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Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by bellong: 9:28am On Sep 28, 2015

Is this how you wrote cover letters in your job applications?

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Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by ulaa(f): 9:28am On Sep 28, 2015

MizMyColi:
Your parents are the root of your problems.
Unless you WISELY take a drastic decision, you are stuck.

Do you pray?

you are soooo on point

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Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by beright: 9:36am On Sep 28, 2015

Only God can help u get your will power back, its like living in a cage, u r living the life of another. U might av a problm in ur marriage if u dont breaƙ off from this bond, u r also dealing with depression. Pray to get married and break every dependence on your mum. Frm ur story u cant survive living single life outside ur home cos u dont know how to and u wil make mistakes u might regret. Dont challenge ur mum now, just tel her u r ok and mean it dont show weakness. U wil b fine

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by dominique(f): 10:02am On Sep 28, 2015

Elegantdiva:
He is jst a frnd..rather like a big bro cux d age diff is very much.. my help doesnt not revol around w dis issue only... My southy man is seriously compln dat i dont live up..(my mum taking charge over my life , at every lili tin we do, i always bring in my mum) so do my dad. i remember i went for an interview, ,as at abt 7pm she has already runing down my ba3 and the interview ended up very late cux of my lateness(fiixing lunch for her) ...i remember how many interview i av missed becux she doesnt want me to live outside my present location. I also remember how many jobs i bounced becux she tinks d job will expose me to men.....All i want is how to live up without hurting her

You write like a teenager. Maybe that's why you're treated like one.

Until you take drastic actions, she will continue to dominate your life. By the time you're in your fifties, you would have gotten a cat while your mates will be welcoming their grandchildren. Maybe that's when your eyes will clear.

You're an adult, you have a job, you earn your own livelihood. How you still let your mother to tie you down like that is beyond me. You have to stand up to her and let her know that you're no longer a child, then you move out. If you can't do this, then you can continue to wallow in your situation.

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by Revolver411(m): 10:49am On Sep 28, 2015

Move out asap.... Your mum would not marry you. Hmm,i guess being a bit rebellious from a teen kinda has its positives.
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And i hope you were joking about the flogging part

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by Karleb(m): 11:44am On Sep 28, 2015

Your mama still dey flog you at 30? shocked

Now this is comical. grin

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Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by daveP(m): 12:24pm On Sep 28, 2015

Elegantdiva:
not flog per say but her choice of words .. I cant g attend any wedding wifout her permission.. Frankly i hope to move out of the house once i get another job outside my state. am not yet 30 but am close to it. lastyr, my dad complned to my brother abt locking myself up in d room and he is woried how i intend to get married wen i dont go out.. All i need is help...i love my mum so much .i wouldnt want to hurt her but i can go on with did type of life.. My south African boy still complns dat i dont live up

i dont intend to suggest a camp divide, but it seems your dad's been thinking bout your future more than your mum. I suggest you make him your talk-pal(you can go about this well). With time, your dad would pick up the 'fight' to stop your mum from that act and she'l gradually drop hand. Do your parents use 'eye-language' to communicate with you when you were lil?

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Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by Nobody: 12:29pm On Sep 28, 2015

GO FIND A HOUSE.

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by adahgold(m): 12:40pm On Sep 28, 2015

Dearie ur destiny is In ur hands,talk to Dem calmly and reasonably if ur mom want to flog u again stand up tall and tell her to stop it,if she beat u,don't do anything dearie,simply and secretly move out of the house!everything would be put in place as soon as u get ur house. Just my 2 cent.

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by mactoni91(m): 2:20pm On Sep 28, 2015

In a situation like this you need too thread carefully, the bible says respect and honor your parents so that your days will be long..
My advice is wait for that moment when your mum is happy and you will tell her there is something you want too ask her, then you will start by saying u want too know if she adopted u or she is truly ur mother? Then she will want to know what brought about the question and will then tell her about her cold treatment towards you and every other thing you feel she was making you go through emotionally.

My own opinion,

She's over protective and I guess she wants too keep u for ur husband who is out of the country. Apply diplomacy so that u don't get a well structured curse from your mum. Re Remeber it must be done at her happiest moment if not u will incur another flogging

Send me a message on my email I'd on d outcome.... sirbeejay4uk@gmail.com.

