Ineedmychild:
Also, as I said earlier, I'm closing the issue of baby factory and sincerely pray for everyone who commented never to experience TTC in JESUS name.

I actually was terribly depressed cos my monthly visitor showed up after going missing in action for 4days. I was hopeful and happy since I never missed a period in over 8yrs of my life. Is when it came, I really needed someone to talk to and weep on. I'm sorry if I insulted or reasoned irrationally.
Thanks to everyone once again.

eyinjuege:


50% of cases of infertility are due to male factors, so it may not necessarily be because OP had previous abortions or whatever.
Always try to show empathy to others though, cos life can be funny sometimes. Have you done a sperm count yet? You should, cos you just never can tell..

Jobabori:
@ Ifyalways if there is any help you can offer this madam, please find mean of meeting her and put her through the process
@ tellwisdom please if you cannot help, you should stop judging her. There are women who were regular at abortion in their spinster years and yet got married and were bearing children till they decided to stop it. There are also women who married as virgins and yet have problems like the one under discussion. There are some issues beyond human interpretations.

eyinjuege:


50% of cases of infertility are due to male factors, so it may not necessarily be because OP had previous abortions or whatever.
Always try to show empathy to others though, cos life can be funny sometimes. Have you done a sperm count yet? You should, cos you just never can tell..

If it was from the husband, she would undoubtedly state it...But as the case may be, he's fine. She must have coerced the poor man to marriage all to wail and whine with him for her hand made predicament.
Well, i don't think its a must to have a baby

ifyalways:
Baby factory like where they steal other people's children and put them up for sale to desperate folks like you?

Baby factory like where they keep young naive girls, raaaape them to get them pregnant, sell the babies and give the girls nothing or peanuts.

As you wish others, let it be unto you.

Ineedmychild:
As I type this, I am in tears and depression.

I do not want insults or rebuke. neither I'm I looking for young people to comment. This is strictly for well matured minds, so if you're not well-matured, don't bother reading further.

I'm 33, hubby 44. Our marraige will be 8yrs this month.
No issue of ours yet. We can't afford IVF and still cope with its below 50% success rates. We've tried everything medical(except IVF). Gynecologists and Professors have treated us BUT as it stands now, we are simply tired of trying to conceive. We even took herbs too at some point later.
We also tried Adoption but the process is terribly discouraging. Lagos State is not helping matters on Adoption policies for genuine couples who are truly chidless.

We have suffered so much mockery, jests and insults from all parties(in-laws, friends etc).

I need sincere addresses of genuine baby factories in Lagos (if any) or anywhere in Akwa-Ibom. Also, I wouldn't mind any Eastern state in Nigeria.

I am simply tired of seeing my husband age daily with no one to call his own . It depresses me more when his birthday is approaching. We both feel sad 90% of the time.

Trying-to-Conceive is what I wouldn't wish my enemy.

Thanks for reading, I await your responses.

cc: RoyalRoy

tellwisdom:


If it was from the husband, she would undoubtedly state it...But as the case may be, he's fine. She must have coerced the poor man to marriage all to wail and whine with him for her hand made predicament.
Well, i don't think its a must to have a baby

eyinjuege:


Most people wouldn't want to embarrass the people they love by broadcasting such a sensitive issue, and won't even be as specific as readers would want. A person's medical history should be held sacred, and we should respect that if they haven't shared it.
But anyways, the point I was trying to make is that life itself is never really black n white, but has several shades of grey hence my saying we should show some empathy especially since we don't know the cause of their infertility.

How then do you render assistance when every sensitive parts are kept secret from your assumed helper?? Abeg make i hear word

cococandy:
@OP, Goodluck madam.

@ifyalways, I'm not aware of Lagos processes but someone I know in umuahia spent more than 500k during her adoption. I believe it can get that expensive.

Although I've kept wondering why. Is it that those officials try to make it hard for them because they know how desperate they are to have kids?
I was even thinking it should be almost free since they want to help those kids and give them homes.
Apparently not.

God help us.

tellwisdom:
Wetin u take ur youthful age do??..Na that old man i pity

Ineedmychild:
As I type this, I am in tears and depression.

I do not want insults or rebuke. neither I'm I looking for young people to comment. This is strictly for well matured minds, so if you're not well-matured, don't bother reading further.

I'm 33, hubby 44. Our marraige will be 8yrs this month.
No issue of ours yet. We can't afford IVF and still cope with its below 50% success rates. We've tried everything medical(except IVF). Gynecologists and Professors have treated us BUT as it stands now, we are simply tired of trying to conceive. We even took herbs too at some point later.
We also tried Adoption but the process is terribly discouraging. Lagos State is not helping matters on Adoption policies for genuine couples who are truly chidless.

We have suffered so much mockery, jests and insults from all parties(in-laws, friends etc).

I need sincere addresses of genuine baby factories in Lagos (if any) or anywhere in Akwa-Ibom. Also, I wouldn't mind any Eastern state in Nigeria.

I am simply tired of seeing my husband age daily with no one to call his own . It depresses me more when his birthday is approaching. We both feel sad 90% of the time.

Trying-to-Conceive is what I wouldn't wish my enemy.

Thanks for reading, I await your responses.

cc: RoyalRoy

Ineedmychild:
As I type this, I am in tears and depression.

I do not want insults or rebuke. neither I'm I looking for young people to comment. This is strictly for well matured minds, so if you're not well-matured, don't bother reading further.

I'm 33, hubby 44. Our marraige will be 8yrs this month.
No issue of ours yet. We can't afford IVF and still cope with its below 50% success rates. We've tried everything medical(except IVF). Gynecologists and Professors have treated us BUT as it stands now, we are simply tired of trying to conceive. We even took herbs too at some point later.
We also tried Adoption but the process is terribly discouraging. Lagos State is not helping matters on Adoption policies for genuine couples who are truly chidless.

We have suffered so much mockery, jests and insults from all parties(in-laws, friends etc).

I need sincere addresses of genuine baby factories in Lagos (if any) or anywhere in Akwa-Ibom. Also, I wouldn't mind any Eastern state in Nigeria.

I am simply tired of seeing my husband age daily with no one to call his own . It depresses me more when his birthday is approaching. We both feel sad 90% of the time.

Trying-to-Conceive is what I wouldn't wish my enemy.

Thanks for reading, I await your responses.

cc: RoyalRoy

haftob:

Go and find more about IVF, it's not as expensive as u tink. I tink it's more cheaper in some hospitals than some. Ask around about cheaper IVFs centre. For u to be able to afford dos gynaecologists, u shud be able to afford IVFs in some hospitals.