Hi everyone in tђε̲̣̣̣̥ house. This is my first time of creating a topic here on NL,I have been a regular on this forum reading topics,advice,solutions τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ problems as well as insult been given τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ pple. Who seek them....αη∂ thus my story......

It all started after my chick in school(while in 200L) started mis behaving toward M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ after we,v dated for about 1 year plus she was bl**ping. My frnd's friend. Right under my nose,I got τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ know abt this through my friend αη∂ I was so heart broken,so I opted for a back up chick just τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ distract M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ from loving my gf cos I was ŗęālly crazy abt her(like say she jazzzed M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥).Τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ cut story short na so M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ αη∂ this my backup chick started dating oo I never had any plan for other than been a chic I think would distract M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ from my enemy gf. But I along tђε̲̣̣̣̥ line I discover that tђε̲̣̣̣̥ more I be with her tђε̲̣̣̣̥ more I want τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ be with her cos she is so crazy abt M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ infact I realised how cool it feels having a girl trying all it takes τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ please you.(It realy feels cool cos I have teasted tђε̲̣̣̣̥ under side of tђε̲̣̣̣̥ mater which is not realy a position any man should find his self).we continued for 2 yrs αη∂ by then I have developed some love for her. However our love knew no bound until we had a certificate τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ show for it(a girl child) Τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ make thing right as man,I married her after 2 yrs of graduating by then our daughter is 5yrs. Problem started of late when she started complaining virtually about anything I do she so stubborn for M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ αη∂ because of her level of education (ssce holder) she has chosen τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ deliberately mis conceive in any issue we discuss,we never
Ά̲̣̣̣̥я̣̣̥ε̲̣̣̣̥ on tђε̲̣̣̣̥ same page,we always argue about almost anything. I forgot τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ add that she's got anger issue,even her mum knows about it,once her anger comes ,she can insult αη∂ disrespect M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ even in tђε̲̣̣̣̥ presence of our child. Its not like i am a perfect person but I know I am not bad ma self cos I have a
Very high tolerance threshold αη∂ my mum knows this too.if I cmplain abt somebody just know that its has realy gotten into my head. Τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ cut everything short I think we've both fallen out of love αη∂ I. Am thinking of calling it a quit cos I cannot cope with this any more cos she trying τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ take advantage of my simple personality. We only did traditional marriage we've not done court or wed in church.pleas my dear pple I need ur advice

pls d poster below me should read and advice d OP

Y naa, the matter tire you. Poster above..

I dont understand.

Complicated

too long...

Since the problem started of late...
I'll advise you

1. first sit and think on how in one way or the other you might have contributed to such new development.

2. Try to sit her and talk to her about how you feel about these and ask what can be done.

3. Read books on improving your relatoinship, seek to understand her more, spice up your marriage, stop the routin, go with her for counseling, constantly affirm your love to her, let her fill appreciated.

Your marriage is important to you, thats why you are here.

Do not threaten her with divorce. Don't speak the language (even with your body) let divorce be the last thing you will think about your marriaiage (never do).

I wish you great improvement on your marriage

If only the OP could type in letters not blocks

Op didn't you notice her anger ish wen u were dating

The rate at which guys claim simple personality on Nairaland though...

i'd prescribe sum1 that handles such matter cc Punkyveer

AmakaDNBStories:
The rate at which guys claim simple personality on Nairaland though...

Lolz u dey mind them

SenhorSean:
i'd prescribe sum1 that handles such matter
cc Punkyveer

Lol, so now I'm the agony aunt? I feel so embarrassed

Why did you start by talking about your ex gf? That part was completely unnecessary. Pls forgive your wife, talk to her about how you feel, hopefully she will change. Marriage should not be what you should just walk out on like that, it's a sacred union.

Marriage is for better for worst, u have enjoyed the better side now it's time to face the worst side try to enjoy it as well. Goodluck

PunkyVeer:

Lol, so now I'm the agony aunt? I feel so embarrassed

No offence. i supposed OP needed an advice from u.

Op i don't have any advice for you,but on the contrary i have a piece of an advise for you.

"See finish syndrome" its normal sha,but believe me,this too shall pass.

virtue123:
Hi everyone in tђε̲̣̣̣̥ house. This is my first time of creating a topic here on NL,I have been a regular on this forum reading topics,advice,solutions τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ problems as well as insult been given τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ pple. Who seek them....αη∂ thus my story......

