This is just an advice from a guy who have tasted both sides and found that a
broke guy who is in relationship is not being true to himself.
To be honest, most of what we have heard about relationship are unfounded.
Nobody will love you for who you are when you don’t have shi shi. That’s just
the truth.
Even the independent ladies who don’t want your money will want someone
who’s settled in their life. For them, finding a partner is about finding someone
who fits into their lifestyle and plans for the future. That includes things that
cost money.
Below are the reasons why broke guys should forget dating for now.
1. You are not ready for it:
You may want it but honestly you don’t need it. You need to be thinking of a
master plan. You need to re-prioritize your life and get busy with something.
Anybody who is having some major financial struggles needs to be focused on
getting that together, not dating. get your act together THEN date.
2. You Ego will be Bruised :
Money does matter in our society, way too much. A person’s ability to eat and
look good and get medicine in time of need and take care of your woman are
the things that makes one a man. Think about it, she called you on phone and
asked for money and you gave her the same answer. “I no get”. Then you
found out much later that she somehow got the money. You ask and was told
that she got it from another guy. Your heart is darned if he is one of her
admirers that you are aware of.
3. It is a Distraction :
A broke guy needs all the time in the world alone to sort out things and having
a woman who will add some few loads to his already bent shoulder will do
him no good. Don’t tell me he needs a woman’s support because a good
female friend supports one more than his girlfriend. You don’t need that extra
load.
4. You will be Cheated:
On You read me right. Girls have the habit of getting bored of things quickly,
this is due to who they are, which is coupled with the pressures of society.
Society always wants them to get the newest and latest thing, so one day she
will get tired of hoping and waiting and accept that guy who has been
disturbing her. She may not tell you about it because she wouldn’t want to hurt
you so you end up being cheated on.
5. You will be Friendszoned :
She likes you but cannot continue to date you because you cannot take care
of her needs. So she would friendzone you in other not to lose you completely.
At least there is something you are good at and she will keep your friendship
because of that. Women are smart walahi
6. She won’t feel Loved:
Since traditionally men are the ones that pay for dates, it is impossible then to
prove your love when there is no shi shi. How can you surprise her? How can
you take her out on a date or buy her gifts? How can you say you love her
when she cannot rely on you when she is broke?
7. You will be dumped:
Not because she doesn’t love you but because You are not the right material
for a woman who has marriage and raising a family in her agenda. You may
be lucky to get someone who will stand by you but a goal without a deadline is
just a dream. She will eventually get tired of hoping and give up.
Your Bottom will be dumped. Sorry!....
I know that all people deserve to be loved no matter who or what they are but
money is very important in every relationship so I think a man that cannot
afford to date needs to wait.

Broken heart

U only need money when u chase a gal,u don't need it wen a gal chase u......

if I continue listening to all this romacelanders,I swear my mate go marry finish while me never get gf..

Hmmm who fine boy help,ask oshimole.

This thread corroborates what is happening in my life ryt now... she has been so supportive n persevering but now she is tired....I guess I shouldn't force it. .it's time to let go

She declared her mind just last Tuesday

Can someone advice me on a better way to end it

Folanky:
U only need money when u chase a gal,u don't need it wen a gal chase u......

why will gal chase You when you Have nothing to offer?

Op You are really right...

I didn't read all but I read the part where you said nobody will love you for who you are blah blah blah


I'm happy to tell you that you are totally wrong on that! In all ramifications



My very first love was ready to go anywhere for me even though I had no money,we only did not have a relationship because I thought she was too beautiful to not be catered for financially



She still wouldn't let me go though...till she moved





God bless that girl wherever she is

honesty now I think I need a sugar mummy. 09099943029

Op all your points are wrong!

It only applies when the love is not true and it's only concerned with returned profit. If the love is true on both sides. A lady won't have any issue irrespective of how broke her partner is. Instead she would strive with him until both are successful.

OP, i just dey look you

So broke girls can go ahead and date abi ?

olajorn:
why will gal chase You when you Have nothing to offer?

Op You are really right...

