Is it right for a guy to tell his babe not to visit any other guy??
Let's say most of these guys are her toasters, and they disturbing her to pay a visit(you know the drill). Will you allow your babe go with the mindset she can take care of herself?
Or will you tell or ORDER her not to try such with reasons?

A friend of mine told me her boyfriend ORDERED her not to visit any other guy, and I was surprised a guy can authoritatively tell her babe such. To me its an infringe on her freedom.

If you are a guy and you can order your girl like that please state your reasons for the order.

And to the ladies, can you obey such other from your boyfriend?

Trust plays a major role here...
#datsall

donTbone:
Trust plays a major role here...
#datsall

so if you have that trust in your girl, can you allow her visit male friends and even toasters??

stupidity:
so if you have that trust in your girl, can you allow her visit male friends and even toasters??

Trust me, she is free to! I toast others too,
and I av toasters too. if she could trust my
fidelity with them, then I can trust hers with
theirs too!

What is she visiting her "toasters" for if she already has a boyfriend? Where dat happen at It makes no sense. To my understanding, toasters, are other guys also interested in her in a romantic sense, so it's a no brainer that the guy she's IN a relationship with, would have issues with that. It's not about control but RESPECT-respecting him, herself & their relationship.

PunkyVeer:
What is she visiting her "toasters" for if she already has a boyfriend? Where dat happen at It makes no sense. To my understanding, toasters, are other guys also interested in her in a romantic sense, so it's a no brainer that the guy she's IN a relationship with, would have issues with that. It's not about control but RESPECT-respecting him, herself & their relationship.

Exactly! but she myt still have her reason. Mind you, you ladies have some good friends before that surprisingly turned out to be a toaster! its just her own decision to go on the visit no her BF's!

PunkyVeer:
What is she visiting her "toasters" for if she already has a boyfriend? Where dat happen at It makes no sense. To my understanding, toasters, are other guys also interested in her in a romantic sense, so it's a no brainer that the guy she's IN a relationship with, would have issues with that. It's not about control but RESPECT-respecting him, herself & their relationship.

well said. "Respecting him" makes more sense to me.

A woman or man should not visit toasters unless they are in an open relationship or they intend to end the old and begin a new one with the toaster.
Why would anyone visit a toaster if they dont have any feeling for them? Not as if when you and toaster are alone in a room they wont try something funny.
Any boy or girl that visits toaster for visiting sake is a deceptive partner.

stupidity:
well said. "Respecting him" makes more sense to me.

Visiting her toasters doesn't mean she z disrespecting you. The blunt truth is that, she needs to still be friends to them! take it or leave it

donTbone:


Exactly! but she myt still have her reason. Mind you, you ladies have some good friends before that surprisingly turned out to be a toaster! its just her own decision to go on the visit no her BF's!

Hmmm..

Maybe as ladies we operate on different levels, because, if someone shows interest in me & I'm not interested in him, there's no way in hell I'm paying that person any kind of visit, to avoid sending him mixed signals. I guess I like people to know where they stand with me. Plus visiting them? Really? For what? Sounds like a waste of time to me. To each their own. Just as long as she won't complain of rape after because what business does a gazelle have visiting a lion's den? Senseless

PunkyVeer:


Hmmm..

Maybe as ladies we operate on different levels, because, if someone shows interest in me & I'm not interested in him, there's no way in hell I'm paying that person any kind of visit, to avoid sending him mixed signals. I guess I like people to know where they stand with me. Plus visiting them? Really? For what? Sounds like a waste of time to me. To each their own. Just as long as she won't complain of rape after because what business does a gazelle have visiting a lion's den? Senseless

loving your post.
Before now, I had no problem with my bae visiting male friends. After creating this post, I got thinking there will always be a badt sharp guy out there that can break a girl into touching down with him during these visits. This is where rape comes in also.

PunkyVeer:


Hmmm..

Maybe as ladies we operate on different levels, because, if someone shows interest in me & I'm not interested in him, there's no way in hell I'm paying that person any kind of visit, to avoid sending him mixed signals. I guess I like people to know where they stand with me. Plus visiting them? Really? For what? Sounds like a waste of time to me. To each their own. Just as long as she won't complain of rape after because what business does a gazelle have visiting a lion's den? Senseless

Hmmmmmmmm
There z a point there though

delishpot:
A woman or man should not visit toasters unless they are in an open relationship or they intend to end the old and begin a new one with the toaster.
Why would anyone visit a toaster if they dont have any feeling for them? Not as if when you and toaster are alone in a room they wont try something funny.
Any boy or girl that visits toaster for visiting sake is a deceptive partner.

well said!!! Girls in relationships should know that paying their toasters a visit would make them(guys) think they(girls) are into them.

donTbone:


Trust me, she is free to! I toast others too,
and I av toasters too. if she could trust my
fidelity with them, then I can trust hers with
theirs too!

if you are already in a relationship and you also toast others, isn't that infidelity? I guess u are of the notion she's free to do whatever she likes while you do same. It doesn't work like that bro.

stupidity:
if you are already in a relationship and you also toast others, isn't that infidelity? I guess u are of the notion she's free to do whatever she likes while you do same. It doesn't work like that bro.

First, whats d definition of Toast?
I just approach not to be infidel, but just to tease am make friends. Am not in any relationship, but any av been in, I hold fidelity more importantly than anything! Av never been an infidel even though I av many female friends, so I xpect her to do same too...

donTbone:

First, whats d definition of Toast?
I just approach not to be infidel, but just to tease am make friends. Am not in any relationship, but any av been in, I hold fidelity more importantly than anything! Av never been an infidel even though I av many female friends, so I xpect her to do same too...

ok, I gat u bro