It all started after my chick in school(while in 200L) started mis behaving toward M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ after we,v dated for about 1 year plus she was bl**ping. My frnd's friend. Right under my nose,I got τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ know abt this through my friend αη∂ I was so heart broken,so I opted for a back up chick just τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ distract M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ from loving my gf cos I was ŗęālly crazy abt her(like say she jazzzed M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥).Τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ cut story short na so M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ αη∂ this my backup chick started dating oo I never had any plan for other than been a chic I think would distract M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ from my enemy gf. But I along tђε̲̣̣̣̥ line I discover that tђε̲̣̣̣̥ more I be with her tђε̲̣̣̣̥ more I want τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ be with her cos she is so crazy abt M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ infact I realised how cool it feels having a girl trying all it takes τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ please you.(It realy feels cool cos I have teasted tђε̲̣̣̣̥ under side of tђε̲̣̣̣̥ mater which is not realy a position any man should find his self).we continued for 2 yrs αη∂ by then I have developed some love for her. However our love knew no bound until we had a certificate τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ show for it(a girl child) Τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ make thing right as man,I married her after 2 yrs of graduating by then our daughter is 5yrs. Problem started of late when she started complaining virtually about anything I do she so stubborn for M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ αη∂ because of her level of education (ssce holder) she has chosen τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ deliberately mis conceive in any issue we discuss,we never
Ά̲̣̣̣̥я̣̣̥ε̲̣̣̣̥ on tђε̲̣̣̣̥ same page,we always argue about almost anything. I forgot τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ add that she's got anger issue,even her mum knows about it,once her anger comes ,she can insult αη∂ disrespect M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ even in tђε̲̣̣̣̥ presence of our child. Its not like i am a perfect person but I know I am not bad ma self cos I have a
Very high tolerance threshold αη∂ my mum knows this too.if I cmplain abt somebody just know that its has realy gotten into my head. Τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ cut everything short I think we've both fallen out of love αη∂ I. Am thinking of calling it a quit cos I cannot cope with this any more cos she trying τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ take advantage of my simple personality. We only did traditional marriage we've not done court or wed in church.pleas my dear pple I need ur advice

1. your typing alone done pursue people.... how can someone who have this type of problem type using stylish fonts you must be joking

2. she is cheating.... she just dey find excuses wey she go take commot go meet her other guy

3. revenge relationships always ends like this

@op first and foremost u need to tell us the bus stop where u aboarded the bus in the first place........then in the second place where are u guys heading to..?

virtue123:
Hi everyone in tђε̲̣̣̣̥ house. This is my first time of creating a topic here on NL,I have been a regular on this forum reading topics,advice,solutions τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ problems as well as insult been given τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ pple. Who seek them....αη∂ thus my story......

It all started after my chick in school(while in 200L) started mis behaving toward M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ after we,v dated for about 1 year plus she was bl**ping. My frnd's friend. Right under my nose,I got τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ know abt this through my friend αη∂ I was so heart broken,so I opted for a back up chick just τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ distract M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ from loving my gf cos I was ŗęālly crazy abt her(like say she jazzzed M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥).Τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ cut story short na so M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ αη∂ this my backup chick started dating oo I never had any plan for other than been a chic I think would distract M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ from my enemy gf. But I along tђε̲̣̣̣̥ line I discover that tђε̲̣̣̣̥ more I be with her tђε̲̣̣̣̥ more I want τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ be with her cos she is so crazy abt M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ infact I realised how cool it feels having a girl trying all it takes τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ please you.(It realy feels cool cos I have teasted tђε̲̣̣̣̥ under side of tђε̲̣̣̣̥ mater which is not realy a position any man should find his self).we continued for 2 yrs αη∂ by then I have developed some love for her. However our love knew no bound until we had a certificate τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ show for it(a girl child) Τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ make thing right as man,I married her after 2 yrs of graduating by then our daughter is 5yrs. Problem started of late when she started complaining virtually about anything I do she so stubborn for M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ αη∂ because of her level of education (ssce holder) she has chosen τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ deliberately mis conceive in any issue we discuss,we never
Ά̲̣̣̣̥я̣̣̥ε̲̣̣̣̥ on tђε̲̣̣̣̥ same page,we always argue about almost anything. I forgot τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ add that she's got anger issue,even her mum knows about it,once her anger comes ,she can insult αη∂ disrespect M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ even in tђε̲̣̣̣̥ presence of our child. Its not like i am a perfect person but I know I am not bad ma self cos I have a
Very high tolerance threshold αη∂ my mum knows this too.if I cmplain abt somebody just know that its has realy gotten into my head. Τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ cut everything short I think we've both fallen out of love αη∂ I. Am thinking of calling it a quit cos I cannot cope with this any more cos she trying τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ take advantage of my simple personality. We only did traditional marriage we've not done court or wed in church.pleas my dear pple I need ur advice

. I think its low self esteem...Try n enroll her in an higher institution..

1. Well, God hates divorce so don't think about it.
2. If the foundation be faulty what can the righteous do.
3. In Marriage, God is the institution, Man Heads it and the wife helps it.
4. Invite God into your home, put in place all christian guidelines of home management and it will work.
5. If u can't talk to her, God can through His prophets by messages, marriage councels and deliverance. belong to a living church and attend marriage seminars wit ur wife.
6. Lastly be sure that it's not a lineage problem cos it would need deliverance