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by Urine: 2:52pm On Sep 28, 2015

Elegantdiva:
Pls am introvert..a very serious one. I hardly go out nor go on a date. i feel awkward when a guy ask for a date(i wont say no but i will disappoint at the 11th hr) I am 30yrs.Also i am inlove wif my southAfrican boy whp have been away for 2yrs+ now even thou we did introduction before he left the shores of the country. I live with my parents . i do go to work from there . I equally av a cilent who recently became my frnd .. I find pleasure hanging out with him.. i also like sharing my problem wif him(careerly, relationship ) cux therr is always a new thing to learn from him everyday.... Yday i invited him over to the house, he met my mum and they had discussions.. ..
leta i went to see my pastor from there i went to hang out wif him. Too bad i came bk around 9pm... Now my problem. .. My mum also floged me.. She said all sort of tins to me. she was very angry wif me.. Jst dis once i went out... Now my questions are: At my age, is she meant to shout on me for going out ? I like this my cilent, I still want him as a frnd and i wouldnt want my mum to angry wif me again, how do i handle it? lastly i want my parents (my mum)to stop controling nd ordering my life about( i hardly trvl out of my state .be it interview, wedding nor visit to my sisters)i seriously want to take charge over my life. I go to work everyday, whc am not supoz to stay out once is 7pm(no meta d official excuse)..... Pls help me!!!!!!!! i didnt sleep the whole of lastnite

It's time to move out and get your own apartment.

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by freecocoa(f): 3:08pm On Sep 28, 2015

This is probably someone just trolling.

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Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by fejikudz(m): 4:02pm On Sep 28, 2015

Am not sure you're up to 30yrs..
because you write like a teenager

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by Vikky014(f): 4:39pm On Sep 28, 2015

avasweet:
@30 years u still dey chop cane....my parents stopped @ 17 .......is she a joke?? which kind mama want beat me @ 30 years... believe me we go beat ourselves oooo...

Come to think of it don't SA or where you are have law against abuse....cos beating a 30 year old lady for going out on a date is Adult abuse ...as funny has it sound it's true...

My honest advice is exhibit the best patience u have for now....calmly tell her u don't wish for dat to continue, tell her u are not grown up and don't forget to mention ur age while talking to her she remember cos I think she forgot and thinks u are 13....if she persist pls move out, even if she stops beating u still need to live her house...two tinz....get married or get an apartment...I will advice u do the later cos its not advice able u rush into marriage no matter wat...it could be worst

So sooorrry take heart

ROTFLMAO

OP did u jst say ur mum flogged u at d age of 30 yrs

pls report ur mum to sme1 she listens to.

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by MrsDoctor: 4:49pm On Sep 28, 2015

Elegantdiva:
Pls am introvert..a very serious one. I hardly go out nor go on a date. i feel awkward when a guy ask for a date(i wont say no but i will disappoint at the 11th hr) I am 30yrs.Also i am inlove wif my southAfrican boy whp have been away for 2yrs+ now even thou we did introduction before he left the shores of the country. I live with my parents . i do go to work from there . I equally av a cilent who recently became my frnd .. I find pleasure hanging out with him.. i also like sharing my problem wif him(careerly, relationship ) cux therr is always a new thing to learn from him everyday.... Yday i invited him over to the house, he met my mum and they had discussions.. ..
leta i went to see my pastor from there i went to hang out wif him. Too bad i came bk around 9pm... Now my problem. .. My mum also floged me.. She said all sort of tins to me. she was very angry wif me.. Jst dis once i went out... Now my questions are: At my age, is she meant to shout on me for going out ? I like this my cilent, I still want him as a frnd and i wouldnt want my mum to angry wif me again, how do i handle it? lastly i want my parents (my mum)to stop controling nd ordering my life about( i hardly trvl out of my state .be it interview, wedding nor visit to my sisters)i seriously want to take charge over my life. I go to work everyday, whc am not supoz to stay out once is 7pm(no meta d official excuse)..... Pls help me!!!!!!!! i didnt sleep the whole of lastnite

this will get you more angry
https://www.nairaland.com/2630071/kind-mother-inlaw-2

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by widowhusband: 5:27pm On Sep 28, 2015

Elegantdiva:
menix.. Very funny.. Bleep who? Sex is a turnoff for me and my guy knows that very well .. before i go on a date, i do inform him. He knows evrry of my steps and moves... He is my first love , first man in my life, I cant cheat on whom i love.

What are you then doing with the client then?

