Hey, I have come again. Hello you babes.

What will be your response if you find out that your girlfriend (or boyfriend) was a lesbian (or gay). I mean will u dump him/her or what are you going to do about that as a person?

  i hope that doesn't happen to me.

haaaaaaaaaaa..

you didn't answer the question nike

WesleyanA:

i hope that doesn't happen to me.

it can happen to anybody o

If your boyfriend/girlfriend was 'formerly' gay/lesbian, then it is likely that he/she is probably still gay/lesbian! This means that your relationship is probably one of convenience and he/she will still be looking for ways to hook up with others of the same sex. This, in turn, means that you are quite likely to get an STD (such as HIV) through your 'formerly' gay partner!

If what I have said so far is not enough to convince you to consider dropping the relationship, then maybe you have indeed found true love?

Seun:

If your boyfriend/girlfriend was 'formerly' gay/lesbian, then it is likely that he/she is probably still gay/lesbian! This means that your relationship is probably one of convenience and he/she will still be looking for ways to hook up with others of the same sex. This, in turn, means that you are quite likely to get an STD (such as HIV) through your 'formerly' gay partner!

If what I have said so far is not enough to convince you to consider dropping the relationship, then maybe you have indeed found true love?

seun what if she doesn't have any feelings for same sex any more and she just wanna be straight

i dont agree with seun at all
i think u should stay in the relationship
wat of if he or she has changed?it could have been that the person was influenced by other person and was to young to use his or her sence and ended up falling into it
well as for the STD thats why it is good to see ur partners valid test results before having sex


people change you know

I'm sorry oh! But I'll dump him!

How can someone be FORMERLY gay/lesbian, it is for life, you can't be gay/lesbian one minute, and not the next. , what does that mean,?it doesn't make any sense at all.

CHANGE,wat??it is their sexuality,how can they CHANGE that?it is like saying you WERE formerly a woman, but are now a MAN, wat?doesn't make any sense at all.

my girlfriend a former lesbian please bring her on

Seriously, I thought when people say they are gay/lesbian, it means they were born that way? It's not supposed to change, or am I missing something here?

Or are those terms just used to describe people who delve into same sex relationships to fulfil their fantasies? Help me out here, guys! What's up with the "formerly"?

EXACTLY, pie 1 ect, I THOUGHT SO TOO O!!

There's no "FORMERLY"in the issue of sexuality, someone cannot be "FORMERLY" gay,lesbian, they are gay/lesbian, then they stay that way.someone's sexuality cannot be changed.


And if it DOES HAPPEN that Your Boyfriend/Girlfriend Used To Be a Gay/Lesbian which I TOTALLY "DOUBT" and I think does not make any sense "AT ALL" then YOU SHOULD RUN AWAY FROM HIM/HER AS FAST AS YOUR LEGS CAN CARRY YOU.

You cannot be TOO SURE that the person is not lieing to you, it's probably that they are bi sexual, you know, it's probably they like both boys and girls, something like that. So after the guy being with a guy, is then coming on to a girl, or the girl being with a girl, and then coming on to a guy.

So the person is most likely to be Bi - sexual, because there is NOTHING like being "FORMERLY" GaY/Lesbian,where did you get that idea come from Boatbaby, PLS NOTE: "NO OFFENCE"

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4 me oh.MBA! i go 4get all relationship joo.

Some people do just indulge in same sex relationships and therefore is possible that they've stopped! Alot of girls tend to play about when they are in boarding school and imagine a man who has been in prison for years (I've watched films and heard stiories) - they end up having no choice.

I wouldn't date a man who has slept with another man as that's really hard to do and he can do it again but women can just do it as a one off - 3some/fantasy/comfort etc etc.

I know - I have double standards.

thank u o jare at last someone has reasoned with me
i wanted to talk bout the boarding stuff thing but held my peace now that its out...........
someone especially a girl can change i promise u guys that
but that is if she wants to change oooooo

i reject it oh. but if @all it happens, i wil b shocked. i mean hw can i date some1 hu has loved sum1 of his own sex, shared his mouth dat i wd stil kiss and probably dey hav shared bodies(its nt wot u r thinkin oh. i aint sayin i wd share bodies wiv him ) bt if the love is really strong, i'll stik wiv him afterall, he 'used to be'.

why should i dump him just because he WAS gay? i mean he WAS not is right?

Dont dump him, BEN JONSON!!!

It's possible they could change but I would never date a man who had slept with another man before. NEVER!

One of them is supposedly in Chicago.

sorry if my bf was gay ,.? HE IS STILL GAY, sorry i cant be with a man knowing it can take the peeniis as well as i do,

Mrs.Chima:

One of them is supposedly in Chicago.

Amen @ Amina!

1. he/she could be bi---
2. his.her same sex sexual experience coulda been experimental/one off / drunken bout thingy
3. coulda been 'the boarding house' young girls' playing around thing
4. finally, yes, he / she can choose to suppress such urges

but i guess it's simpler/easier for chic than guys esp if the guy was d bottom,

Men can tolerate former female gays. But a woman shouldn't tolarate a former male gay! Yuck, gross, disgusting!