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Re: . by Phut(f): 2:00am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Ineedmychild:Ma'am, you said in an earlier posts that you and your husband have tried various treatments, including herbal. What exactly are you treating for? Unless you guys figure out what exactly is wrong, MOST treatment you undergo will be pointless and may actually have adverse effect on you guys. It would be akin to throwing everything at the wall and hoping something sticks - not a very efficient way of doing things, you'll agree. You have been married since 25, your period comes like clockwork ... What about your husbands sperm count? Not having erectile dysfunction, does not rule out sterility. Both of you should carry out the necessary tests. If u are ovulating and the problem is from your husband, then ideally, you both should come to an agreement and get a sperm donor. I am not advocating cheating. I said get a sperm donor. Neither one of you even needs to meet the sperm donor. Now if the problem is from your end, get an egg donor. If you are unable or unwilling to carry the pregnancy to term, then you get a surrogate. whomever the party with the problem is, should be selfless. Now if after pinpointing the problem, you both decide that you don't really care to have a biological child (Note: nobody should be coerced) then you guys can go ahead and adopt. If one person is cajoled into something, there is the possibility that with the passage of time, that person may begin to feel some sort of resentment (even with the presence of an adopted child) 2 Likes |
Re: . by Jobabori(m): 2:05am On Oct 02, 2015 |
@ Ifyalways if there is any help you can offer this madam, please find mean of meeting her and put her through the process @ tellwisdom please if you cannot help, you should stop judging her. There are women who were regular at abortion in their spinster years and yet got married and were bearing children till they decided to stop it. There are also women who married as virgins and yet have problems like the one under discussion. There are some issues beyond human interpretations. 10 Likes |
Re: . by Phut(f): 2:06am On Oct 02, 2015 |
eyinjuege: But you know a lot of people cannot tell the difference between Erectile dysfunction (or the lack thereof) and sterility. Be steady shooting blanks while wallowing in their ignorance 6 Likes |
Re: . by tellwisdom: 7:57am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Jobabori: Ok boss |
Re: . by tellwisdom: 8:16am On Oct 02, 2015 |
eyinjuege: If it was from the husband, she would undoubtedly state it...But as the case may be, he's fine. She must have coerced the poor man to marriage all to wail and whine with him for her hand made predicament. Well, i don't think its a must to have a baby |
Re: . by focus7: 9:44am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Op as much as I would like to sympathise with your plight, I don't know why I am suspicious of you. |
Re: . by darmilolah(m): 10:07am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Do you have a womb?
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Re: . by AskProf: 10:47am On Oct 02, 2015 |
ifyalways: Right on target. |
Re: . by CMVP(m): 11:37am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Ineedmychild: Contact me on greg @ morganhillchildrenfoundation.com. Morgan Hill handles adoption processes within the country and outside as well. You could also contact me on larudeez @ yahoo.com just in case you find it difficult to reach me. Morgan Hill understands the difficulties that arises from trying to adopt. I personally sent you an e-mail here on the platform. Hope to connect to you soon. And please Ma, in your T-T-C state, do not consider baby factories- they are illegal and criminal. Hope to hear from you soon, and wish you the best. |
Re: . by eyinjuege: 2:51pm On Oct 02, 2015 |
tellwisdom: Most people wouldn't want to embarrass the people they love by broadcasting such a sensitive issue, and won't even be as specific as readers would want. A person's medical history should be held sacred, and we should respect that if they haven't shared it. But anyways, the point I was trying to make is that life itself is never really black n white, but has several shades of grey hence my saying we should show some empathy especially since we don't know the cause of their infertility. 1 Like |
Re: . by tellwisdom: 3:20pm On Oct 02, 2015 |
eyinjuege: How then do you render assistance when every sensitive parts are kept secret from your assumed helper?? Abeg make i hear word |
Re: . by cococandy(f): 4:02pm On Oct 02, 2015 |
@OP, Goodluck madam. @ifyalways, I'm not aware of Lagos processes but someone I know in umuahia spent more than 500k during her adoption. I believe it can get that expensive. Although I've kept wondering why. Is it that those officials try to make it hard for them because they know how desperate they are to have kids? I was even thinking it should be almost free since they want to help those kids and give them homes. Apparently not. God help us. 5 Likes |
Re: . by prettyangel10(f): 4:48pm On Oct 02, 2015 |
@ op, I'm here to encourage u, though i dont have words now, but please accept my e-kisses and hugs. This too shall pass away. 2 Likes
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Re: . by prettyangel10(f): 4:53pm On Oct 02, 2015 |
@tellwisdom, this is for you. 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: . by ifyalways(f): 7:31pm On Oct 02, 2015 |
cococandy:Coco did the person go through the right channel or they went to a church/prayer house/ backyard " orphanage home"? I don't know how it works in other states but from what i've seen, it gets expensive cos folks want to cut corners. |
Re: . by Nobody: 9:46am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Ineedmychild, stop ******* your boss and running to church every Sunday! God is watching you. Focus on having a baby with your husband or start a legal adoption process. |
Re: . by oluafam: 3:07pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
tellwisdom:be careful about what you say to others. No one knows tomorrow. There are girls who had aborted yet had their children when they were ready. there are also those who got married as virgins yet can not conceive. @op, I feel your pains. Remember that God's time is the best. At His own time, He will give you your own children, flesh and blood. God be with you. |
Re: . by haftob(m): 8:34pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
Ineedmychild:Go and find more about IVF, it's not as expensive as u tink. I tink it's more cheaper in some hospitals than some. Ask around about cheaper IVFs centre. For u to be able to afford dos gynaecologists, u shud be able to afford IVFs in some hospitals. 1 Like |
Re: . by gazilion: 10:33pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
Ineedmychild: When it seems God is coming late, it's because he's coming BIG! Do not cast away your faith at just 33!! You will have your miracle Baby if you will keep trusting God - He never fails!!! |
Re: . by Richard216(m): 2:52pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
I agree with you on IVF dear. It does work so dont lose hope @IneedMychild. My daughter is product of IVF. My spouse and I were supported and shown love by all the staff at The Bridge Clinic. It really was a wonderful process. Your time will happen, no matter what, dont give up Blessings unto you! haftob: 1 Like |
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