully to enlighten and educate people on the ibos and their culture as an argument to this thread.Thank you

Long on talk but short on intelligence You can do better than this Don't you have more in your arsenal

QueenOfNepal:
Long on talk but short on intelligence You can do better than this Don't you have more in your arsenal

honey,i don't cat fight...I might just rip you apart and that will ruin my Oscar De La Renta dress...btw,your body and mouth odour if placed in a room with you,with your unshaved and smelly pvssy with all em trick daddies's cum stuck on em you sure don't wash well may just be all the weapons you got...who wouldn't be affected by that...sure i am long on talk with all you got going on...who said i was intelligent...oh puleeaaaze,you my fan now?So i am in my mode today...i am running late for an important meeting,off to close on an important deal...stay on nairaland all day dear and look pretty,ok.You can stay on my mention.i repeat,i don't cat fight,i am not big on pleasantries with cheap bottom b*tches...i don't have the time for cute little girl talk,i am a very busy woman and my apologies if i don't continue on this little back and forth.