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How To Land A Sugar Mummy (must Read For All Guys Looking For Sugar Mama) by money121(m): 5:01pm On Oct 07, 2015
While the term ‘Sugar Mummy’ typically refers to wealthy women, older than their male counterparts, the term can be used to refer to any woman of any age who financially provides for her man.

Generally speaking, this type of woman is partial to a younger man with whom she can have fun, instead of older gentlemen who may bring serious financial obligations and family

expectations. The Sugar Mummy has money and she wants to trade it for a wild time.

Men, too, should be lavished with expensive dinners and have extraordinary gifts offered to them by their dates.

Women have been suckling at these perks for years, so it only seems fair that men should start to enjoy them as well.

But before you can land yourself a Sugar Mummy, you need to understand what you will have to bring to the table.

That may sound easy and perhaps tripe, but constantly keeping a woman happy is no small feat.

You must surrender to the psychological, the social and sexual.

Finding Her :

Because financially independent women are much more rare, finding your Sugar Mummy will take some additional effort on your behalf. As cliché as it might sound, the Internet is a perfect place to start. There are several websites that promote wealthy women looking for men.

Such websites include: seekingsugarmama.com, dateamillionarie.com, and shugamama.com. These websites (amongst many others) are an easy access for someone to find that right fit.

If you can’t find your match online then you are going to have to go out and find her in-person.

This will require a bit of research on your part. Investigate where the wealthy hang out in your city or town. There are a few likely places where your potential Sugar Mama will hang out, but be aware that these places will undoubtedly come with a cost.

Wealthy women are usually high-society socialites and, as such, tend to hold memberships at posh establishments, country clubs and fitness centers.

Upscale bars, art galleries, cultural events, charity galas and quality casinos are all part of this valuable vixen’s social circle. Joining these clubs and attending these events may dent your bank account at first but this approach will get you up close and personal with a potential Sugar Mummy.

The Pickup :

A Sugar Mummy rarely travels in packs. She is either solo or with a single friend and oozes confidence. Regardless of wealth and confidence, all women seek attention. It is important that you give her the attention she craves while maintaining that she has to work to keep your interest.
Remember, she has to be enthralled by you so don’t come on strong. The goal is to get her to pick you up. You are her prize so it is imperative that you are well groomed, charismatic and, most importantly, fun - you should exude the youthful, carefree attitude she envies. Recognize that being fun is far different than simply being silly – Don’t act immature.

The First Date
:

Most men make huge mistakes when suggesting a first date, lacking both originality and thought. Innovation will go a long way in your favor. Find out her tastes and interests in the initial conversations and make mental notes along the way to help you come up with an innovative first date idea. This is the time to impress her with what you have to offer. Since it’s not money, it is imperative that you take the focus off monetary things and place your value on the intangibles.

On your date, get her to talk about herself every chance you get.

By engaging her with interesting and thoughtful dialog, you will leave a lasting impression that is sure to secure a second date. Keep in mind, the first date will dictate any future opportunities or close all doors.

The Relationship :

Once you have landed her, she's going to want to be in control of most things. She has the money and she is used to owning things. Expect this attitude from her but never let yourself become a possession of hers - you will have to give up some control but you should never give it up entirely. Swallow some pride to keep her happy. If she buys you something, wear it. She may expect you to look a certain way or maintain a particular image.

You lose some power over your wardrobe and some of your activities but you will be compensated handsomely.
Seduce her mind and send her sexy thoughts throughout the day. Continuously make her feel special, as if she is the only somebody that matters. Keep it fresh.

In the bedroom you will have much more control over her – take it. Dominate her here and you will get anything you want.

Her Psyche :

Have you ever stopped to wonder why a woman that seems to have everything is so willing to pay anything to the right companion? Thoughts of men only being interested in her money, rather than her as a person, is surely in the back of her mind.

Nevertheless, loneliness is a more unsettling thought - so your trinkets, trips and toys are just part of the deal. Your relationship is more of an arrangement. It’s about what you can do for her and what she can do for you.

Women have fought to carve out their places in society and many of them have reached financial success beyond their counterparts. There has been a tremendous evolution of the female psyche and many have been liberated past the notion of serve her man.

The Sugar Mama wants to “get served” by a younger, less complicated, less dramatic relationship – so what if she has to pull out the credit card to get it. Men have been playing this role forever without any qualms from society; it’s time your woman treated you.

Like in any relationship you set out for, know the rules and understand the roles and expectations. Life can be viewed as one big game and everyone involved has a position. Be confident and aware of the type of woman you choose to be with. Make no mistake that a Sugar Mummy is very clear on what she wants and is even clearer on what she will put out to get it. So put your game face on!

- See more at: http://www.gistmelove..com/2015/10/how-to-land-sugar-mummy-must-read-for.html


NOTE: Strictly for All sugar mummy lover grin grin grin

Re: How To Land A Sugar Mummy (must Read For All Guys Looking For Sugar Mama) by gab264(m): 5:12pm On Oct 07, 2015
money121:
While the term ‘Sugar Mummy’ typically refers to wealthy women, older than their male counterparts, the term can be used to refer to any woman of any age who financially provides for her man.