. Gals ar nt only interested in money,though it complement,on campus here u don't really need much moni,jst gat som skills u ar gud to go

happykidArotiba:
This is just an advice from a guy who have tasted both sides and found that a
broke guy who is in relationship is not being true to himself.
To be honest, most of what we have heard about relationship are unfounded.
Nobody will love you for who you are when you don’t have shi shi. That’s just
the truth.
Even the independent ladies who don’t want your money will want someone
who’s settled in their life. For them, finding a partner is about finding someone
who fits into their lifestyle and plans for the future. That includes things that
cost money.
Below are the reasons why broke guys should forget dating for now.
1. You are not ready for it:
You may want it but honestly you don’t need it. You need to be thinking of a
master plan. You need to re-prioritize your life and get busy with something.
Anybody who is having some major financial struggles needs to be focused on
getting that together, not dating. get your act together THEN date.
2. You Ego will be Bruised :
Money does matter in our society, way too much. A person’s ability to eat and
look good and get medicine in time of need and take care of your woman are
the things that makes one a man. Think about it, she called you on phone and
asked for money and you gave her the same answer. “I no get”. Then you
found out much later that she somehow got the money. You ask and was told
that she got it from another guy. Your heart is darned if he is one of her
admirers that you are aware of.
3. It is a Distraction :
A broke guy needs all the time in the world alone to sort out things and having
a woman who will add some few loads to his already bent shoulder will do
him no good. Don’t tell me he needs a woman’s support because a good
female friend supports one more than his girlfriend. You don’t need that extra
load.
4. You will be Cheated:
On You read me right. Girls have the habit of getting bored of things quickly,
this is due to who they are, which is coupled with the pressures of society.
Society always wants them to get the newest and latest thing, so one day she
will get tired of hoping and waiting and accept that guy who has been
disturbing her. She may not tell you about it because she wouldn’t want to hurt
you so you end up being cheated on.
5. You will be Friendszoned :
She likes you but cannot continue to date you because you cannot take care
of her needs. So she would friendzone you in other not to lose you completely.
At least there is something you are good at and she will keep your friendship
because of that. Women are smart walahi
6. She won’t feel Loved:
Since traditionally men are the ones that pay for dates, it is impossible then to
prove your love when there is no shi shi. How can you surprise her? How can
you take her out on a date or buy her gifts? How can you say you love her
when she cannot rely on you when she is broke?
7. You will be dumped:
Not because she doesn’t love you but because You are not the right material
for a woman who has marriage and raising a family in her agenda. You may
be lucky to get someone who will stand by you but a goal without a deadline is
just a dream. She will eventually get tired of hoping and give up.
Your Bottom will be dumped. Sorry!....
I know that all people deserve to be loved no matter who or what they are but
money is very important in every relationship so I think a man that cannot
afford to date needs to wait.

and when would I see the reasons why broke ladies shouldn't date


anoda dumb thread on a Monday morning

Please what do you really mean when you say a guy is broke? Because being broke might mean one thing to you and mean another to someone else.

its simple, some girls can have an instant orgasm wen u ask fr their acct.no

khassy:


and when would I see the reasons why broke ladies shouldn't date


anoda dumb thread on a Monday morning

2 dumb people lyk yo!!!! jus sayin

Vinshu:
Op all your points are wrong!

It only applies when the love is not true and it's only concerned with returned profit. If the love is true on both sides. A lady won't have any issue irrespective of how broke her partner is. Instead she would strive with him until both are successful.

dis is jus based on d fact fact dat all heads in dis life jus wanna date.....not tinking twice, u got2 understand dis...

face the fact if you be broke guy you will get no respect and your gf can even be receiving guys calls in your presence and there is nothing you can do

tosyne2much:
OP, i just dey look you


So broke girls can go ahead and date abi ?

dude, dont 4get dey r looking up 2 us...even d successful ladies still look up 2 d us for a beta life...jus sayin

happykidArotiba:
dude, dont 4get dey r looking up 2 us...even d successful ladies still look up 2 d us for a beta life...jus sayin

Yeah you are so on point bro

happykidArotiba:
dis is jus based on d fact fact dat all heads in dis life jus wanna date.....not tinking twice, u got2 understand dis...

Not all heads

Vinshu:

Not all heads

lyk seriously?

hbpeze:
face the fact if you be broke guy you will get no respect and your gf can even be receiving guys calls in your presence and there is nothing you can do

Do you think being not broke would in any way still deter her from receiving other guys' call??