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"Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Tallesty1(m): 8:43am On Oct 11, 2015 |
A married woman was caught in the act here on Friday. It happened right in her husbands house so neighbours were there to witness what happened. I was there too to witness the taboo cause her husband was just shouting that whoever was around should come and witness a taboo. Sha, that is not why I am writing this post. What actually necessitated this post was a convo I had with a man on my way back. Man: It is stuffs like this that makes me appreciate where I come from. Me: Huh Man: I appreciate my village the more anytime I hear or witness something like this because married women don't cheat on their husband in my place. Me: How is that possible? Man: They Know what would happen to them if they dare cheat on their husband. Me: What will happen to them. Man: If a married woman sleeps with another man, or collects money from another man, or spends her husband's money on another man without telling her husband, she will run mad. Me: And if a man sleeps with another woman? Man: Nothing, except the woman has a husband. What he's saying in essence is that a married woman who sleeps with a man that is not her husband or collects money from a man who is not her relation or spends money on another man without informing her husband will lose her sanity. The madness is curable but she must confess her sins to regain her sanity. So Nairalanders, what do you think of this people's tradition? BTW, the man is from one village at obollo. 16 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Mynd44: 8:49am On Oct 11, 2015 |
So their tradition only recognises female adultery. Okay na. BTW, I think it is bullshìt. If anyone wants to be taken seriously, the same rules that apply to men should apply to women. 225 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Cutehector(m): 8:52am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Lol if dat kind of law was put in place in evry community in nigeria whch covers both men and women, den no one will cheat. 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by ammyluv2002(f): 8:52am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Mynd44:Well said! God bless you for dis 42 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Nobody: 8:52am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Obollo in Enugu state. Yeah so I heard. But it will finer if they should make it unisex! 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by MizMyColi(f): 8:53am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Mynd44: 6 Likes |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by xynerise: 8:53am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Many traditions have not been fair to the women. The men are free to cheat but the women can't because they are robots abi? Such tradition was created by a selfish man. On the contrary, I heard that a tradition in Edo state is doing the opposite. A woman cheats and the husband dies 86 Likes |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Tallesty1(m): 8:54am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Mynd44:Abi? I asked the same question in Facebook group yesterday and a guy from that village said that the reason it is applicable to only women is because the men paid their price(bride price). Didn't make much sense to me but @ least they have a reason. 12 Likes |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by eherbal(m): 8:56am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Because Some Women Are Very Loose. Why DO You Think Satan Approached Eve And Not Adam? Mynd44: 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Tallesty1(m): 8:56am On Oct 11, 2015 |
xynerise: In my village, if you know that your woman is cheating on you and yet you continue to eat her food, you will die. A woman that cheats and refuses to confess will run mad or die. But you are safe if you confess. Being a woman is really had. 8 Likes |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by MizMyColi(f): 8:58am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Such tradition, whether it is applicable to man or woman, or both is simply barbaric and crude. It must be vehemently rejected. It promotes murder and oppression/bondage. People should be free to make their choice and live with the consequence as meted to them by the cosmos. It's really not in the place of any mortal (exceptions though) to determine who lives or dies. Why destroy what you couldn't possibly create? #MyTake 28 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Tallesty1(m): 9:00am On Oct 11, 2015 |
vfactor:Maybe we should carry out an experiment. Let a woman from that place marry a man, ie marry him the same way man marry woman. Pay bride price and all....... Thereafter the man will cheat on her to know what will happen. If he runs mad then they should scrap paying bride price. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by xynerise: 9:01am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Tallesty1:And if she confesses, she lives? Wow! If I were her, confession will be my hobby 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by ammyluv2002(f): 9:02am On Oct 11, 2015 |
eherbal:Because women are very loose? 10 Likes |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Tallesty1(m): 9:02am On Oct 11, 2015 |
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Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Tallesty1(m): 9:03am On Oct 11, 2015 |
vfactor:Abi? Make everybody just lock up. 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Tallesty1(m): 9:04am On Oct 11, 2015 |
eherbal:I hope you are ready for this? E-attacks loading 2 Likes |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Nobody: 9:06am On Oct 11, 2015 |
the creator of the stupid law must be a male chauvinist, why would the law favor only the males. funniest thing,cheating isn't specific to a gender. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by ammyluv2002(f): 9:06am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Tallesty1:Back to sender! 2 Likes |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Tallesty1(m): 9:09am On Oct 11, 2015 |
xynerise:hahahahahahahahhahahaha onye mmehie. Men suffer it sometimes because the women are wise or should I say, wicked. Instead of telling the man what actually happened, you will hear something like. "a man touched me", "a man asked me out". Y'know.... Short and incomplete explanations like that. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Mynd44: 9:10am On Oct 11, 2015 |
eherbal:Tell that to someone who does not believe in the Bible. Next! 13 Likes |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Tallesty1(m): 9:10am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Nobody: 9:10am On Oct 11, 2015 |
The man dies if he knows his wife cheated and he's still eating her food...if he isn't aware then it's d children that dies. quote author=xynerise post=38871428]Many traditions have not been fair to the women. The men are free to cheat but the women can't because they are robots abi? Such tradition was created by a selfish man. On the contrary, I heard that a tradition in Edo state is doing the opposite. A woman cheats and the husband dies [/quote] |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Mynd44: 9:12am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Tallesty1:So because you paid her bride-price means you will be happy if she runs mad if she cheats. And they call themselves human beings. 12 Likes |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Tallesty1(m): 9:13am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Yomieluv:If you call the inventor of the law a chauvinist then what will you call the creator of the universe? He is not a chauvinist. Not even close to one. |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by xynerise: 9:19am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Tallesty1:Tradition like this can lead to temptation. If there is no law, there will be no sin. A woman whose husband beats her always doesn't need to bother herself. A way to eliminate the man smoothly is already in her hand 8 Likes |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Nobody: 9:29am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Cutehector:Tels you |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Tallesty1(m): 9:29am On Oct 11, 2015 |
xynerise:Plenty bad things full your mind walahi A woman bleeped outside and gave her man one of those short explanations, he bought it. My dear, come see madness. The man just dey pull out hairs from that area they chop am like grass, he was mad for a year then he died. Old men said he was silly, that he shouldn't have believed her story or better still, he should have told her that "he only believes what he witnessed" or that "he's only aware of what happened before him not behind him". According to them, the above statements mean that he believed only the one she told him and not the ones she refused to tell". Traditions dey! |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by lilmax(m): 9:30am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Then its time to relocate 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by eherbal(m): 9:32am On Oct 11, 2015 |
The Truth Is Hard To Swallow. Tallesty1: |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by eherbal(m): 9:35am On Oct 11, 2015 |
Edit:Beacuse SOME Women Are Very Loose! Whew! ammyluv2002: |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by SeverusSnape(m): 9:38am On Oct 11, 2015 |
eherbal:What a reply! 2 Likes |
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