Generally speaking, this type of woman is partial to a younger man with whom she can have fun, instead of older gentlemen who may bring serious financial obligations and family

expectations. The Sugar Mummy has money and she wants to trade it for a wild time.

Men, too, should be lavished with expensive dinners and have extraordinary gifts offered to them by their dates.

Women have been suckling at these perks for years, so it only seems fair that men should start to enjoy them as well.

But before you can land yourself a Sugar Mummy, you need to understand what you will have to bring to the table.

READ ALSO: 60 Ladies From Different States Available For HookUps Your goal with any Sugar Mummy is always the same – Keep her happy.

That may sound easy and perhaps tripe, but constantly keeping a woman happy is no small feat.

You must surrender to the psychological, the social and sexual.

Finding Her :

Because financially independent women are much more rare, finding your Sugar Mummy will take some additional effort on your behalf. As cliché as it might sound, the Internet is a perfect place to start. There are several websites that promote wealthy women looking for men.

Such websites include: seekingsugarmama.com, dateamillionarie.com, and shugamama.com. These websites (amongst many others) are an easy access for someone to find that right fit.

If you can’t find your match online then you are going to have to go out and find her in-person.

This will require a bit of research on your part. Investigate where the wealthy hang out in your city or town. There are a few likely places where your potential Sugar Mama will hang out, but be aware that these places will undoubtedly come with a cost.

Wealthy women are usually high-society socialites and, as such, tend to hold memberships at posh establishments, country clubs and fitness centers.

Upscale bars, art galleries, cultural events, charity galas and quality casinos are all part of this valuable vixen’s social circle. Joining these clubs and attending these events may dent your bank account at first but this approach will get you up close and personal with a potential Sugar Mummy.

The Pickup :

A Sugar Mummy rarely travels in packs. She is either solo or with a single friend and oozes confidence. Regardless of wealth and confidence, all women seek attention. It is important that you give her the attention she craves while maintaining that she has to work to keep your interest.
Remember, she has to be enthralled by you so don’t come on strong. The goal is to get her to pick you up. You are her prize so it is imperative that you are well groomed, charismatic and, most importantly, fun - you should exude the youthful, carefree attitude she envies. Recognize that being fun is far different than simply being silly – Don’t act immature.

The First Date :

Most men make huge mistakes when suggesting a first date, lacking both originality and thought. Innovation will go a long way in your favor. Find out her tastes and interests in the initial conversations and make mental notes along the way to help you come up with an innovative first date idea. This is the time to impress her with what you have to offer. Since it’s not money, it is imperative that you take the focus off monetary things and place your value on the intangibles.

On your date, get her to talk about herself every chance you get.

By engaging her with interesting and thoughtful dialog, you will leave a lasting impression that is sure to secure a second date. Keep in mind, the first date will dictate any future opportunities or close all doors.

The Relationship :

Once you have landed her, she's going to want to be in control of most things. She has the money and she is used to owning things. Expect this attitude from her but never let yourself become a possession of hers - you will have to give up some control but you should never give it up entirely. Swallow some pride to keep her happy. If she buys you something, wear it. She may expect you to look a certain way or maintain a particular image.

You lose some power over your wardrobe and some of your activities but you will be compensated handsomely.
Seduce her mind and send her sexy thoughts throughout the day. Continuously make her feel special, as if she is the only somebody that matters. Keep it fresh.

In the bedroom you will have much more control over her – take it. Dominate her here and you will get anything you want.

Her Psyche :

Have you ever stopped to wonder why a woman that seems to have everything is so willing to pay anything to the right companion? Thoughts of men only being interested in her money, rather than her as a person, is surely in the back of her mind.

Nevertheless, loneliness is a more unsettling thought - so your trinkets, trips and toys are just part of the deal. Your relationship is more of an arrangement. It’s about what you can do for her and what she can do for you.

Women have fought to carve out their places in society and many of them have reached financial success beyond their counterparts. There has been a tremendous evolution of the female psyche and many have been liberated past the notion of serve her man.

The Sugar Mama wants to “get served” by a younger, less complicated, less dramatic relationship – so what if she has to pull out the credit card to get it. Men have been playing this role forever without any qualms from society; it’s time your woman treated you.

Like in any relationship you set out for, know the rules and understand the roles and expectations. Life can be viewed as one big game and everyone involved has a position. Be confident and aware of the type of woman you choose to be with. Make no mistake that a Sugar Mummy is very clear on what she wants and is even clearer on what she will put out to get it. So put your game face on!

- See more at: http://www.gistmelove..com/2015/10/how-to-land-sugar-mummy-must-read-for.html


NOTE: Strictly for All sugar mummy lover grin grin grin
No moral in humans again"
what about (salt mummies??
Re: How To Land A Sugar Mummy (must Read For All Guys Looking For Sugar Mama) by Nobody: 8:06pm On Oct 07, 2015
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