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Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by queenfav(f): 5:29pm On Sep 28, 2015

Na wa o..this is why after graduation every one should strive to leave the nest.To avoid see finish!I am sure you are cool with it if not you would have stood your grounds.Which mother flogs a 30 year old?That one strong o..Advice for you,get your own place.Parents value you when you are independent and away from home.All those staying in the same house/town parole go just buy you free insults.Nne wise up o.

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by gsalvatore: 5:56pm On Sep 28, 2015

I Think this OP is Unreal, a TROLL at BEST.

How can you be so unfair to yourself(assuming the thread is true).

Grab you life by the BALLS or else Regret will be you First name...

Start by doing things you haven't done before...RUN AWAY for like a month, DISAPPEAR FROM THE GRID...

OR better still Arrest your mum shocked

...yeah .. Just do something for the SHOCK VALUE of it...She will know things will be changing hence.

I think she will get the message.

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Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by Elegantdiva: 6:35pm On Sep 28, 2015

pls am real.. getting a new job outside my present location . spending a week at my galfrnd's house..Thanks frnds. so happy now

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by franklingud(m): 7:00pm On Sep 28, 2015

My dear, run out dat hauz if u don't wanna do something you will regret for the rest of your life.
Being flogged at 30?? Chai!

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by gidjah(m): 9:24pm On Sep 28, 2015

It is well with you Diva,pls make true and honest friends,live to know God d more, socialise and you will grow up more mentally.Nothing can be more joyfull than the athmosphere of true FREEDOM,GOD BLESS U REAL GOOD.

Elegantdiva:
pls am real.. getting a new job outside my present location . spending a week at my galfrnd's house..Thanks frnds. so happy now

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by Nobody: 9:31pm On Sep 28, 2015

It is either the Op is a troll or a kid. She writes like those 2go girls we use to chat with back in the days. I refuse to take her serious.

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Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by Elegantdiva: 5:48am On Sep 29, 2015

What is kiddy or unreal abt my write up? Well you dont know and i wasnt expting you to understand my issue. i av taken all the frndly advice listed above. spoke to sm frnds outside this platform.

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by Nobody: 7:00am On Sep 29, 2015

Elegantdiva:
i av taken all the frndly advice listed above. spoke to sm frnds outside this platform.

The emboldened is the reason why people think you are probably still a kid. Only teenagers write using text-speak, any adult that writes that way is not ready to be regarded as as an adult yet.

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Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by Elegantdiva: 8:12am On Sep 29, 2015

friedplantain. jst want to clear your doubt..... Here is my bbpin 59287248

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by Feranchek(m): 12:02pm On Sep 29, 2015

ifyalways:
30 years old and you still write like 190 in the romance section?

Kontinu o

I go dey watch you from today ... kontinu kwa

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by Nobody: 10:37pm On Sep 29, 2015

Elegantdiva:
friedplantain. jst want to clear your doubt..... Here is my bbpin 5××××××

Naaah, you did not have to go this far.... . Moreover, I'm not on BBM.

Please do delete your BBM pin from your post lest scammers use it against you.
If you still feel the need to 'clear my doubt' then you always send me a pm.

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by NemzySeries(m): 11:32pm On Sep 29, 2015

@ 30 ur mama still dey kip koboko 4 hauz?......U've not told us ur real age...probably datz ur football age frm d reverse

our last born is 13+ & I can't remember d last time he wuz physically handled

.............u beta pack out b4 d end of october or else I 'Lߘ܌ join ur mama in flogging dat butt of urs

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by NemzySeries(m): 11:39pm On Sep 29, 2015

U've bin domesticated 4 too long...itz time to relocate to d jungle & get wild.

I'm almost 25 & i'll b rounding up ma serve nxt month(oct 15th) & ma dad can't wait 4 me to get a job & fvck off talkmore of waiting till 30 or bin kobokolised

Grow sum ballz & speak out notin like introvert or multivert 4 dis matter bkos ur future & family to cum is already affected by such act & itz not gonna b easy to ova cum

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by 190: 12:39am On Sep 30, 2015

ifyalways:
30 years old and you still write like 190 in the romance section?

Kontinu o

What do you mean undecided

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Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by Elegantdiva: 3:12am On Sep 30, 2015

Thanks. How do dlt my bbpin from here? D "pm" i dont know how to use it.

Re: My Mum And I...i Wept The Whole Of Lastnite by Nobody: 11:38am On Sep 30, 2015

eleyi gidi gan o
there muat b a reason shes overprotective ans u need to get it out of her. meanwhile. U my dear ssrioualy nwed to move out.

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